How to be a good mother of a 12 year old girl

How to say it, everyone has their own merits, the child wrote it wrong, is she willing? Necessarily not.

I think your attitude towards her is the direction of her learning, everyone wants to be affirmed by others, people who can often get affirmation must do better than those who are often denied, and the chance of success is also greater, the child is still in the growth period, your negative attitude towards her may cause her self-denial, loss of self-confidence, which is not conducive to her development.

Society is changeable, and her current personality, including learning methods, lifestyles, and dealing with others, is to be able to better integrate into society and be self-reliant in the future, rather than learning for the sake of learning. It is important to study well, but it does not mean that good students will have a good future, and the cultivation of personality is very important.

Now, from your point of view, she is not good, not smart, and bad, and your attitude will affect her attitude towards herself and her future development.

There are always mistakes in the language that cannot be corrected, but I would like to ask you two things first:

First of all, I want to ask you if you say it to her as soon as she is wrong, why are you always wrong, you probably didn't think that she would be more anxious when you said this, and it would be more impossible to write well.

My advice to this is that she is wrong, and if you try to correct her instead of talking about her, and show your anger and dissatisfaction on your face, it will affect her a lot.

Second, do you always watch her while she writes, supervise her and check her by the way?

My advice is to do whatever you should do when your child is doing her homework, go for a walk after eating, and tell her to check her homework after she finishes it.

12-year-olds, don't overdo it, it's not good.

No, your child won't be unintelligent. It's just a different way of looking at the problem.

The situation where things always go wrong has a lot to do with dependencies.

Generally, children will listen to the teacher more at school, and you can communicate with the teacher in this regard, and on the issue of the child's mistakes. Praise and punish as appropriate.

My sister-in-law's child is 10 years old this year, and there were countless typos in the past, but then my sister-in-law came up with a way to discuss the reward decision with the child. If the child has made 10 mistakes before and now only 5 words, then verbally praise. If none of the children are right, then give a reward.

It can be in the form of demerit points or direct coins, and then after 10 points, she can redeem what she wants. Of course, this reward must be within the points.

This practice does not hurt your child's self-esteem, but also encourages your child to look for mistakes and complete homework independently.

Give it a try

It's such a small aunt who can't be seen....At this age, grades are not particularly important....The key is to develop a hobby that guides her through her dreamy adolescence. The time when people's potential is tapped is not very different, some junior high school is not good and high school is suddenly very powerful, and some are just the opposite. Several of my classmates were admitted to Tsinghua University of Peking University, but they were not very outstanding in junior high school.

Start with what she's interested in! Boot slowly! Slowly, it should be changed!

It doesn't matter, it's nothing if you read well. Your daughter is so hardworking and has a good character.

Then spark her talent for math

Small wisdom is not as good as great wisdom.

Do you have great wisdom to guide her?

She often lacks the care of her family, so she is more introverted! Or maybe it's your over-pampering!

The best education is for children to educate themselves.

Agree with this view.

Hu Xiaohao Diary", my child's teacher recommended it, saying that this set of books can make children's education more worry-free and children's growth more worry-free. My family has read it, and now it is really worry-free, at least I don't have to rush to study every day.

He's still a kid! Can't beat, can't scold! Children can't afford to hurt, and they can't hurt them! Affectionate!

Girls are 12 years old in a rebellious period, during this period of time parents should communicate with their children, understand the needs of children, build a good parent-child relationship, do not scold, touch the bottom line.

You must first educate yourself and have a high level in order to educate your children well.

Upstairs said well, learned, has been collected.