How to understand the phrase love is like sand?

There's a story that if you hold a handful of sand in your hand and the tighter you hold it, the faster the sand will drain away, but if you give it a certain amount of space, it won't drain so quickly.

Many people use this sentence to describe love, saying that it is love, and you want to hold each other tightly in your hands, but in the end it will backfire. I'm a very clingy person, so you can imagine what kind of situation my object will be glued to every day. When he plays games, I talk to him, and then don't let him play games and talk to me, when he goes out to play with friends, I will let him take me, I wish I was pestering him every day, but then I gradually found that it seemed that he felt that he was eating me, and slowly his attitude towards me was not as good as before.

Realizing this problem, I began to distance myself from him, and I would go out with my friends in my spare time, go to the movies, and learn to make some small desserts. I play with my mobile phone to take the certificate, I do everything, try to keep myself busy, so I can't take care of him. Later, he took the initiative to chat with me and told me all kinds of interesting things, and the relationship between the two did not regress much.

Therefore, the old saying "a little don't win a newlywed" and "if the two love for a long time, how can it be in the morning and twilight" all make sense.

Therefore, if the two really want to be together, then what they have to do is to add a layer of plastic wrap to their relationship, which is the appropriate distance, so that everyone has their own things to do, and there is no need to chat together every day, and there is no topic to chat about, which is particularly bad for the relationship. Loosen the sand in your hand, and you might be pleasantly surprised.

Compare love to sand, sand is easy to lose, hold it in your hand will slowly slip away, the tighter you hold it, the faster it flows, this is to say that a love, if you need to maintain it yourself, it is not real love, no matter how hard you try, you can't keep it, so just let go, and the love that doesn't belong to you should let go as soon as possible.

A lot of emotions are like loose sand, the tighter you hold it, the faster it will drain away. In our lives, we will meet many people, and there are very few people who can accompany us through the journey. But each of them will accompany us through a certain journey, will teach us something, what we have to do, is to manage with heart and cherish it.

After this journey, some people will leave, and we should say goodbye with a smile, and only good memories are precious.

There are so many people in the world, we don't know who is the right person, we don't know who is really suitable for ourselves, many stupid times, we always find out that this person is not suitable for Youchun together after falling into a relationship.

Life is so long, we will not go smoothly, we will not go to the peak of life all at once, we always have to experience something, no matter what we meet, as long as we can stop the loss in time, then we are not afraid of meeting the wrong person.

That's right, love is selfish though. But you have to be considerate of the other person's feelings. Blindly getting tired of being entangled will only affect his feelings for you. At this time, if you doubt him again and become more aggressive against him, you can only produce a vicious circle.

Love, family affection, and friendship are all like this, if you grasp it too tightly, it will suffocate. Each other needs to have separate spaces.

It's a clam! Feelings are like that!

So give both parties free private space!

Don't look at him too closely!

Think about it from a different perspective, let's say you keep love moisturized. Will the sand still run away with just the right amount of water?

If you grasp love tightly, you will be breathless, and after a long time, you will be tired. In desperation, I chose to give up.

Oh. Eternal love is in your heart, just as many people often ask whether there is true love in this world, in fact, true love is in your heart, as long as you sincerely pay, persistent pursuit, brave sacrifice, true love will happen in your body, and eternal love is your love. We know that love is a kind of selfless giving and sacrifice, and the reward of love is the eternal happiness and happiness of the other person, if you love each other, then you will be happy because the other person is happy, and you will be happy because the other person is happy.

Whether it is in love before marriage or in the ordinary life after marriage, as long as you really love each other, as long as you work hard for your happy life, then the eternal blind love is by your side, not that you have a long-lasting love, but that you have created a long-lasting love. Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

Don't you catch it, then she hasn't slipped away from your hands the same, love is like cooking, too much oil is too greasy, no salt and too tasteless, we don't understand when it's important, when it's loose, alas, annoying, love is like poop should be stupid and will always come, love is like poop Sometimes it's very hard, but the result is still a fart, love is like poop and the water is gone when it is flushed.

It doesn't have to depend on whether your love is happy or hard. Oh.

Love is like sand in your hands, if you hold it too tightly, the faster it will drain away. Love does not need to be deliberately grasped, the more you want to grasp the love, the easier it is to lose yourself, lose your principles, lose the tolerance and understanding that you should maintain between each other, and love will become unbeautiful. However, in reality, there are very few things that can really be done well.

Love is a matter of two people, and people who love each other should trust each other and give each other some freedom. Give each other some space, and the space for love will be broader, so that the sailboat of love can sail far, far away. The two hands, clasped tightly, but inevitably there will still be seams.

Love slowly flows out with the cracks until the love is exhausted, and in this way, only empty hands are left. It's better to give love some air and let it breathe. People don't have oxygen and they suffocate.

Love does not have "space freedom", but it will "die". The beginning or end of a relationship, whether the hearts of two people are connected, and if your relationship is over, you hold on too tightly, so that it has no room to exist and "dies". Don't love someone so much that you forget yourself, that wholehearted love can only appear in **.

Give him room to breathe and give himself leeway. Therefore, don't love someone to ten points, and love yourself a little bit. Women don't let your love become a burden to men, if your love has become a heavy shackle on a man, the other party will not feel a trace of the sweetness of love.

Therefore, the truth of love is similar to a handful of sand, if you want to make love long-lasting, happy and happy, then don't "star", "watch", "guard", "hold" every day, don't "grasp" love too tightly!

Right! You're right. When you are in love, you might as well hide your love appropriately!!

The tighter the grip, the deepest the wound.

1. All of them, but there are those who ask for wages, ask for packages, and raise them, and even sand is not as good.

You always say that love without material things is a plate of sand.

But the one who said it was the richest of the people.

Love needs material things, but it must rely on itself, not with the object, and the less the relationship between lovers is involved, the better the economic use.

This is an era when both men and women must be financially independent, in this era people have to be independent, they have to rely on themselves, have a job, be able to support themselves, it is really important, more and more people are disgusted with being a housewife, and more and more people are disgusted with the love of package and maintenance, housewives are nannies, which is also stipulated in the law, belonging to housekeeping, housewives can ask for a converted salary when they divorce.

The behavior of not working and always wanting to be raised and eating soft rice and not being financially independent not only drags down men, but also drags down China's GDP, and it is also boring to stay at home every day, and people feel that life is ruined when they stay at home. After getting married, if you have a child, if your parents are still alive, you can let your parents take them, and the two of you can take them after work.

The love or marriage of the sand is very philosophical, but the bridge is empty but not able to withstand the blowing of the wind, although it is very light and soft. Love is actually very simple, but also very simple, love does not need to be outlanded, plain is true, for love, we do not expect its consummation, but can make it true. Today's society is a society where feelings are overflowing, and love has long become fast food.

What will happen in the future, who thinks so far, so love has become a pillow when lonely, a traveling companion when lonely; It has become an excuse for some people to achieve their goals, and even a slave to money. Love at this time has lost its aura of beauty and has become realistic and worldly. There is still real love in this society, there are, but very little, modern people do not know how to cherish love, when they have it, they will suck the essence of love recklessly, do not water, do not fertilize, so the flower of love will not be long before it withers.

So when you have a good love, cherish it. To love someone is to care about him and want him to be happy, and his joys, sorrows and sorrows also affect my emotions, but I just want him to be happy. If you love someone just to make him love you, then you are misinterpreting the meaning of love.

If he can live a happier life without you, then you should be very happy, right, your fulfillment may make it much easier for each other, friend, why bother so much, there are many unfair things in the world. The fate is predestined, and the friction Kai is artificial, maybe you are not suitable to be together. Bury that love deep in your heart, as long as you bless him silently, one day you will also be blessed by God and meet your real him.

Now if you have the same mindset as I do, you will be happy. It's okay to love someone, it's just that we love the wrong person.

Love is like listening to each other's affectionate eyes in the eyes, you will care about each other in all aspects, any bit, even if it is a conversation with other friends of the opposite sex, it will cause suspicion in your heart (don't deny it), so love is a thing that is bright for two people, it must be pure, it must be sincere, and it will last for a long time. If someone you love has given up on you, let go of yourself so that you have the opportunity to love others. There are some things that you like no matter how much you will not belong to you, and there are things that you are destined to give up no matter how nostalgic you are, there are many kinds of love in life, but don't let love become a kind of harm.

Some fate is destined to be lost, some fate will never have a good result, you don't have to have to have a person to love, but to have a person you must love him well, and feel hungry with your heart.