My dad is very fierce, especially after drinking, throwing tantrums and using my family as a punchin

Hello friends. You're asking a very serious question. As a bystander, I am very worried about your situation, and I am very grateful for you to raise your difficulties here, hoping to help you in the hope of something.

Actually, ......You have many options, such as running away from home, such as being patient until you leave the environment after you go to college or work. But I think the best thing to do is to try to care for your dad and help your dad (and your mom as well).

Although you can't understand it, and your dad doesn't necessarily understand it, the fact that your dad's current situation does show that he is very painful and difficult. Of course, you won't know the reason directly, but the best way to change the current situation of your family, to change your own current situation, is to rely on yourself and rely on your own efforts.

Why can't adults? Because they haven't woken up yet, they're not enlightened. Because it's up to you to ask your questions.

If you can wake up and you can do your part, the status quo will change. And what you have to do is actually not complicated, that is, first, do your own things, including your own study and daily life. 2. Help adults do some housework as much as possible, share their pressure, and relieve the tense atmosphere at home.

To put it simply, you have to mature as soon as possible, this is the best way for you, and it will also allow you to get the best results from it, which is what is commonly said to turn bad things into good things.

Drunkenness is a way for fathers to escape reality. You don't know why he did this, but when you put in the effort, Dad will get better, believe that.

Take care of your dad and put yourself in your shoes. You think, your father beat you and he doesn't feel good, think about it. That's it.

If you don't listen to the reason, then you have to find the police.

It is useless to persuade with good words, people have been anesthetized by alcohol, and there will definitely be tantrums when talking nonsense, and this situation is usually divided into the following points:

People who lose their temper after drinking, you must ignore him, the more you follow the top, the easier it is to provoke him, and the brain of the person after alcohol anesthesia, IQ is greatly reduced, you just need to coax, coax him to sleep, and it will be fine.

If this is the case, you should be cautious and remember to avoid him, lock him in his room alone, and wait for him to fall asleep.

Calling a neighbor or a good friend of his, under normal circumstances, if he is still a little sensible, when he sees his friend, he will restrain himself and will not mess around, which is also a very effective method.

Drinking in moderation is good for the body, and drinking too much will hurt the liver, which is very harmful to the body! It is easy to cause stroke, cerebral hemorrhage, shock, alcoholism, paralysis, etc., you must be kind to persuade him, this is too important!

The village chief of my village just drank too much, said in the car that it was too uncomfortable, wanted to vomit, and after going out, he lay under the tree on the side of the road, just 1 2 minutes, first aid can't be saved!

Your dad is because the family is under pressure and there is nowhere to vent, so he will borrow alcohol to kill his sorrows, you dao

We have a lot of sisters and can.

It is indeed not easy to support a family, and it also requires your understanding as children.

One thing is that several of your sisters, including your mother, live in a depressed environment all day long, this is not good, you will get depression, you should find a way to make your dad change his attitude towards you, that is, every time you don't resist, he will become a habit, and it will not work like this.

This is alcoholism, because my dad is the same as your dad, and my dad got sick later and really couldn't drink a little bit anymore. From then on, I didn't drink alcohol, and my home became clean. Sometimes it's really frustrating. Neither is what children want to see.

Have a good talk with your dad, take a picture of him when he was drunk, and then find a chance to show him.

It's exactly the same as my parents, my mom is pitiful when she is beaten, but when she is not beaten, that mouth is the most disgusting toilet in the world, I don't know who to hate, I especially hate domestic violence, quarrels, and sometimes I am afraid that my mom will be beaten to death by my dad, so I am more and more inferior, more and more introverted. They are really not things, they are deformed and still have to have children, I am 21 years old this year, and I often see my dad jumping like a mad dog and hitting my mother, and my mother is as good as ever The scar is forgotten to hurt. In this life, if I could, I didn't want to get married, let alone have children, I just wanted to wait for the end of my life.

I was afraid of marrying someone with a twisted and violent personality like my father, afraid of being a sad and resentful woman like my mother, and afraid of having a child with low self-esteem and sensitivity like me.

It's a tragedy to have such a parent! However, they are the ones who brought you into this world, so you still don't dislike them!

It is recommended that you:1Use them as a mirror, and you must not be like them when you grow up!

2.Mom is not a good mom, and she shouldn't discourage you. You must study hard and strive to excel, so that your mother is speechless!

3.Friends rely on you to take the initiative to approach others, care for others, be willing to communicate with others, and do good deeds for others. That's because your performance has earned the respect of others!

I wish you a successful life!

Move out for a while, and relax and communicate more after leaving.

Establish lofty ideals and be optimistic.

Such parents are indeed angry, but after all, they are parents, they still have to treat them well, and their future depends on their own efforts, don't just listen to others.

Don't have an inferiority complex, don't take care of the affairs of adults, don't manage it well, freeze three feet is not a day's cold, adjust your mentality and make more friends.