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It's not hurtful, it's sad, it's the object of talk.
Let's talk about friends first, after the college entrance examination and a very good friend about a place to meet, originally said a good city, but unfortunately her scores were too bad to go to a far place, we usually eat, shopping on the street, I bought her a Q coin recharge card, like coaxing a child, she likes to play games, and then when she left, she told me that you have to take care of yourself, we all have to be good. I immediately felt like crying, she writes articles very well, and always says such sentences of Wen Zou Zou, and lives like a **. But I feel very moved, and in addition to being moved, there is also a kind of sadness that is not dispersed in the world.
If a boyfriend or girlfriend says this, in an accurate sense, it should not be a hurtful feeling, but a kind of sigh of right and wrong, and the helplessness of this relationship coming to an end, most of them are like this, and it is not excluded that one party is going on a business trip, and the other party is very normal to say that it is good to take care of themselves over there. But it's hypocritical enough to say this when you break up, and I've really been appeased like this. At that time, I kept crying when I heard this, thinking about retaining, thinking about not breaking up, but in the end I held back, because I felt hypocritical, I think that the people who can say this are not sincere, at this time should not be hypocritical, either simply and rudely do not say a word, or keep it, or say cruel words, say such a sentence is to hope that the other party will still think of you after breaking up?
Isn't this scum?Don't feel hurtful, you should go back with a good sarcasm, no matter how much you sigh in your heart or how helpless and reluctant, don't look back, and it's best to walk on both sides of the road in the future and never see each other for the rest of your life.
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Chinese culture is broad and profound, and the same sentence will have different meanings when spoken at different times and on different occasions, and people with different identities will also become different.
Take good care of yourself, and if you understand it in different contexts, it will become different because of this.
If this sentence is said at the time of parting, the meaning it contains is probably the literal meaning of being kind to yourself and taking care of yourself seriously, but if you add a person's identity, the meaning is different. If it's a boyfriend who just broke up, it means don't contact again, everyone is fine, he can't take care of you anymore, and you have to take care of yourself at this time. If you are separated from your parents or friends, it means that they are reluctant to give up on you and that you are alone and worried and distressed.
I remember seeing a joke about a foreigner before. A foreigner who has been in China for a while wants to find a job to stabilize himself, on the one hand, he has the economy, and on the other hand, he can continue to have more exposure to Chinese. When he went to the company to apply for a job that day, the interviewer found that he was not prepared for anything, so he told him, friend, no matter how casual you are, you have to be interesting.
Foreigners were blinded at once and did not understand. Later, he made a few friends in China, and when the friend came to his house as a guest, he brought a small gift by the way, and said to him, I don't know your preferences, so I bought a special product from my hometown by the way, don't dislike it. The foreigner immediately asked, "What do you mean?"
The friend thought that the foreigner was angry, so he turned around and left. Foreigners may have been in China for a year or two before they understand that this "meaning" has many different meanings.
So the phrase "take care of yourself" itself doesn't hurt, the key depends on where you use it.
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It's okay, it depends! If you're going to say that at the time of a breakup, it's hurtful!
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I don't think this sentence hurts, it means that others care about you!
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Take good care of yourself in the following sentence::
1. A person's best living state, having his own life and interests, and striving to improve himself. Focus on yourself when no one loves, and have the ability to hug each other when someone loves.
2. I'm very good and can walk through the four seasons alone.
3. I have never imagined glory and wealth, and being able to quietly walk through all the springs, summers, autumns and winters of my life with the people who love me and the people I love is my only and greatest luxury.
4. May you and I wander in the world with the meager luggage and the most abundant self.
5. There are so many towns in the world, and there are so many taverns in the towns, but you have entered my heart.
6. The sky will be barren, the earth will be old, and treat yourself well for the rest of your life.
7. The future cannot be seen clearly on a busy day, and a person can bloom alone.
8. When you are full of joy and anticipation of miracles, reality always gives you a fatal blow, so disappointment is the norm, I hope we can all overcome obstacles and live the way we want.
9. For the rest of his life, he will be proud, and he will have no feelings, and he will have no other thoughts.
10. Take good care of yourself, I don't want to wait until the next life to love you again.
11. The mood is secretly changed in the vicissitudes of life, not worried, not confused. No longer believe in the rumors of fireworks and meteors, no longer talk to time with emotions; The circumstances of life tell yourself: the change of the sun and the moon is inevitable, and the flowers and leaves are natural.
12. I don't need your advice for the rest of my life, I can still live a chic life alone.
13. The rest of your life is not long, love yourself well.
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Many couples say when they are separated, it's good to have loved, maybe one day we can do it again, really? Can it really be done all over again? Fools don't do it all over again. Which broken mirror have you ever seen stuck together intact? That's just you deceiving each other again.
Once a relationship is broken, there is really no way to start over, It's like you wrote an article for a long time and accidentally deleted it, you still vaguely remember what you wrote but you no longer have the patience to write it again, so those who always want to repeat the mistakes of the past, I think you have all heard a sentence, no matter how the broken rope is tied there is a knot, don't think about him anymore, don't look at those chicken soups to comfort yourself, leaving is leaving, don't think about whether he loves you anymore, Qiao Han has nothing to regret is that he himself is not worthy of you, you have to remember that not everyone's appearance will have results, but everyone has the meaning of his appearance, he teaches you to grow up is enough, if one day you can no longer move your heart, let you be angry can no longer anger you, let you be sad can no longer let you cry, you will know what this time and this life has given you jujubes, what you have paid for growth, you have to plan how hard you work in the future, how to change your attitude towards life, Don't just talk casually in the end, talk about countless nonsense, delay a lot of things, regret it after a while, how can there be so much time to wail, every day is a new day, people who have plans and can stick to it always walk steadily, if you don't want to say what you say, then don't be arrogant, like a joke, you have to remember that the future is waiting for you, so, remember, you have to be excellent. In the future, you have to love yourself well, I once heard that there is a saying that everyone's appearance will teach something, and there are two of them, one of them teaches you to be loved, and the other teaches you to love.
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When you go out, the most feared thing is getting sick.
Once in a while, a small cold sprout appears, and it has to be strangled in the cradle.
The feeling of being sick can only be felt by yourself, and the pain is on yourself, and others can't empathize with it.
At most, if someone else says something, then you should pay more attention to rest. In fact, this is also considered the kindness of others.
But when you're on your own, you have to take care of yourself.
Wear a little more when it's cold, and you can even add a scarf.
If you want to eat, you can go out and buy it, pick what you like, and pick those that make you happy.
If you're in a bad mood, listen to a song or read a book.
Or don't think about anything and go wherever you want.
When you are alone, you should pay attention to taking care of yourself, not letting yourself catch a cold, and not making yourself uncomfortable.
Only when you are healthy can you be happy, and you can have the opportunity to be happy.
So when you are away alone, you have to take care of yourself.
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