The more the marriage goes to the end, the more it becomes clear that there is only one kind of woma

Women who are really not afraid of divorce are women who are very powerful, have ideas, have status, have their own economy, have jobs, and have confidence.

They are independent and self-confident, have the ability to live independently, even if they are divorced, they can only provide themselves with a good life and a comfortable material environment, such women will become strong in marriage, will not be timid, and it is easier to maintain the relationship.

He is very independent, has his own house, is financially independent, has a backbone, has a job with a good salary, is very decisive in his work, and has mastered the economic power.

Afraid of losing the economy after the divorce, most women choose to take care of the baby full-time at home, and there is no job for a long time, and they are also afraid that the child is a single-parent family, which will affect the child's mental health, but the child grows up in an environment without love, which is not conducive to physical and mental development.

I'm afraid that after the divorce, there is no pure group of people, this woman is very miserable, after all, this woman who has children must be reluctant to leave her children to cheat, so she will choose to settle for the sake of her children.

I am afraid that my child will be hurt a lot, but I am still willing to protect my child, and I am afraid that I will not have good financial ability and will not be able to be independent.

The first should be that I am afraid that I will not be able to get married. The second should be that I feel that I can't support myself.

Divorced women are particularly afraid of being afraid that they will not be able to live alone, afraid that they will not be happy, afraid that they will not be independent, afraid of other people's gossip, and afraid that they will no longer believe in love.

1.There is no goal to move forward 2I can't go on.

3.Loss of self-confidence.

Divorce is not a big deal, I am afraid that women will lose their self-confidence after divorce, 4Immersed in grief.

Crying, nothing will solve it, and no one will pay for your tears.

What divorced women are most afraid of is that they have no financial **, and they are afraid that their husbands will not pay alimony if they have children.

I give up on myself and feel that I can't live without a man. Spiritually, materially very dependent on men. These weaknesses are particularly terrible.

Women are particularly soft-hearted, have no principles in marriage, do not have a stable job, blindly rely on men, and don't know why they will go to divorce, these weaknesses are more terrible than divorce.

Very selfish, don't care about feelings, don't care about interests, don't care about your family. Treat everyone very coldly.,Very casual at work.。

In fact, there are many things that need to be learned, including marriage, which most people have to go through. Some people don't understand this truth, thinking that as long as they live with each other sincerely and treat each other as relatives, the other party can always perceive it, but everyone is a different individual, maybe the way you seem to be good to others is a kind of pressure on others, so there are often many contradictions and problems invisibly. From this incident, we can all see that there are many truths in marriage.

No, three divorced women give everyone a piece of advice that in marriage, women must learn to love themselves first, and then love their family, otherwise, it will easily lead to their own misery, and may even encounter a failed marriage. Here's why.

01.Love yourself first, then you will love others

There are many people who don't know what love is at all, so a person must learn to be good to himself first, love himself first, and then know how to love others.

Love is a thing that I can't tell, but everyone should be an independent individual in this world. Even if we enter marriage, whether it is a man or a woman, we should not completely bury our value in family life, so in the long run, you will actually have an unhappy psychology, and you can't find the value of your own existence, so you can complain about others, and there is no way to love others.

02.Love yourself, and others will love

There are many women who don't know how to love themselves anymore after they enter marriage, in fact, this will also lead to a very serious problem, that is, there may be no one to love you anymore. Sometimes human nature is actually very complicated, if you don't love yourself, others feel that it is not worth loving you.

In fact, you can think about it from another angle, if the person you love doesn't even like yourself, then you will feel that he has countless shortcomings that are magnified, then you will naturally feel psychologically that I don't like this person is justified, I don't love this person right, then from the perspective of others, the same is true.

Besides, after getting married, many men's psychology is that the person around them has completely belonged to themselves, and there is no desire to conquer and the idea of strong fighting, more often it should be natural, and even have taken not being good to you as a habit, so over time, your love life will definitely have problems.

03.Finally, I would like to say

In fact, what I want to say is that marriage may be an essential life step for many people, but it is only used to improve our lives, it should be to find another person and we to experience the world together, to face the world, we will feel the happiness and warmth of our family, and we will feel that there will be no loneliness as a whole, but if we lose ourselves and lose our own value after arriving at a family, we will not feel any happiness and sadness. It's not even as happy as when you're single, then this choice is wrong.

Because if you don't even understand the most basic tolerance, and you have to fight for right and wrong in everything, then it is easy for men to lose confidence in you, and then their fate will change.

Because if you don't think about it in your marriage, you will fall into long-term torment and pain, so you will be very miserable.

Women must not blindly pay in marriage, they must be financially independent, and they must also make themselves good enough, only in this way will they have a status in the family and be recognized by the other party.

Are you afraid of divorce if the marriage is not ideal?

This question, many fans who have come to consult emotional problems before, when they are complaining about all kinds of unhappiness in marriage, I asked them: If you think that the marriage is not ideal and unhappy, then are you afraid of divorce? Accept a divorce? But they flinched.

I don't know if they are afraid of divorce or not, but I can see from their attitudes and faces that although they feel dissatisfied with their marriage and full of complaints, they still can't make up their minds to divorce.

Some fans said: My husband loves children very much, and he is okay with housework, but the two of them are not enthusiastic, and they have nothing to say, think about the days after the divorce, the children are embarrassed in the middle, for fear of affecting the growth of the children, and they may be financially constrained.

Therefore, for the sake of self-starvation and self-indulgence, for the sake of the children, I dare not divorce. I can only know myself whether I am warm or cold, and I have made do with it.

Honey, are you happily married? If you are not happy and ideal, are you afraid of divorce?

If you haven't thought about your future, you must not divorce, because the future is a very long-term thing, and you must think about it carefully, otherwise you will definitely regret it.

Why did you get married? And why do you want to get divorced now? Did you do it wrong or did your husband do it wrong? What to do with the children in the house after divorce? Do you have to go the path of divorce?

Women have not considered their marital life status, and do not easily talk about divorce.

If a woman has not considered whether she can get a divorce smoothly, she should not say it easily.

If a woman has not considered the issue of child custody, she should not talk about divorce lightly.

If a woman has not considered the distribution of family property and debts, it is easy not to talk about divorce.

If a woman in a marriage does not take into account her earning ability and economic strength, and whether she can raise her children independently, then don't easily say divorce, so as not to regret it.

They haven't thought about what to do with their children after divorce and how much shadow it will have on their children's psychology. You will become withdrawn in your child's personality in the future.

First of all, it is very important to consider whether you can live a better life after leaving him, and then you must have an independent income, and it is also very important to have a stable economy, and you must consider these two points.

If you haven't considered why this man is like this, and how you should live next, don't easily say divorce.