How long has been your longest relationship experience? Are they still together?

I think that in a relationship, everyone has their own different opinions, and many people will not dwell too much on the past, because the past is already a thing of the past, if we always can't go out of the past, this will stop us from moving forward, so I think that in a relationship, we should not feel that the other party's past love history is very important. There are several reasons for this.

The important point in time has passed irretrievably, and there is no regret medicine in the world, so no matter how much you loved him before, how much you wanted to marry him. It's an unlikely thing for now, so I think that even if he misses his ex, you don't have to worry too much, because in a relationship, the other party's past love is a thing of the past, even if he wants to go back, then we can't be like a cartoon with a time shuttle or a regret pill for him to take, he belongs to you now, and you have a beautiful love together, so he will definitely not destroy this beautiful love, He won't cause the current relationship to break down because of some mistakes in his past intentions, so to a certain extent, he won't emphasize too much about his own past love history.

Even if he thinks that his previous love history is very important, but you shouldn't feel like this, because in the future life there are only the two of you, if you are always entangled in his love history, then this will make your relationship more stiff, and it will also make you feel that this relationship is not ** wrong, or there is no need to exist at all, so I don't think this can happen, if you care too much about his love history, it will make him feel that you are not a little cautious, Or whether you are overly worried and suspicious. Whether he says this or not, you will plant a very bad seed in your heart, so think that in a relationship, the other person's past relationship is not very important.

The above views are personal opinions only, and we apologize for any errors.

I don't think it matters, because everyone has a past, and those past are more because he hasn't found his true love in this relationship, but the important thing is that his present belongs to you.

I think it's important, if there is too much relationship history, I think he may not take feelings seriously, and this has a lot to do with his three views.

It's not important, because I think that the past relationship can only represent the past experience, and the feeling of the two people getting along at the moment is the most important thing, which determines whether they can stay together for a long time in the future.

My longest relationship was three years.

Three years have affected almost everything in my life from my junior year to the present, because of her, I graduated without taking the civil service exam or the teacher exam because she said that I might not be able to support her, because of her, I worked hard to make money after graduation, because she said that I didn't work hard enough. Because of her, I graduated and went abroad to work, because she went to study abroad, and I didn't want to be left behind by her. Because of her, I now plan to study in the countries she has been to because she has been.

But she has been forgotten by time for three years, and I still follow in her footsteps, fighting to be able to support her, but her other person is no longer me. The next time we meet I will say: Hello thank you for showing up when I needed you the most in my life.

I'm doing well now because of your appearance. And because of your absence, I'm doing well now.

It's only about four years......Crush is really tiring, because my heart has not been answered, I want to confess but I'm afraid that I won't even be able to make friends after confessing, I think about it every day! I have a habit of keeping a diary, but I don't remember anything until I have something to remember. Once I looked at the diary I had written, I realized that I had dreamed of him dozens of times in the past three years!

The feeling of having a crush is also wonderful, and the novelty of him never seems to go away! I couldn't hold on halfway, so I tried to confess to him a few times. I breathed a sigh of relief, and then went back to my crush. But I guess he'll always be friends!

When we don't love each other one day, we will tell each other that when we still love each other deeply, we will prove with reality that love is a great thing, and it will last forever only after years and months.

Love is a process of cultivation, in this process, we will continue to test each other's bottom line, and then we will continue to lower our own bottom line.

and the current girlfriend, who have been dating for almost three years, hope to be able to go on with her and never be separated again.

He is my first love, we have been together for two and a half years, we both cherish each other, we love each other very much, it will continue forever, we have met both parents, we will rush to get married.

Five years, starting at the age of 21, the best five years, was also the first time I really fell in love, I always thought that we would definitely get married, but in the end I lost to time.

Many people want to have a long-term relationship, but often their love only lasts for a short period of time. At this time, many people will fall into the misunderstanding. It will not be self-reflective, and will push the responsibility to the other party and the value.

In fact, what about running a long-term relationship? It's like doing business, if you want to make a profit in business, you have to constantly learn the means of management. And if you want to get a long-term relationship between two people, or even enter the marriage hall and go hand in hand, you need to learn how to operate.

Number one: maintain consistency. There are often many couples who relax after being together, and they cared, greeted, gave gifts, and dated every day, and then became less contacted, uncaring, and no surprises, and the contrast between the front and back was too large, which was easy to make the other party feel lost, and after the sense of loss accumulated to a certain extent, you may have to say goodbye.

In a romantic relationship, inertia is sure, but only by successfully restraining oneself can the relationship become long-lasting.

The second point: keep the mystery and increase the appeal. Many people confess themselves completely at the beginning of their relationship.

In this way, let the other party fully understand you from the beginning, and after a long time, the interest of love will be exhausted, which is not conducive to the long-term maintenance of the relationship. In fact, as time goes by, all the tastes will be polished, and what you should do at this time is to surprise each other from time to time to improve your attractiveness.

The third point: be assertive. In a long-term relationship, girls must maintain their own opinions, and in the process of demanding and getting along with the other half, they should be respectful, not submissive.

Respect each other's opinions, but at the same time, you must have your own opinions, don't become a pet in love, and dare not go west. After a long time, your partner will find you unchallenged and become unattractive.

In addition to the above, if you want to manage a long-term relationship, you also need to amplify each other's strengths, tolerate each other's shortcomings, trust each other, and strive to make each other trust while trusting each other. A sweet word a day, say more I miss you. Do something between couples often to accumulate good memories for both parties.

If you want to manage a long-term relationship, you need to invest emotionally and genuinely think about the other person, when you really manage a relationship with your heart, you will find that your efforts and gains must be proportional.

Three and a half years. Unfortunately, it ended with me proposing to break up. At that time, we were both in high school, and we were not in the same school, so there were very few opportunities to see each other in the dormitory. In addition, the academic performance at that time was particularly unsatisfactory. So that's how the relationship ended.

The relationship with the current one is the longest, more than three years, and I haven't broken up so far, and the previous relationship has not been more than a year.

My longest relationship was 5 years and it will go on forever.

Half an Acre of Flower Field" said: In life, we all receive different scripts. Some are bland, some are intense, some are laughing, some are tears, no matter what, everyone has to perform well until the curtain ends.

We will eventually need to find such a person who complements your temperament and personality, and interprets the script of life with you. The rest of your life is not long, and you have to be with people with complementary personalities.

Previously, "Reader" invited actor Liu Ye. Facing Dong Qing, he told the story of himself and his wife Anna. 20 years ago, Liu Ye, who was still in college, was always in a hurry and wanted to seize everything while he was young.

Soon, his body couldn't support it, he began to have insomnia, and his personality became irritable. His wife, Anna, is an elegant French woman, she has a kind and gentle personality, does things unhurriedly, and always has a quiet attitude. People thought that the gentle Anna would not be able to coexist with Liu Ye, but the result was unexpected.

When Liu Ye was anxious, Anna told him with a leisurely pace of life that he should not have too many desires to be a man. When Liu Ye overdrew his body to work, Anna slowed down his pace and took him on a trip. There are two of them, one fast and one slow; One is extroverted, the other is introverted; One is grumpy; A gentleness.

Liu Ye said: "Our personalities are indeed very different, but they are also complementary. ”

Because of this complementarity, Liu Ye slowed down, and Anna became cheerful. In the vast world and the vast sea of people, it is not uncommon to meet people you like, and it is most worth cherishing to meet people with complementary personalities. Some people say that similar people are suitable for the wind and snow, and complementary people will be fine for a long time; It is also said that similar people are only suitable for playing, and people with complementary personalities can live in old age.

With people with complementary personalities, you love to make trouble, he loves to laugh, you love to listen, he loves to nag, you use maturity to bring him out of childishness, he uses humor to bring you laughter, is the most heartwarming happiness in the world. Feelings can last for a long time.

There will be changes before and after marriage, the relationship before marriage is love, full of romance and tolerance, after marriage will slowly become family affection, will be replaced by the lock of life, read what you wrote I feel that he will be so good to you after marriage, but maybe his expression of good to you will be different, you have to understand that no matter what he does is for your good, your feelings will last for a long time, I wish you happiness!

How can there be blind accommodation in marriage? Feelings will slowly settle over time.

It will also become thicker and increase the elements of family and friendship, empathy is very important, thinking about whether it will be as considerate as ever after marriage, it is better to think about how to manage this marriage.

It's important to give your own sake.

It's better not to tell him about the past Men say they don't mind In fact, there will still be thoughts in their hearts If a man loves you Even if it changes a little after a few years, it won't change much Women don't care too much about men As long as two people don't quarrel or fight, it's okay The rest is not important, just spend the money you earn at home It's too tiring to do anything.

How long the relationship will last, this is not easy to say, it varies from person to person, two people together manage your love and manage your marriage will last for a long time, it will last forever, and it will grow old.

Ways and means of long-lasting relationships.

The first method: after a conflict, instead of dwelling on the other party's fault, it is better to find the reason from yourself.

If you want to have a long-term relationship, you must manage it well, there are always a lot of contradictions and tests in the relationship, rather than holding on to each other's mistakes, it is better to review yourself and see if you are wrong, many contradictions are often caused by each other's unwillingness to admit their mistakes.

The second method: mutual tolerance.

There is an old saying that "take a step back and open the sky" is also applicable in the relationship, everyone has shortcomings, if you can't tolerate each other's shortcomings, you will naturally dislike each other more and more after a long time, so that the relationship is easy to become cold.

The third method: contentment.

The most feared relationship is to compare, don't always feel that other people's are the best, in fact, it is the most cherished around you, a good relationship is not supported by how big a house is and how expensive clothes you wear, but by each other's careful management, to cherish the moment, cherish what you have.

The fourth way: be open to each other.

Since two people choose to be together, they must be open, let each other feel at ease, give each other a sense of security, don't always hide and do something behind each other's backs, if you love, please love seriously, don't treat feelings as child's play.

The fifth method: have a separate space.

Feelings are always too close and not free, too far away and gradually forget, you can't lose yourself because you like someone, you must have your own independent space, do what you like, and give each other freedom appropriately, otherwise each other will be too depressed.

The sixth method: be confident.

An unconfident relationship has lost half of it, since each other chooses to be together, it means that you are equal to each other, if one party is too inferior, such a relationship is also difficult to manage, inferiority will produce suspicion, and the other party will feel very tired after a long time, when choosing a relationship, this relationship must be fair, if one party has been paying too much, it is likely to part ways in the end.

The seventh method: express love appropriately.

It is said that the love that is often on the lips is generally not true love, because true love is not by saying, but the appropriate expression of love to the other party will also make the other party feel very warm, and after being together for a long time, they may not say some meaty words like when they first fell in love, but even if it is the three words "I love you", sometimes it will make the other party feel full of love, and it will also warm up the feelings, which is also a good way to maintain the relationship.