They all know each other in the dormitory, and what if I m alone, I m from somewhere else

You don't have to feel isolated, they just met earlier, now everyone is roommates, as long as you are optimistic, cheerful and sincere, they will quickly accept you and you become good friends, the friendship in the student days is actually very simple, there are not so many scheming, as long as you treat people sincerely, they will soon become good friends with you.

In fact, what you don't know is the advantage. Because people have curiosity, but also have the vice of liking the new and hating the old, and prefer to make new friends, so you don't have to worry about people joining forces to bully you, on the contrary, people will compete to make friends with you, you just need to treat every relationship sincerely, of course, everyone should still leave their own secrets, don't expose everything to others as soon as you come up, so that people will lose interest in you all of a sudden, remember that vaguely is the most beautiful.

This is to believe that they are kind and will accept you. You can make a simple self-introduction at the beginning of the school year, get to know each other, try to join their activities, integrate with them, and then you will find that you are slowly getting better and better.

If you really can't fit in with them, try to keep your dorm life harmonious and friendly, or at least don't directly confront them, so that you can start your university life better without being disturbed.

Try to blend into their circle, but this can't be forced, the dormitory is nothing more than a place to sleep, you can go back to the dormitory later if you can't melt in, and it's best to melt in.

As roommates, they never know each other, it doesn't matter if they are a place other than you, after a long time, everyone will be familiar with it, it's no big deal, as long as they don't bully you, it's okay.

That's a good thing! Other people know and are very familiar with you, and if you are someone from somewhere else, then they will take care of you collectively, understand you, and will feel that you are lonely and need extra care. You also have to be nice to them, mingle with them, and become a big family.

Build a good relationship with them and slowly integrate into them. In this way, they have no sense of xenophobia, and in the earliest days, they actually didn't know anyone, and they only got to know each other slowly.

To put it bluntly, if you have money, buy more snacks or invite everyone to dinner, I think you will quickly integrate into them.

It's a process of getting in the circle, and it takes time.

First of all, it is very important to introduce yourself enthusiastically when everyone is together, that is, to convey your friendliness and desire to fit into the circle.

Then find one of them with a more enthusiastic personality as a little partner, and you will slowly get acquainted.

They all know each other in the dormitory, just me, what about coming from other places? Alas, the first thing is to bring a dormitory, that is, to introduce yourself, and to communicate seriously and seriously after the end of the matter, you will be familiar with each other, and slowly get to know each other after 99 will be familiar with each other.

You can take the initiative to greet them, you may feel a little silent at first, but after a long time, it will be fine.

The fact that they know each other means that they want everyone to take care of them, and naturally they are not bad in terms of interpersonal relationships, and rest assured that you will get along well.

Normal interactions, neither humble nor arrogant, and they are not separated from each other, and mingle with each other. Good luck!

As the saying goes, once born, twice ripe. You can buy something to eat, and each roommate has a portion.

They all didn't know each other at the beginning and later knew each other, but they knew each other before you.

This society is not about who you know at birth, but from not knowing each other to slowly getting acquainted with and becoming someone you know. For example, did you know your kindergarten peers before you went to kindergarten? Did you know your peers before you went to elementary school?

Did you know your dorm mates before you went to college? Which of these people is not someone you have grown from stranger to familiar with and then to friend or someone you know?

Therefore, there are no strangers in this social fire, only strange friends, the key is to see how you turn strange friends into familiar friends! We must learn how to survive, instead of thinking about always being centered on "me", and think about how "I" can quickly become familiar with every roommate in the staff dormitory.

Just treat it as if you were living in your dorm room when you first arrived at university.

Jia Zilong accidentally found some golden stones and was able to reunite with Zhensheng. Zhensheng taught him the formula, and Jia Zilong pointed the round table into pure gold, all of which was used to fund the rebuilding of Tsz Yun Temple, and Zhensheng went away with confidence.

Just do what you have to do, don't worry about others, in fact, cleaning the dormitory won't be too tiring, if you stick to it, your roommates may be touched by you! You can also find an appropriate time to discuss with your roommate to arrange a duty schedule, and usually care more about your roommate in small things, and your relationship will become closer and closer.

Once you've done it, just keep it going.

You won't live with them for the rest of your life.

You have to be diligent yourself, and you can mix everywhere.

Let's think it's a blessing to suffer.

If you have this kind of problem, I think the first problem is that you should have a good relationship with your roommate, and then if you are the head of the house, you should make a duty list every day, and you should talk to them about who is on duty, and finally, you have to be better when you talk to them about it, otherwise it will only get worse.

It's okay, you try to go along with them. Gradually, they will clean up themselves, and then they will come up with the duty schedule, hehe.

I also have the same experience as you, to a certain extent, I think it's quite unproductive, we are out to go to school, and we are not here to be nannies, I think I have to tell my roommates when it is appropriate, once or twice is okay, do you want to help them for a year or two? Find an appropriate time to talk to your roommates.,Kindly,After all, it's all a bed.,They (she) will understand how much.。。。

In fact, this kind of thing is all voluntary, if you don't buy others, they won't say anything, you should discuss with them to pay for it, you can't always suffer in the dormitory, or they will get more and more inches.

If you do too much, they will take it for granted, although it is rare for people to be confused, but it is good for others to remember, hehe, you will sweep your own place next time.

Look at the relationship with my roommate.,But in general, it's a blessing.,It's hard to be confused.。

Make a cleaning schedule with who will clean from Monday to Friday.

Excuse me, how many dormitories are you?

It may be that you are an introvert and are not good at handling interpersonal relationships. It doesn't matter, they must want to be friends with you in the same dormitory, but they are just not sure of your character. I think you can organize a dormitory dinner together, or go to the dormitory together to have a ** play.

Slowly blend into them.

It's normal, don't do it if you can't get along, after all, the Tao is different and doesn't conspire with each other......

Long live understanding Empathy is not what you did wrong and reflect.

Don't think about it, this will develop your independence more indirectly, and there are pros and cons. I'm sure you were very sad and had an opinion at the time. But believe me, it's an experience of perfecting yourself. Best wishes.

Is there something wrong with this person's character? Even if you don't get along in private, you can't do it so ugly, the more she wants to be angry with you, the more you don't let it be taken seriously, at least on the surface, it doesn't matter like this, and if it doesn't work, you can break some money and deal with her, she is so angry with you, you can also use others to know and return her body, but the attitude of other people in the dormitory is still more critical.

Normal. When you first arrived, it was common sense that people didn't accept you.

It's going to get better slowly, and if you're not that weird, it'll be fine after a while.

If you're really hard to get along with, there's no way around it.

It's good to communicate more, you have to be proactive.

About this situation, I personally think that she has any opinion on you, everyone is in a dormitory, look down and don't look up, if there is a conflict, it will be sad to live together, it is recommended to communicate well, if it really doesn't work, let the counselor adjust or change the dormitory, I hope you adopt.

You first find a better one among the other people to play with, and if they are together, you will at least have one of them who can accompany you.

Change to a dormitory. I was in the same situation as you before, some people you tolerate and will only get used to her, and if you talk to her well, she will only think you are vexatious. It's better to change bedrooms.

Try to blend in with it, maybe she is very domineering, everyone is afraid of her, but even so, it can only be like this, otherwise you can only go out.

Then you give him a small gift, after all, she told you that it is not appropriate for you not to give it. That's what it means.

It could be that she treats you as a trusted friend! Bosom friend! Telling you is nothing more than asking you to accompany her to plan what to buy and eat, and everyone will eat together!

If you also think of her as your most trusted friend! You just buy a small gift, meaning it! Gifts are not expensive or not!

It's in the heart! It's all in the same dormitory! Even a small keychain is a pleasure.

If you have a good relationship with her, you can send it, if it's not good, there's no need for that, and it's okay if you don't send it in general.

If the relationship is good, then buy a gift for her, if the relationship is not much! Then don't take it to heart!

You can inadvertently tell your other roommates that it's so-and-so's birthday, and leave it to the rest of the dorm as to what to do, you just have to follow the group.

There's no need to be disgusted, you're just struggling with whether to give a gift or not.

Look at the question you had before, borrowing treasure, please don't participate in those who spend a small amount of money to buy your information, especially those with ID cards, it is very unsafe to directly apply for bank loan information to a company. On this issue, maybe others just want to have fun, so why bother thinking about everything so complicated.

Just say a sincere happy birthday. Blessings don't have to be material, you can talk to your roommate about singing her a birthday song together. Maybe he will be moved too.

It means to buy a cheap gadget, and it is recommended to go to a two-dollar store to see it.

People can tell you, it means that there is you in the heart, whether to send something or not is a trivial matter, at least bless him, and give a small gift that does not cost money.

It would be better to buy a cake together.

Let's tell other students! Buy a cake together.

Don't do it with two people, let's do good things together.

Talk to someone else about buying a cake together

First of all, do you have a good relationship?

You should buy a cake and everyone will be lively together!

Adjust your mentality, after all, you have to stay together for a long time. Tell you that Ao is a ruthless roommate, as long as you treat each other with sincerity, there will be no quarrels.

At first, you don't know anyone, you can try to talk to them slowly, or have a snack or something, ask them if they want to eat, take your time, and they will definitely get to know.

Annoyance is because you haven't opened up your inner world and communicated with your classmates. Get to know each other, report to your family, and give us a lot of advice!