How to look at divorce becoming the norm and is divorce a normal phenomenon

Many couples are easy to break up in the face of divorce, but I think we should look at the problem of divorce correctly, since two people have decided to leave, we must first see our own problems, and treat emotional problems fairly and justly, so as to avoid being dominated by emotions and making impulsive behaviors. How to view divorce correctly?

1.Look at divorce with kindness.

The breakdown of a marriage is not because the other party is heinous, but because of the breakdown of the relationship, there is too much anger, disappointment, and grievances in the relationship, and these emotions will be released by attacking the other party, if you always complain to your friends, children or abuse your divorced partner, they will only have hatred for your ex, why affect their emotions and let them live with hatred? So we should look at divorce with kindness and understand that divorce is not because of who is the bad person, but because it is not suitable.

2.Divorce may be a fresh beginning.

For unhappy partners, it may mean that you both have a better chance, is divorce a shame? For some people, perhaps, it is because they have not let go, they are still struggling with the past, in fact, we should leave the past in the past, divorce is a temporary new beginning, to some extent, divorce is a bad thing, because you have spent time and energy and financial resources but there is no good result, but from another point of view, you say goodbye to the unhappy past, this is to hope that you all have a better possibility, so we should treat divorce kindly, since we do not love, we will separate peacefully.

Instead of dwelling on the past, it is better to adjust your mentality to face the new life again, and at the same time, you must also tell yourself how to manage love and how to deal with emotional problems, so as to continue to maintain a good married life.

One: Very courageous.

In fact, I really admire those women who have divorced many times in marriage, because they are really very courageous, although divorce is quite common now, but for many ordinary women, there are still a lot of issues that need to be considered before divorce, such as property, children, future life and other concerns.

Two: dare to love and hate.

In fact, every marriage is an experience, and these experiences make us more mature, but some people happen to meet the right person in their first marriage, and some people need to talk a few more times. I don't think that women who have been divorced twice are very cheap, on the contrary, such women are more attractive, because several marriages have taught them a lot of things, and at the same time they dare to love and hate, they get married when they love, divorce when they don't love, dare to love and hate.

Three: free and easy.

Many women have actually lost hope in marriage, but they dare not divorce for many practical reasons, and they still wonder if they can save something. Treating love has always been disconnected. In fact, you should be free and casual in love, because you only have one time in your life, and you must find someone you love to be with, if it is just because of reality, then you will definitely regret it when you are old.

Divorce is not the norm, there are many people who are happily married, and they don't show off their lives, because happiness is the norm and there is no need to show off. Often people who are unhappy in marriage will constantly complain, and we only see too many complaints before we think that divorce is the norm.

Not really. Divorce became the norm.

This statement is a bit exaggerated.

However, the divorce rate has increased.

This is a fact that must be acknowledged.

People's view of marriage and love.

is becoming more and more independent.

It's getting more and more uncompromising.

Even after marriage.

Not in a word. It can lead to divorce.

This is a product of this era.

A point that is difficult for our parents to understand.

Now that divorce is the norm, it is a big environmental impact. Today's people are financially independent, spiritually independent, pay attention to personal feelings, and compare themselves. Marriage is a prerequisite for social development, and it is necessary to provide more conditions to promote marriage.

This kind of behavior is a factor of social instability, and the state should also travel to stop arbitrary divorce, which is also an uncivilized behavior, and I personally think that a civilized country should not be proud of the normalization of divorce, and should feel inferior,

The problem of divorce becoming the norm is mainly caused by the decline in the overall quality of society.

Article 1091 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China has any of the following circumstances, resulting in divorce, and the innocent party has the right to claim damages: (1) bigamy; (2) cohabitation with another person; (3) Committing domestic violence; (4) Ill-treatment or abandonment of family members; (5) There are other major faults. Article 1087 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China provides that in the event of divorce, the joint property of the husband and wife shall be disposed of by agreement between the two parties; If an agreement is not reached, the people's court is to make a judgment based on the specific circumstances of the property and in accordance with the principle of taking care of the rights and interests of the children, the woman, and the innocent party.

Husbands or wives shall be protected in accordance with law for the rights and interests of the bridge in the contracting and management of family land.