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<> I'm over 25 years old and still living with my parents, so I don't think there's anything special about me in today's society. Because I started studying at the age of seven, six years of elementary school, three years of junior high school, three years of high school, four years of college, and I will be 23 years old when I come out of college, and some people are still studying for a master's degree or something, and they must be more than 25 years old. According to the fact that I came out of college and entered the society, I only entered the society for two years when I was 25 years old, so living with my parents is some conflict in the concept of life.
When you are over 25 years old, your parents must think that you have grown up, and you are almost 30 years old, and most of your parents will definitely force you to get married. But due to the difference in concepts, we must feel that we have not lived enough to be single, and we are definitely not happy to marry so early and bind ourselves to a family. When I was forced to get married, I must have been very annoyed.
And on holidays, parents generally get up early, and if you get up too late and don't do housework, you will definitely be disgusted by your parents, and you will feel very annoyed at this time.
But other than when there is a conflict of ideas, it's good to live with your parents. Because it is close to home, you can hear your parents' nagging at any time, eat your mother's cooking, and often chat with your father, so you can spend more time with them. And in your free time, you can also help the family do something to reduce their burden.
Keep up to date with what's going on at home and don't have to worry about what's going on with your parents. These are still very convenient. It is a true portrayal of "parents are not far away".
In the future, there will be no guilt of "the son wants to raise but the parent does not wait".
Living with my parents over the age of 25 must be a joy and sorrow. But I still hope that I can not get married after I turn 25, but I can stabilize and reduce my parents' worries.
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If in the past, most people who were over 25 years old must have started a family, had their own life circle, had their own small family, and had a job to support their families. But the current social trend is that many people are still in college or graduate school at the age of 25, or they have just graduated and their jobs are not stable, so in this case they must still live with their parents.
What is it like to live with your parents at the age of 25? At the age of 25, we are all already adults and definitely have our own lifestyles and habits. For example, we certainly do not have a fixed routine of work and rest, and generally do not sleep before 12 o'clock every night, and even some people live day and night upside down, such a life must be contrary to the life of our parents, so we will definitely be nagged by our parents, and we will inevitably complain to our parents for a long time.
We will also have our own circle of friends.
With lovers, because living with parents will definitely not always bring them home, in this case, you will definitely feel that there are many inconveniences of living with your parents.
But the best thing about living with my parents is, of course, that every day when I come back from work or rush home from school, I have the taste of my mother - that is, there is a delicious meal, we are usually busy with work or eat at school, so we still miss my mother's cooking, especially every time I cook my favorite meal, in this case, I will feel very happy to eat a delicious meal with my parents.
However, I think that at the age of 25, as an adult, we should not live this kind of captive life, we should study hard, work hard, have a income of our own, have a small family of our own, and learn to live alone, but we have to go home from time to time, not only to reassure our parents, but also to leave a space for our parents to live the life they want to live. <>
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1.Family needs: If the family needs to leave a reprieve to take care of the elderly alone, and they are unable to live independently, then living with their parents may be a good choice.
4.Cost of living: If you can save a lot of money on living costs such as rent, utilities, gas, etc., then you can consider living with your parents.
It is important to note that whether or not to live with your parents after marriage is a very personal choice that depends on the needs and preferences of the family. Before making a decision, you should fully understand the possible benefits and risks of each option and make the best decision based on your situation.
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The reasons are as follows: the first is that there is a generation gap with parents, parents cannot understand the young people's hidden lifestyle and split plum habits, and young people cannot understand their parents, and there will be many contradictions when living together; The second is that it is more crowded, and now ordinary families can only buy a three-bedroom house, and if they live with their parents, it will be particularly crowded, and it will also affect their daily life.
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I think the main reason is the difference in lifestyle.
Although children grow up with their parents from an early age, their habits are very different, first of all: their schedules are different, their parents like to wake up early and have three meals a day, while young people like to sleep lazy. The food is all about takeout, and every time I take takeout, my dad will always nag in my ear:
Don't eat takeout! It's so unhealthy, what do you want to eat, your mother will make it for you! "The basic habit of parents going to bed early and waking up early, and children going to bed late and waking up late, has already laid the foundation for contradictions between them.
The second thing is: the diet is different. Why?
Children are picky eaters, and this sedan chair is a problem that will not be changed from childhood to adulthood, and parents will always nag in their ears:"Heck, don't be a picky eater! You have to eat a little more of this, and you have to eat a little more of that.
Speaking for myself, I can't eat spicy food because I often eat big pot rice at school, but my family is not spicy, and my dad has to put a lot of salt every time he cooks, if I change their eating habits at home, I can't help it, so I eat very little every time, causing them to always say:"I'm not in **. "
Every time they make soup, they put a lot of things that I don't like to eat, but I can't help but drink them, otherwise I will waste a piece of their hard work, so after work, I resolutely moved out and lived by myself. At that time, my colleague was still puzzled and asked:"Why don't you live with your parents in the same city, but have to spend your own money to rent a house, if I do, I will definitely stay at home and die.
In the view of staying away from parents, trying to block them as little as possible is also a kind of filial piety, out of sight is pure, parents can't see what their children are doing every day, they will not be used to their children's behavior, and some unnecessary quarrels will be reduced.
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The main reason is that there is a generation gap between young people and their parents, and there will be a lot of quarrels and spears and spears when they live together, and it is good for both Sun Yuyan to be separated, and the children are usually too busy with work and have no more time to take care of the elderly!
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Because they have to have their own jobs, the old and the young.
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