How to say no to a mentor who has already been contacted

If you have already contacted the guru and if you refuse, then you should tell him that there has been something recently, something unexpected. You don't need to come over now.

Hello Teacher! Your academic ability is very strong, the direction of research is also very valuable, during this time I have also carefully understood, I found that this direction is not suitable for me, I am afraid that my ability can not keep up with the teacher, I am very sorry, thank you very much for your concern for me, thank you very much, if you need to call in the future, you will be called at any time, thank you again.

It's okay to refuse according to your own reality, so you can have your own ideas at this time, so just find a reason to refuse, and the other party will know what it means.

You can say your reasons, as long as the reasons are right, I think you can refuse, and I don't think there's anything to be embarrassed about.

If you want to refuse a mentor you have already contacted, then you must find a tactful reason to make the other person feel better.

Now that I've been in touch with the other person, tell them that there is something urgent that I can't do now, or just say that I don't want to study.

If you refuse to contact a mentor who has already been contacted, then you have to talk about it and say some real reasons for them to understand.

You can tell him very tactfully that you have other options, so you turn this teacher down.

Hello, you can say that you may not be able to cooperate with the mentor now, so you can have the opportunity to cooperate in the future.

If you say no, I think you should tell him that you have other arrangements.

You can find a valid reason. Make the other person feel that you are wrong to reject them.

I think it's better not to do this, after all, we will all be together in the future, which is not good.

I feel that you should be truthful and tactfully tell the teacher about your problem and apologize.

Tell him the reason for your refusal, hoping to get his understanding and apologize.

Find out why you really refuse and talk to your mentor about it.

It's okay to really want to live with this person.

For the mentor who has already been contacted, if it refuses, then it should be. Get in touch again.

It will be remembered how the net contact with a good teacher refuses, and how you reject him.

If you have something to do temporarily, you will politely refuse.

How did the mentor who had already contacted him refuse to tell him that I had found another candidate?

Summary. No, it may be that things are busy, I don't see it, relax, send a few more emails, it really can't be called** to ask about the situation 1The probability of not receiving a reply is already very high You must be aware of:

Candidates are one-to-one relative to tutors, and tutors are one-to-many relative to candidates, and the time cost of replying to emails is huge. In addition, everyone is a stranger, and you don't show anything that can particularly attract the mentor, and it's normal to not receive a reply. 2.

The quota is full It is possible that the tutor has already received applications from other students, especially those who are admitted to graduate school, before your email.

No, it may be that things are busy, I don't see it, relax, send a few more emails, it really can't be called** to ask about the situation 1The probability of not receiving a reply is already very high You must be aware that the candidate is one-to-one relative to the tutor, and the tutor is one-to-many relative to the candidate, and the time cost of replying to the email is huge.

In addition, everyone is a stranger, and you don't show anything that can attract a mentor in particular, so it's normal that you can't get back to Feng Zai. 2.The quota is full It is possible that the tutor has already received applications from other students, especially those who are admitted to graduate school, before the email is sold.

Generally, if the tutor refuses, he will give you a reply and will not let you wait.

Thank you. Let's contact a few more, maybe the teacher is very busy, I have also met the tutor who does not reply to emails, the teacher's way of doing things is just a person.

Good. Baoyan entered the summer camp of Ruijin Hospital of Jiaotong University, and the interview was okay, but the tutor I contacted ignored me and was a little anxious.

Oh. Ignore you and consider other mentors.

But I especially want to talk to this mentor.

Then you have to think of ways to contact the tutor to see if you can contact the senior brother in the same sect.

No matter what the discipline is, if it is a liberal arts subject, as long as you study for a master's degree, it is a bit low. If there is a dream job, that's not a problem. Also, if the purpose of the graduate school entrance examination is to go to a scientific graduate school, it is best not to waste this opportunity.

Otherwise, without a doctorate, it is almost impossible to enter a scientific institute. If you have a master's degree in engineering, it is also possible to enter a good R&D company after graduating with a master's degree. Depends on how you position it.

In my opinion, if there is such an opportunity, it should be seized against all difficulties. The opportunity cannot be missed for a while.

When applying for graduate school, the supervisor is not selected by himself. Only a few schools need to fill in the supervisor selected during the registration of master's students, and most schools determine the supervisor through the two-way selection of students and supervisors after passing the re-examination. After entering the school, you will have to choose your own tutor.

If the selected tutor agrees to receive, the selection is successful. If the tutor does not have a place or refuses to choose, the tutor can only choose another tutor until the tutor agrees to accept it. In order to get the supervisor to agree to accept it, it is generally necessary to contact the desired supervisor in advance after passing the master's degree, and if the supervisor agrees to accept it, the probability of re-admission will also increase.

The time selected by the graduate supervisor is that after the re-examination results are confirmed, the candidate can contact the supervisor and make a two-way choice with the supervisor. There is a summer vacation before the graduate school enrolls, and the tutor contacts the student. More than a few months before the start of the semester, the timing of selecting a tutor may vary depending on the type of major.

In addition to the above few common officials, some students think that they are lucky, and the teacher will call you ** or WeChat to tell the story in detail. Then this is usually a good sign. The teacher may want to get to know you ahead of time and then make more plans.

In this case, be ye prepared. However, if some students receive a rejection letter from the teacher, or say that they do not have a place, etc., and it is obvious that they do not want you, then in this case, you should try another teacher. If there is no request from the teacher, will the school arrange a teacher, it depends on the specific school.

Some schools may be where students and teachers teach each other. If you don't contact the teacher, you may be more reactive. Of course, some schools can enroll students according to the ranking order, if you don't have a teacher in front of you, you can call ** from the school, contact the tutor individually, or assign directly!

For students who are absolutely sure**, they are already planning their own re-examination, and the key to the re-examination is to contact the tutor in advance. That's what a lot of people say anyway. Whether it is useful to contact one's own lifelong mentor or not, there is no conclusion.

They are all asked in the official public email, and in most likely cases, it is more polite to make a formal one, and the tutor cannot understand the student in detail.

If you give up and basically ignore your words, it will definitely be hopeless, and try to choose to take the graduate school entrance examination by yourself, so the acceptance rate will be higher.

If you don't give up and change schools, you can choose to adjust, you don't necessarily have to go to your first choice, it also depends on your personal wishes.

It means that there is a tutor's favor, and you only need to complete the re-examination as required.

1. Choose a high-quality tutor in advance.

After all, the enrollment plan for each supervisor is limited, such as professors and researchers, 2-3 master's students per year. The more high-quality and good tutors are, the more students will take the initiative to contact. The role of a mentor in graduate school is very crucial, and every student wants one"Someone else's mentor"(Xiang Friendly Tutor).

2. Be familiar with the direction and content of the research group in advance.

There is less than a year after the success of the research institute"Window period", not busy. While completing the degree**, excellent students should read the literature in advance and assist their brothers and sisters to carry out experiments, so that they can enter the state faster and better after the master's admission.

A mentor is a good mentor.

1. The teacher has good morality. As a tutor, teaching and educating people, you need to care about students' learning and life, and the teacher's ethics as the foundation of a teacher's life must be good. In the past, individual mentors with poor moral integrity caused a great impact, and at the same time discredited the group of mentors.

2. Strong ability. As a supervisor, different modes may be adopted in the training of graduate students, but their academic ability and guidance ability must be good.

3. Sufficient funds for the project and funds. As a master's student, when completing the degree, you must always carry out some experiments, research, etc., and the supervisor must have sufficient topics and funds"Revitalize"The research group ensures the scientific research needs of students.

4. Good at communication. The tragedy of many master's students in the past was not always because the tutor was harsh, but because there was a lack of effective communication between the tutor and the student, and the problems encountered by the student were not understood.

In fact, the standards for each student to define a good tutor are very different, for example, there is a tutor in our major who is very strict, and other students are afraid, while the students in their team feel that the tutor is very good, and they have sent **, and the subsidy given is high.

First of all, explain your will, strive for it, like the teacher's research direction, and be interested in this direction. The second is to express that you should understand the policy as soon as possible, and report it in a timely manner, regardless of the outcome. The third is to ask the teacher for advice in a timely manner during the application process, and ask the teacher to give advice.

Others are at your discretion.

The tutor is not able to participate in the admissions process of the graduate school, so the tutor is willing to take you, and the graduate school will show the graduate school that you have contacted him and he wants to take you, or before the retest, he will show the graduate school that you have contacted him, and he thinks you are good, which is helpful to you, but not absolutely, because there are many teachers in the interview.

It's actually a normal thing to be rejected by your tutor, and I think all students should have thought about it before sending an email. Maybe you just didn't think that the tutor would really reject you, but in fact, when we all send an email to the tutor, we should know very clearly that there will be two outcomes.

One is when the tutor explicitly tells you that he may not have enough places, and the second is that the tutor will tell you in an email to prepare for the retest. But no matter what type of reply the tutor gives you, as a student, we should always send another email back to the teacher.

Some classmates may complain and say, he doesn't accept me, what do I do with him replying emails. In fact, if you think about it, there is no fault for whether the tutor accepts you or not, just like your roommate asks you to borrow money, and you lend him love, and it is reasonable not to borrow.

So, out of politeness, we also need to send another email back to the tutor. In addition, we should always be the one who ended the conversation when we send an email to the tutor, and we must not say that the tutor sent you an email and you did not reply.

Acknowledging and thanking the retreat instructor for his arrangement.

You must agree with his arrangement, and then you can praise him for the rationality and professionalism of this arrangement, and at the same time give some of your own views, of course, to match what he said, and finally express your expectations and prospects, the content of the letter to the tutor, or to highlight their academic and practical situation, pay attention to reflect their own personal characteristics, after the polite greeting, the next step is to explain the awards won during the university, what kind of exams passed, What major did you mint in, then indicate the practical activities you participated in during your college years, what car models you have gained through these activities, and finally you can express your graduate plan under the leadership of this supervisor during the period of graduate student destruction.

Contact the tutor by email, first of all, pay attention to the format and wording of the email, secondly, the content should be organized, inform the supervisor of the determination and confidence of graduate school, and leave a good impression on the supervisor, and finally, the email should be repeatedly drafted, to find out whether the content is clearly expressed, whether the structure and organization of the content are clear, and the number of words should not be too much, within 100 words.

Most of the emails that do not reply to your emails are not rejections, but because your tutor has not yet responded or has not seen the email.

It may be that something is delayed and I don't see it, or I see it and I don't come and reply.

If you are rejected by the guru euphemistically, then you can reply like this. Although I was not able to continue my studies under the guidance of Mr. Lian, I am very grateful that the teacher was able to see my email and reply to me in a timely manner. Thank you very much for your reply, and thank you for being able to point out some of my shortcomings.

If you rejected me, it means that I am not good enough, and I will continue to work hard to continue my studies under your teaching, and I hope that the teacher will consider my request the next time I make an application. Thank you again teacher.