I don t know if I should continue like this with my husband?

Everything should be seen lightly and openly. Now that you're married, don't care too much about whether he loves you or not. If you ask this question too much, it will be annoying for a man.

Advice for you: One: Don't put all your body and mind on him, find your role and position in married life, you can have more contact with friends, you can contact your family more, you can help your in-laws do something, you can learn what you want to learn, you can find a job and work hard for it, you can read books, you can cultivate some hobbies.

Life is not just about husbands and children. Two: Learn to be relieved of things that you see through, don't be too emotional and sentimental, and sensitive.

Lotte knows its fate. Life is meant to be enjoyed, not to be lived one day at a time. Three:

Accepting the imperfections in marriage, living together every day, and looking at such a face every day, is when individuals will be tired, learn not to care so much and mind. Four: Among the two sides, there is always one person who loves a little more, and there is always one person who loves a little less.

True love should not ask for each other. Accept his good and bad. Five:

Since you have chosen, you must accept it and have a sense of responsibility.

You should change, don't always appear in front of him as a housewife, you have to be in a thousand ways, women should have their own communication, entertainment, show their charm, not always live for their husband and children, then they will all care less and less about you. Change yourself, starting with your appearance.

When you have a social circle, try to interfere as little as possible in your husband's affairs, so that he will take the initiative to come to you.

If you have children, don't think about this divorce, which is unfair to your children, try to change your lifestyle, and try to find a common topic for two people together.

Do you have no children now, but one thing is for sure, your husband has no feelings for you, if you don't have children, then you can also consider divorce, the other party has reached the point where you don't want to live with you, and life must not care enough about you, if you have children, you love your husband, and divorce will have a certain negative impact on children, then you also have to find the reason from yourself, what caused you to become like this now, marriage needs to be managed with heart and wisdom, If you don't want to leave your husband, then you have to work harder.

If you really love him, you won't consider leaving, since you're here to ask, then leave.

1. Calm down and communicate.

Sit down with your husband and talk about what is really in his heart, figure out the reasons for your husband's divorce, and it is best to negotiate a solution that allows your marriage to have a chance to be born again.

2. Learn to tolerate and understand each other.

After many couples get married, they find that there are many different views, and each other's beliefs, living habits, and husband and wife life are not on the same channel.

So they try their best to change the other party, so that the other party's personality, hobbies and themselves tend to be the same, but the result is often the opposite, not only can not change the other party, but increase the psychological distance between the two parties.

In the face of differences, the rational choice is to be tolerant. Accommodating each other in their hobbies and habits can not only eliminate many frictions, but also promote harmony between husband and wife.

3. Self-improvement.

Many women pay special attention to grooming during the love period, but after marriage, they let themselves go and feel that it is tiring enough to take care of their children to do housework every day, even if they are unkempt.

Just ask which husband wants to see his wife sloppy all day long, which is not pleasing to the eye, but also makes the husband feel very faceless in front of outsiders.

Therefore, you have to redress yourself and improve your quality of life, especially when you go out to parties with your husband, you have to clean yourself up, and dressing appropriately is the least respect for your husband.

Marital crises often force people to reflect and change, but it is important to note that change is for the sake of growth, not just to please the other person for the sake of saving the marriage, which often leads to deeper depression.

What your husband told you that he couldn't go on, it must be that the two of you didn't communicate. When two people are together, it is very important to have something to say, and they can talk together.

As long as two people are together, the most important thing is to have something to say, so that the people who can talk together are really a tacit understanding, they don't get tired of talking for a long time, and they don't get bored after chatting for a long time, on the contrary, when two people fall in love together, they don't know what to say, and they don't have anything to say, which can only show that your feelings are not very deep. You must know that to really love someone, you must have nothing to say, no matter how honest your "character" is, there are endless words to say in the face of the person you like. In fact, this phenomenon is experienced by many couples, and it is a necessary stage of love, not caused by one person, it may not be so lovely, and there are fewer words in the heart, in short, two people who love each other, the deeper the love, in the end, even if there is nothing to say, they feel very loved.

2. When two people are together, they have similar three views, and it is easy to enter each other's hearts.

There is a saying that if the three views do not agree, it will never be a person all the way. It can be seen that it is really important to have similar three views, before getting married, you must pay attention to the three views, and being with a person with different three views is really tiring and tiring, just like you said that the sea is beautiful, but he said that many people have died. I and my ex are not in agreement, she likes fitness travel and high-quality life, there are a lot of big-name counters of clothes, bags and cosmetics, so there is no shortage of money exquisite life, because she is a rich second generation, expenses do not depend on wages, and my ordinary family, living expenses all rely on wages, so many problems, especially practical problems, the concept must be different, of course, it is very sad that she does not believe in feelings, because of a little thing to easily propose to break up, in the end or love can not be realistic.

3. When two people are together, mutual trust, understanding, and tolerance are the most important.

When the two are together, many couples like to ask each other to swear, saying what, in my opinion, such behavior is not enough love, no trust, since they love each other, why should the other party swear? You don't even have the least trust, and even if the other person swears, it's unrealistic. The courage to hold hands to walk through a lifetime, this courage comes from two people's mutual trust, understanding and tolerance, if two people are together, can not do mutual trust, understanding, tolerance, is not far, such feelings are not firm, easy to be blown away by the wind.

You must know that feelings are the joint efforts of two people, no matter what they do, they are mutual, not alone, only if they can trust, understand, tolerate, and empathize from each other's point of view, such two people can stand the test.

In fact, if it is the other party's problem, then according to your own heart, but I still hope that you can be the best version of yourself.

If you can't get by, get a divorce.

Then it depends on what is the reason for each of your points, and what is the reason for the combination, and you can't generalize.

If the reason for the separation is such as the disagreement of the three views, the problem involving the bottom line of principles, the leakage of the state servant or some practical problems that cannot be solved, then there is no need to continue this kind of separation, because you will find that it will be worse if the two of you enter into marriage in the future. In the love period with a high emotional concentration, you can't have a good time, and when you enter marriage, it will be more difficult to solve a more complex situation.

The reason for the union is just that they can't find each other better.,It's just that they're going to go down to each other.,There's no need to merge.,So the bad relationship is very fragile.,Maybe one day one of you meets a satisfactory object.,TA will choose to leave.,What about the rest of the person? Isn't it a waste of time and energy? And there may be resentment, and no one knows how it will end.

Even if you talk about the two of you haven't met a more satisfied person, so you can make do with it when you're in love, and it's even more difficult to deal with it after marriage, and most of the couples who love each other after marriage have experienced stumbling and running-in days, if you don't really love each other, it will be difficult to tolerate each other, and the ending of such a relationship is mostly not good, and it is difficult to be happy.

If you both love each other very much, you often have conflicts and break up because of trivial things in life. Later, because I still love each other, I am reluctant to get back together with each other, in this case, I think you can continue.

Hardly a couple's relationship is smooth sailing, those couples who can come together and live happily together for a lifetime, couples have experienced a run-in period. No one is born to fit each other, the general direction is suitable, you change a little, he tolerates a little, and slowly adjusts to become appropriate. If you want the other person to be perfect and everything is suitable for you, this idea is immature in itself.

After all, everyone grew up in a different family, had different experiences, received different education, and it was difficult for their ideological concepts and behavioral habits to fully match each other.

Good love is managed.

Love needs to be cherished, but also needs to be tolerant, if you feel that the other party is the right person, cherish it and work hard. If you feel that the other party is not the right person, then let go quickly, it is a fulfillment for everyone.

Feelings need to be emotional, and they need to be rational to be happy.

Listen attentively, analyze deeply, and may every heart bloom like a flower!

Summary. Hello, can you briefly describe the reason for your encounter, and see if I can give you some advice!

I don't think I can get along with my husband, but for some reason, I can't bring it up at the moment, what should I do.

Hello, can you briefly describe the reason for your encounter, and see if I can give you some advice!

Last year, my husband suddenly revealed that he owed 200,000 yuan in online loans, and Jian Changchun, who his mother helped to smooth it out, went to borrow money from relatives. Later, he had a conflict with his mother, dragged me to move out, sold the house before marriage and bought the current one after marriage. Now as we get along, he has too many problems, he has him, his family, and I feel that I am too hard, but my mother's family is afraid of causing trouble, so they persuade me.

20 ends. He didn't find out until I was more than 1 year old when I was pregnant, and I didn't know about it during that time.

20w Didn't you know where the money went, how could you suddenly owe a lot?

I looked at it, and he invited others to dinner, and then sometimes he bought something for home use, which was to go out and spend it. Give some at home, too.

I never knew his income, and when I asked him, he told me not to worry about it.

Could it be that WD was lifted?Where is this money, you still have to ask clearly, now you are also a family with children, and it is not a matter of burying the spine, which has a great impact on the children.

There are no online loans at the moment, but I think I always want to live a quiet and comfortable life.

I don't want to be influenced by anyone.

Yes, you have to be sure of what you do before you do anything, right, after all, it is you who live your life, not anyone else.

Go your own way, don't be influenced by others.