My boyfriend won t confess to me, what should I do?

A man has betrayed once, no matter what the reason is.

He'll have a second time.

Judging from the text above, he has been in contact with the woman. You already know that he's still connected. -

Just instructions. He is not firm in his feelings for you.

If he can solve it right away without knowing it, there is still a chance to continue. Now, I advise you to forget about him.

You have believed in him for more than 6 months, do you want to continue to believe him? Before you got married, he made it like a mistress outside (of course, I can't tell whether you have fallen to the status of a junior), if you really have a future with him or something, it's unimaginable!

Don't believe him, you've wasted 4 years, don't be stupid, you can't believe him...

It's been more than four years together, it's not easy, and the time is not short, you let him marry you, if it goes well, marry him. If he shirks, then he must resolutely leave.

If he marries you, he actually defeats the woman, so it's still desirable. Although he has slept with other women, in your heart, it should be acceptable. If he marries you, it should be the woman who can't accept it, if she is wise, she will leave, if she doesn't leave, you don't have to embarrass her too much, why should a woman be embarrassed by a woman.

If he doesn't marry you, then there is no reason and no explanation for leaving him immediately ---.

Cutting through the mess with a quick knife and dragging it out any longer will not be good for you.

I think it's obvious that your past makes him very uncomfortable, but who hasn't had a little bit of the past? If you really love him very much, then I suggest you can coax him and tell him that this is all in the past, and the two of you will be together well in the future. He's definitely angry, but if you coax him, he'll be fine.

But if he has been unrelenting about this, then I don't think your life will be particularly easy.

Because many men are very macho, he hopes that he has been in love many times, but he wants his girlfriend or wife to be pure and flawless. To put it bluntly, such a man is very double standard, but when you really meet this kind of person, you have no way to deal with him. If you take the initiative to confess to him, then it is understandable that he is angry, probably because your past is so colorful.

But if he asks you and you tell him about it, and he's like this, then I think you can talk to him about it, because I don't believe he doesn't have an ex-girlfriend. Although everyone minds the ex, but this is what he has to know about the past, and then you tell him, he is unhappy, it is really difficult to serve, you can ask, what does he want to do, what does he think in his heart.

If two people get along with each other, they still have to learn to communicate well and learn to understand, in fact, many couples will encounter such a situation, but as long as we learn to understand each other, it is not a big problem. But if there is one person who has been holding on to this matter, then I think the relationship between you is very likely to go wrong. Men are all about face, you can coax him and make him happy.

But if he is like this for a long time, then I think you should break up with him.

Most people will have a past of their own, not just a love will be successful, when they confess their love history to their boyfriend, the other party is very indifferent to themselves, at this time they should give the other party enough time to think, no matter what decision the other party makes.

I confessed my love history to my boyfriend, and the other party was very indifferent to me, after all, not everyone will accept the love history of the other half, no matter what decision the other party makes, I will accept it. If the other party really cares about their relationship history, even if they keep the relationship now, but there will be problems in the end, such a relationship is actually not necessary.

The boyfriend becomes very indifferent to himself, maybe he doesn't know how to face himself next, don't bother the other party at this time, and give the other party enough time to think about the problem. In fact, no matter whether the other party really minds their relationship history or not, as long as they take it seriously and pay without regrets, there will be no problem. Everyone's choice and ability to bear are different, so give each other enough time, maybe you will give yourself a satisfactory answer, this kind of thing is not in a hurry.

Love is unpredictable, everyone's attitude and thoughts in the face of love are different, if the other party really can't accept their love history, I think breaking up as soon as possible is the best choice. Maybe the other party really loves him, but he can't even accept his own love history, and he can't even have such a boyfriend.

Girls don't lose themselves in love, don't take each other too seriously, and in the face of a person who minds their love history, I don't think there is any need to waste time on each other. If the other party can figure it out and accept their love history, then they will take the opportunity to be together and take this relationship seriously.

At this time, there is actually very little you can do, you do everything as normal, and the rest depends on what your boyfriend thinks.

At this time, you should choose to break up, which means that your boyfriend is very concerned about your love history, so you should take the initiative to quit at this time.

I feel that in the process of dating, it is better to confess your previous relationship history to the other party, so that the other party can better believe in you, know that you are a person you can rely on, a person you can trust.

1. It is better to sincerely tell the other party about your past than to find out afterwards that the ultimate emotion is much better. If you conceal your relationship history in the course of your relationship with the other person, once the other person knows about your love history from other sources. There is a feeling of being deceived and deceived, and there will be a crisis of trust immediately.

Thus disappointed, annoyed, angry with you. It is easy to be carried by these negative emotions and deviate from the track of your love, and eventually become strangers.

2. Emotional experiences are real, and it is necessary to let the other party know so that they can better understand each other. Anyone's past is to go through, acquaintance, contact, communication, understanding, and find out each other's discomfort before breaking up and entering the next relationship. Therefore, telling the other person about your emotional experience can help the other person to know, understand, and understand you more deeply, and then discover your benefits, find your common ground, and fall in love with you and be willing to start a family with you.

3. To love you is to love all of you, not only including your strengths and weaknesses, but also to tolerate your past love history. Many people don't dare to tell their love history to the object because they are afraid that the other party will not tolerate it, so that this relationship that you are optimistic about will end before it begins. But you must know that you cannot change the past history, and you can only go on if the other party accepts it.

If the other party can't tolerate it, the sooner you know, the better it will be for you. Otherwise, you are trapped in emotions and can't extricate yourself, and the other party breaks you off because of this matter, the longer it drags on, the more it hurts you.

4. Because of the past emotions, you will know better what kind of opposite sex is more suitable for you. A person's love history is real even if it is hidden, it is an indispensable part of your emotions, it is with those emotional experiences in the past, will make you mature in thought, so that in the next relationship, when choosing a partner, you can better comply with your heart, and you can know what kind of person you want to be with in this life.

To this question, mine is: yes. Because love is a very beautiful and sacred thing, if you love someone, don't hide your love history from the other party, you should be honest with the other party about everything you have been in love with in the past, which is also fair and just for the other party, if you hide your love history, I think this is a kind of deception relative to the other party.

Feelings obtained by deception will not be happy, and they will not last long.

Only when love is based on mutual respect and loyalty can we gain the trust, understanding and support of each other. Although love is selfish, and if you tell your love history, the other party may be taboo, but if you hide it, once he knows about your history in the future, then she will definitely not forgive you. At that time, it is the passive self.

Some people may say that the history of love is already in the past, and there is no need to turn it out again, just keep her in your heart. But I think that since the other party sincerely loves you, and you sincerely love each other, you must have a mutually tolerant mentality, he really likes you, and he will not care that you have ever been in love, because many people are not successful in love at one time, and they all have the process of falling in love. The main thing is that now the two of you are in love, and this is a kind of fate.

There is a person who said very well, the root of love happiness is honesty. When you meet the right person, you should tell yourself the history of love truthfully, which will make the other party trust you more and understand yourself, and at the same time, it will enhance the relationship between the two people. It will also let the relationship between the two undergo a real test, and the love that has withstood the test is the real love and the happy love.

If you encounter a situation where your boyfriend is not honest, I recommend you try the following three methods.

Method 1: Ask directly.

You can find a more private, safe and quiet place, and then try to make an appointment with him. But in this process, you have to be careful not to arouse your disgust, otherwise he will not cooperate with the idea that you want to communicate directly with him.

Method 2: Write letters to each other.

Method 3: Confession game.

Everyone has heard of this game, it can provide you and your boyfriend with a relatively relaxed atmosphere to talk about your dissatisfaction and reasons, and it is even a little fun.

Ask him directly, and ask the doubts in your heart. Otherwise, you will always have a pimple in your heart. You won't be honest in the future.

But basic trust is the most important foundation of feelings, if you always feel that you are not honest enough, instead of suffering, it is better to let go of your own life as soon as possible, and it can be regarded as a good deed.

If you don't want to break up, then see, is there something he did that wasn't honest enough? It makes you completely lose your trust and confidence in him, so you will doubt him. If there is, it is a hard injury and needs to be slowed down; If not, you are so worried, sooner or later you will do something that will "surprise" you.

Of course, there is also a possibility that you have a higher demand for honesty, or that you have a stronger desire to control, which comes from your own lack of security. You need to know your boyfriend's every move well, ask him to be on call, and confess to you. It is not easy for normal people to do this, so if they are not forced to leave, they will also be driven crazy.

Let's figure out how you feel and talk about it.

Break up, or keep it for the New Year. Maybe one day I'll split my legs and hide it from you. Trust and honesty are the foundation of feelings, and if you can't do this, what can you say.

Let's break up, it's okay not to be honest with you once or twice, if this kind of thing happens all the time, you have no reason to go on.

Directly expose his lies again and again, and then slowly transform him to keep him honest with you.

Breaking up, this shows that two people do not have the most basic trust, and there is no need for you to be together.

Let's break up. The most basic point of love is honesty, what kind of love can you talk about if you can't do this.

Maybe you should sit down and have a good chat and make things clear, so that you can know how to solve the problem.

Communicate first, and break up if you fail.

Love needs to be honest. Would you rather hear about your disagreement from his mouth or from the people around him?

Inclusion and honesty may be two words that seem to be close to each other. Some people believe that tolerance is to hold it in their hearts, and couples who never quarrel have a higher chance of separation.

Tolerance is one party to express their dissatisfaction, the other party takes the initiative to correct, everyone has their own bad emotions or habits, when the other party is not satisfactory in life, in the face of you, what you should do is to tolerate his current bad temper after he tells you angrily, not that he doesn't say anything, and you don't ask anything.

Love needs to be honest, of course, if the result of honesty is excessive quarrels, it means that you are not suitable, nothing else.

Break up, if two people are together and don't even have trust, they won't go far.

You should communicate with him and ask him why he is not being honest.

It's forgivable for not being honest once in a while, but there's nothing to say if you're not honest all the time, break up.

Hurry up and break up, do you want to play a guessing game with him?

I think if your boyfriend asks about your relationship history, you can explain it to him, but if he doesn't ask him, you shouldn't say it.