Good Samaritans help me! The first year of junior high school, girls. Study well, I won t fall in lo

Everyone has this kind of innocent idea in the first year of junior high school, you may have liked him before, and you don't feel it now, don't you have any ideas? Could he be the same? Hehe.

Although your relationship is innocent now, it may not be real and long-lasting. And people don't necessarily look at you, I remember a friend once had a similar situation with you, and then she had a crush on someone for many years, and she graduated from college and ran to ask to find out that people were not looking at her. If you don't believe it, wait for many years to think about it, and you will laugh at yourself at this time.

Since you don't like him anymore, then I won't say anything if real feelings can come together. Hehe. It is better to choose your own direction, or to study hard, such a wonderful feeling may only be used to recall, otherwise it will hurt yourself.

Since you don't have feelings for him anymore, then it's none of your business what he does, when he's a floating cloud, you hate and hate him a little because he's smart, and you're a little jealous that he's better than you in some way, then you just put your mind on studying and try your best to be yourself.

That's how adolescence works.

Boys and girls will have a good impression of the opposite sex when they are 12 years old, and it is also hazy, if you want to understand what the boy thinks, and you can't guess it, I suggest you read a book "The Troubles of Young Werther" and you will know everything.

Now that you are still in school, you should spend more energy on studying, maybe your improvement in learning can still attract his attention.

Treat him like any other classmate and make him feel that you are the same to him as you are to others. In one aspect, if he doesn't like you, then you shouldn't have anything to worry about, you should think about the main king in terms of learning.

Calf love? It's late ......

You don't like him, and you can't let it go....

You don't know how to choose?

Well, I suggest that you study hard (not just what you learn in textbooks, but you won't learn anything).

Everything else is a puffy cloud that disperses when the wind blows.

If he wants to see it, let him see it, he is eye-catching, you charge, how good it is for mutual benefit and win-win.

Study hard, kid, don't think about it, anyway, you don't like him and don't feel it.

I know, you've told yourself so many times in your mind, but you can't do it, can you? Even if you have made up your mind, you can't help it when you see her (him), is that true?

This shows that you have entered puberty, which is a sign of sexual impulse, but it is nothing, it is normal.

mm, you are precocious and intelligent.

It's just that there is a deviation in the method of using "smart".

Precocious is not bad, and precocious is an advantage over its peers.

You have self-knowledge and you have the means.

You like "cruelty".

Cruelty to others.

Cruelty to yourself.

If anyone answers you, including me, they will be "fooled" by your "cruelty".

For example, there are people who love to enjoy and those who are afraid to enjoy.

Like you, there are people who are afraid of suffering, and there are people who love to suffer.

It's okay, it's quick to fry and dry, and the frying is slow and thick enough.

When you are better and more outstanding.

This boy must turn back.

If the boy is ashamed of face, his parents will pressure him to come to you.

Then, this more "cruel" you have achieved it again.

Good!!!

Does it make sense? Even if he were to come back to you again, would you still be the same as before? If you are still so persistent, why don't I help you answer the above questions (ugly words, don't take it seriously) You say:

1. I am very precocious and in love, I can answer you, you are not precocious, but it is adolescence and want to taste the taste of love. 2、.I'm very unlucky, even if I fall in love, I was discovered by the man's parents......All I can say is:

It's not because you're unlucky, it's because you're not careful. 3、

I was very back, and the man dumped me because of his parents. If the man really loves you, he will definitely do better negotiations and discussions with his family for you, which can only show that the man does not really love you, so what's the use of this kind of love being saved? 4, I can be regarded as quasi-dedication, after being dumped, I have never liked others, including other boys chasing me, who is not like you, I actually don't know what it means to be single-minded?

Don't you like to chase people who chase you, even if it's dedication? Why fall to death on a tree when there are better options? Is it worth it for a man who can't love you?

5, I can still be regarded as quasi-infatuation, he dumped me for almost half a year, and I still like him, this is not a lie, what is infatuation? It's not that if you like a person for a long time, it's infatuation, some people are willing to do it for an impossible relationship, a person who doesn't love himself, he puts the other party's life more important than his own life, how many people can do it now? You are only in the second year of junior high school now, and you don't have a certain knowledge and understanding of feelings, I can understand that you are all growing up now, and you will inevitably be a little impulsive about your feelings, and his family will not agree to it, after all, you are still young, and I am afraid that you will have an impact on your studies.

Sometimes it's better to listen to your elders than your friends, because they're all from the past.

I...

fell in love on the first day of junior high school, and then eloped.

was also stopped by the woman's parents.

I haven't read yet; She told me to wait ten years.

Do you think I should wait?

When you love something so much that you can't forget it, the best way to do that is to find another thing that you love to distract yourself from and make you forget, and if you can understand the meaning of what I mean, then the suffering will be solved.

Every girl will always be obsessed with her first love, which is common and normal.

You say you really like him, but he will give up on you for the sake of his parents.

Why is this, why should he give up on you because of external factors?

It's not fair to you.

This is Chi Guoguo's grievance against you.

This is deliberately hurting you.

You see, he's so bad, he's so unworthy.

You see, he doesn't deserve your dedicated love.

He doesn't deserve it. So, why feel sorry for a villain who doesn't deserve you.

What's good about him.

He doesn't love you anymore and he's going to spend the rest of his life with another girl.

Dear, you will understand, girls will only be hurt if they learn to love themselves.

In love, the one who cares more is always the one who hurts more.

It's good after a while, time can dilute everything, a month is about the same, if the relationship is deep, I also think three months is about the same, and he's still doing that to you.

Bosom friend, I'll go, I fell in love at the beginning of the year, and I talked about four in total, this time I'm in the third year of high school, and my mother found out about my love and forced me to break up, I told her, and she said that she didn't pay attention to me anymore. I was helpless, and she didn't answer me. Interested in leaving a QQ, I have time to talk about it that day, and I'm very busy now.

I'm more upset than you know.

You think that he is not good, think more about his shortcomings, and hate him hard.

It's just a period of ignorance.

But don't do anything that is more than your age should be.

If you get closer, you can be a good friend.

You can be a confidant.

But it's too early to be boyfriend and girlfriend.

A lot of things are still too simple, too simple, a lot of things, still very complicated, haven't met two people who help each other in learning, help each other improve in learning, so it doesn't matter if it affects learning, just separate, after all, you won't go from junior high school to growing up to getting married.

Yes, we can help each other learn and make progress together.

But you can't go in the wrong direction.

At this stage, it is still mainly about learning.

==You are obsessed at this age, not liked, but don't say so, the feeling of liking is stronger than anything! If you really like each other, then study hard, get into the same high school, college, and get married ==

Just don't affect your studies, it's okay, it's a beautiful memory of youth. The main thing is that you are still young, so you have to be measured and not too close. You can study together and discuss life together.

1 All you are only in the sixth grade, which is indeed too early. However, this phenomenon is very normal, don't think about him deliberately, just have a normal relationship. Otherwise, there is a real risk of delaying learning.

It is recommended that you try to fall in love in your sophomore year of high school, but you can't be too involved, and that bland and astringent feeling will become a good memory in your life. Of course, the premise of all this must be that it does not affect your normal study, and your good feelings for the opposite sex now and in junior high school are just good feelings, and you don't have to think too much, because it is just friendship. These are all my experience, girls must be cautious when choosing a boyfriend, not a boy who makes you feel good must have a relationship with him, and you must make rational judgments and choices.

I think.

It's better not to make it public (it's happy to like it silently in your heart, no one should pierce this layer of Mo, let him be your most beautiful first love in the future).

It's good to like someone.

We must face ourselves squarely and treat each other with the right psychology.

It might be better to maintain the status quo.

The more you think about these things, the more it will affect your learning.

Go with the flow. I wish you a happy childhood every day.

Be friends first, and when you reach the age where you can fall in love, it won't be said to be early love and then fall in love. If you can't forget it, don't forget it, don't you just treat him as your best buddy first?

Forehead.. You're still very young! Although my first love was also in the sixth grade of elementary school (now 21 years old), I was quite ignorant when I think about it now!!

Don't confess, or you'll break this beautiful atmosphere! Treat him as a wonderful memory in your life! After all, you're still young, and it's hard to get any results!

Let time fade away and forget him.

In fact, having a boyfriend and girlfriend is a normal classmate relationship, and I think everyone has experienced your feelings. As long as you don't deviate, it's good for everyone to support each other in life and study.

It's not like it, when you're older, you'll feel stupid at the time. It's the result of your own repeated words in your heart that you like him, what can't you forget, believe it or not, if you meet a more desirable boy in the future, you will quickly forget about him (personal experience). You study so well, you are young, so you should work hard for the future.

It's just something everybody has to go through, he's just a passerby ...

I've had a very similar experience to you, and it's better to keep it in my heart, because when you're older, you'll find that what you really like is not this person, but a feeling like liking someone, and when you look back on it, you'll find that your decision was wise, and it's going to be a good memory in your life

Actually, it depends on how you treat it! If you don't delay studying, the two can help each other, and when they are older, they can develop a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship!

It's better to be friends, be best friends first, don't get involved in love too early, it's not good for you and him!

You're about the same as me, and you're also a good baby for the teacher's parents, I'm worse than you, kiss, the teacher knows, but I think it's good to just take love as the motivation for your hard work, and instead of blurring that love, it's better to remember that my learning hasn't declined, and he likes me because I'm good at studying, and boys generally like girls who study well, and they're very good, but you have to like a person who suits you, and don't cause the opposite.

You can be tempted, but you can't act, and the time has come to test your self-control.

The exam is important, and when the exam is over, then worry about it.

Let's put him aside for now.

After the exam, you can think as much as you want.

It's no problem to fall in love with him.

Which is more important. You should know it yourself.

Hehe, silly child, I don't have anything to talk about learning, care more about her. However, I think 13 years old is too early, and if you can restrain yourself, try not to procrastinate, which may have a series of undesirable consequences. It's best to be able to turn your liking for her into motivation to study If you don't study hard, you won't be able to protect her when you grow up Boys who don't have the ability when they grow up don't like girls.

It depends on whether the girl likes you or not.

It doesn't matter what you say.

It's a little early, wait another two years! Your brother and I are both 22 years old, and I haven't told the girl face-to-face that the nest likes her! Wait, at least behind me!

Yes. I think as long as you're in a normal relationship. It's good that it doesn't interfere with learning. Let's work together to get into the same high school and work hard together. In the tank!!

Lovers need to have a certain distance between each other, otherwise there is a risk that your relationship will break down! I wish you all happiness!

In adolescence, this is normal A liking for the opposite sex will make you have a psychological reaction You like him Actually, that's just a psychological hint You like ta But this like is not the other likes It's just a love between friends There are too many hints As long as he talks to you, you will think that you love ta love to die and live Actually, you can let go But there is someone in your heart It's also very warm and warm As long as it's not too much, it should be nothing kiss is the limit For a child in the first year of junior high right now Our main task is to learn, study, and study, and when we grow up, there are many handsome guys and beautiful women, and we still need to worry about it, come on.