The mother in law is partial to the little brother in law, and the family property is given to him,

Because the brother-in-law is not doing his job, he is addicted to gambling and loses all his mother-in-law's money, the family economy is getting worse and worse, and there is no economy.

The uncle thinks that he has the love and financial support of his mother-in-law, spends money lavishly, does not know how to manage money, and after 5 years, the money is spent, and he is destitute and has no way out.

This is no longer a normal maternal love for the little uncle, he must have doted on the little uncle since he was a child, so after the family property was given to him, he spent the last poverty without moderation.

Summary. Hello, I'm glad to answer for you, my mother-in-law is partial to my brother-in-law, and the consequence is that it may lead to disharmony in your family, which will lead to a lot of conflicts in your family.

Hello, I'm glad to answer for you Sun Sheng's boredom, mother-in-law is partial to the little uncle, the consequence is that it may lead to disharmony in your family, and it will lead to a lot of conflicts in your family.

If the mother-in-law is partial to Xiaoyan and stops the uncle, in this way, it will make the brother and brother discord and have differences, which will directly affect the contradictions between the brothers, between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law, and affect the harmony of the whole family, and if it is serious, it will also cause resentment between the brothers and brothers.

Moreover, the mother-in-law is eccentric and opens her eyes to the younger uncle, so that the dismemberment will ignore the eldest son, which will affect the eldest son's dissatisfaction with his mother, the eldest daughter-in-law and the mother-in-law are not in harmony, the eldest son and the eldest daughter-in-law, and the second son, and the second daughter-in-law will also have conflicts, and no one will be willing to pay attention to anyone, so it will affect the contradictions and disunity of the whole family.

This is normal. Mother-in-law is a title that is commonly used to address older women, including husbands' mothers, maternal grandmothers (grandmothers), grandmothers (grandmothers), and great-grandmothers.

The husband's mother can also be called "mother", and in Guangdong, it is called "grandma".

And because the husband's father is called the father-in-law, the two are collectively called the parents-in-law. The word "father-in-law" in English is: "father-in-law, mother-in-law".

Literally, "parents-in-law (including father-in-law)" is our legal sense of the parents, because of the legal marriage you call the spouse's parents parents, this interpretation is also reasonable.

It's not normal, if the mother-in-law is so eccentric, and expect the children to be the same filial piety, it should be impossible, don't do what you don't want to do to others, you can't do it yourself, and you want to make the children all the same filial piety, it's impossible, only your own mentality is level, no matter who you prefer, don't compare the children who are filial and who are not filial, measure the children, correct the attitude, the relationship between the family should be harmonious.

It's normal, there are very few parents who don't favor their little sons, I think I don't have a problem with your partial little son, just don't bother me, I just ignore the eccentric mother-in-law, and I don't care if I'm sick, when he's air.

Usually eccentric little son, very normal, my husband is also the eldest son, after marriage we take care of ourselves, in-laws have to take care of the younger son, there were complaints before, now I want to thank them for their eccentricity, just because of their eccentricity, I am forced to be better and better, although hard, but I earn my own eyebrows, now the house and car daughters are particularly good, and the little grandson who was brought up by the in-laws can only go to a secondary school. Now my in-laws look at my daughter like a nymphomaniac, and they praise my granddaughter for how good she is, but when my granddaughter needs to be taken care of, my grandmother helps her, and there is no point in mentioning the previous things, only thank you for the eccentricity of my in-laws.

It's not normal, the sons are all the same, they are born and raised by themselves, there is no need to be biased, such a family will definitely not be united. Whoever is in poor condition can help privately, but in general, it is necessary to be fair and just, because when you are old, you don't know which one can be counted on.

I also think my husband picked it up. My husband is the eldest son. There is also a younger brother who is twenty-seven years old.

And a younger sister. His mother doesn't feel very sorry for my husband. said that he wanted to earn money to buy a house for his youngest son.

We have nothing ourselves. My husband is a dutiful son. But his mother still thinks her youngest son is good.

In that case, that's fine. I don't owe her either. We bought the house ourselves.

When the child is born, I will bring it myself. I won't be obligated to take care of her in the future. Doesn't she still have a young son and a little daughter?

When I paid the money, I thought of the eldest son, and the younger son was spoiled and fed, the eldest son was as tired as a cow and did not feel distressed, and threatened to take out the eldest son's money to the younger son, and if he didn't give it, he wouldn't recognize the eldest son, and forced the eldest son to divorce every day.

My family is also biased, and I heard that my mother-in-law wanted a girl when she was pregnant with my partner, but she was born with a son, and she never liked it.

Mother-in-law is partial to the little brother-in-law? Alas, the children are the flesh of the mother's heart, and she must want her children to be promising, to get ahead, and to live a good life. Now, what is the situation of the little uncle's family?

Isn't it more difficult? Surely it's not very good compared to you, right? Personally, I think that if her two sons are racing on the track, the eldest son is running fast and the younger son is lagging behind, then she will definitely cheer for the younger son, human nature!

What a daughter-in-law has to do is to take care of her family, treat her husband well, and educate her children well. I'm not here to take care of my mother-in-law. His own son, who is good or who is bad, really has nothing to do with his daughter-in-law.

The mother-in-law is good to the brother-in-law, as long as her husband has no opinion, the daughter-in-law really doesn't need to care so much. Isn't it true that we and our parents have a situation where we favor one over the other? Who can guarantee that they will be able to have a bowl of water?

Thinking about people's hearts is better than their own hearts. Can you really be fair if you think about yourself? If you can't, don't force others.

My mother-in-law is partial to my husband, he is the youngest son, it is indeed eccentric, fortunately my brother and sister-in-law are also very tolerant, and I am also very partial to him, I am also drunk, that there are parents who are eccentric, my brother and sister-in-law have no opinions, and they are also petted together, I am very grateful to my in-laws and sister-in-law for their tolerance and partiality!

It's normal for a mother-in-law to be partial to her brother-in-law's family, because the old people prefer their younger sons.

My husband is two brothers, is the eldest, mother-in-law dotes on the younger son, all the housework of the younger son's housework, what cooking and laundry with two grandchildren, the little daughter-in-law does a small business business, the mother-in-law often helps her sell things, the younger son and daughter-in-law don't have to do any housework, the eldest son doesn't help at all, the money and things are not less filial piety to the in-laws, the mother-in-law said that the boss has to pay more, what kind of crooked reasoning is this? Is this called eccentricity?

Normal, so is my family, I have two younger brothers and daughters-in-law, and both of them have mothers-in-law who have given silver. I don't have a bracelet, and one of them got married earlier than me, and the other got married later than me, which is so sad.

My mother-in-law is partial to her youngest son, you can be biased, take your own property to deviate, I have no opinion, what qualifications do you have to take my property to deviate. I always ask my husband for money and even a house for her youngest son. Once I couldn't help but kick her out, she sat at the door and pointed to the door and scolded, and then scolded my husband in a hurry, and told everyone all the things she did for everyone to comment, and finally left in disgrace.

I married the eldest and lived in an old house, which was dilapidated, and I had no car and no money. When the second child got married, he had a new three-story mansion, new electrical appliances and new furniture, and after marriage, his parents also bought a car for the second child, and the second wife's wife was about to give birth to two in-laws who were waiting to give birth at home and did nothing, and their parents raised them. My two in-laws only have a dry watch, and at first my husband thought it didn't matter, it was his own brother.

Later, our factory wanted to buy a machine and asked his mother to borrow 30,000 turnovers, which was borrowed. I borrowed it on March 23rd, and she asked us to pay it back before April 1st, a week, and it was only then that my husband saw how partial his parents were. Since then, we haven't asked his parents for anything, because no matter what difficulties we encounter, we have to carry them ourselves.

This is not good, I have 3 sisters and siblings, in fact, I think my parents are good to all 3 of us, but the children have different personalities and deal with different things. I'm more independent and come by myself, my parents worry less, my younger brother is not smart enough soft persimmons, he can't eat outside, and he has developed the habit of relying on his parents, my sister is actually independent, that is, she found a lazy husband, which led to finding her mother's family to ask for money to live. My brother can earn some money now with my husband working, but how can my sister's husband help, people can't bear it.

Ay. If the child is not doing well, naturally the parents will worry a lot. Some are good children who are eccentric, this is really vanity, my husband's grandfather likes a rich son, daughter, my father-in-law is not less angry, my father-in-law goes out to work, the old man is still noisy, saying that no one takes care of him, the old man gives the family property to the rich eldest son.

My grandmother has three sons, father, second uncle, and third uncle. Because the third uncle is relatively short (with his grandmother's height), and his family background is average, it has been difficult to find a partner. Later, after getting married, they had a son, and the son divorced when he was 2 years old.

My grandmother has always taken care of the children for the third uncle, and the third uncle and grandmother have never separated. My parents, second uncle and aunt never said anything. He also often tutors the third uncle's children with homework, cooks, washes clothes, and picks them up and drops them off to school.

The elderly love the child is one thing, and they also want to help the most difficult one. Now the child is 13 years old, and his grades are very good. The third uncle also works very hard......The family is less careful, and harmony is very important.

The days will also get better and better. (It is only a personal opinion, after all, every situation is different).

Remember one sentence, don't care, don't compare, and live your life. Other loves, as long as they don't touch my bottom line, out of sight is pure. Whether it is gold or silver, it is not rare for me to give him.

Get your mindset right. Mother-in-law's partiality is something that the daughter-in-law can't interfere with, this still has to be corrected by yourself and the family, after all, you can't control the mother-in-law's heart, and when she is old and needs to be taken care of, let the brother-in-law's family rush to the front.

Summary. Hello, first of all, 1. Relax your mind. As long as it does not pose a threat to ourselves or affect our normal life, it is enough to do our own thing and live our own life 2.

Many times, I just can't see these things, and I just focus more on myself and my husband and children. Focusing on your in-laws and brother-in-law will naturally lead to greater mood swings.

Mother-in-law is partial to the brother-in-law's house, what should I do?

Hello, I am Mr. Xiao Wang, and I am good at problem analysis in marriage and family, love, psychology, interpersonal communication, etc. If it's convenient for you, tell me more about your specific situation

Hello, first of all, 1. Relax your mind. As long as it does not pose a threat to ourselves or affect our normal life, it is enough to do our own thing and live our own life 2. Many times, I just can't see these things, and I just focus more on myself and my husband and children.

Focusing on your in-laws and brother-in-law will naturally lead to greater mood swings.

Mother-in-law is partial to the brother-in-law's family, this is a very normal thing, you can't affect your life because of this, as long as your mother-in-law's partiality does not harm the interests of you and your husband, then let them go, don't care about these, don't pay attention to the mother-in-law, do respect for the mother-in-law on the surface, and try to stay away from the mother-in-law at other times.

Mother-in-law is partial to the brother-in-law's family, this is a very normal thing, you can't affect your life because of this, as long as your mother-in-law's partiality does not harm the interests of you and your husband, then let them go, don't care about these, don't pay attention to the mother-in-law, do respect for the mother-in-law on the surface, and try to stay away from the mother-in-law at other times.

Sometimes the difference between the mother-in-law and herself is very big, I saw an article about the mother-in-law favoring the brother-in-law, saying that the brother-in-law bought a house and got married, the mother-in-law took out twice the money for them, her husband and her husband's younger brother got married three years apart, they got married and the house mother-in-law spent a total of 150,000, this year the brother-in-law got married, the mother-in-law spent more than 300,000 yuan, borrowed a lot of money.

Let's talk about the differences in where the money is spent:

1. House: Their house is an attic, and the brother-in-law's house is on the third floor.

The point is low, on the one hand, considering that there is a younger brother, I didn't buy a good house. She didn't ask for anything at the time. Her mother said that it was enough to have a house, and how many families belonged to two sons, and there was no house.

2. Marriage: They got married in the city, and the mother-in-law brought relatives to help the day before the wedding, she was still working at the time, and she and her husband were busy buying furniture, tidying up the house, looking for a wedding or something, and the wedding money was also paid by themselves, and the father-in-law said at the time that he could not find a better wedding company, and there was too much money.

Mother-in-law's partiality towards the brother-in-law's family is multifaceted, despite this, I can't say anything, because I am a junior, my mother-in-law is an elder, I must respect and respect her, but I am always unhappy in my heart, so I can only ignore this behavior of my mother-in-law, otherwise I will be immersed in negative emotions, which will only be detrimental to myself, it is better to live my own life.