My boyfriend gave me 3 thousand, I bought my boyfriend a gift of 2 thousand, and I gave him 2 thousa

You're not right, what are you doing with an extra thousand, if you don't want to lose money, then don't accept the three thousand before him.

I think it's acceptable for you to do that, but the best thing to do is if he gives you money, you keep it there, and don't spend money on things.

I feel like you, I feel like your boyfriend gave you 2,000 yuan, but you sold him and spent 4,000 yuan on him, and I feel that this person is very good to you, and the two of you are very good together.

Did he give you 3,000 yuan and then ask you to buy gifts? Even if you buy a gift and have a little money left, you can tell her, but there is no need to give it to him.

If the relationship between two people is good, there is no need to calculate the money so clearly. Because taking money too seriously will make the other party feel very depressed.

In fact, I think this approach of yours must be very good, because this practice of yours is a particularly good practice, which shows that the relationship between you and your boyfriend is very deep.

Personally, I don't think it has anything to do with right or wrong, it's about whether you want to do it yourself or not, and others can't judge it.

There is no right or wrong in this kind of thing in a relationship, only willing and unwilling, only love and non-love, you do this is a manifestation, your love for your boyfriend, if he has a conscience, will definitely cherish you.

The main purpose of breaking up is to understand the real intention of the other party to break up, and to see whether the other party still has love through the intention, and if so, to redeem it according to a certain strategy.

Hello, do the right thing, because if you accept a boy's money, you may sometimes be inferior in front of the other party.

You're a pretty good girl. The economic account is very clear. Not dependent on men. Don't take advantage of men.

You will also be respected by others.

That's a courtesy exchange, you are doing well, you should not be a material person.

And give me 3000, I bought a gift for my boyfriend, 2000 returned 2000 to him, is that right? Since it's boyfriend and girlfriend, there's no distinction between you and me, well.

First of all, I'm honored for your question, I'll share a little story, maybe you'll understand what to do after reading it.

My friend Jing and her boyfriend have been together for five years, as the first batch of post-90s.

Representative, seeing that she is about to run for three, but her boyfriend has never mentioned marriage to her. Because her parents were urging her very tightly, Jing took the initiative to propose marriage to her boyfriend, but her boyfriend always said that he would wait for two more years and promised to marry her on the grounds that his career had not yet been achieved.

Jing doesn't understand, she has a stable income and a house, and her boyfriend lives with her. My boyfriend's income is unstable, sometimes it is considerable, sometimes it is relatively poor, and I will take out my daily expenses, and she takes the down payment for her boyfriend's car, and when she goes out to date a movie or something, it is almost all out of her boyfriend, but not all. Boyfriend is the kind of person who is very critical of others, but is very generous to himself, a business trip letter.

She is pampered with all sorts of holiday surprises. Jing also plans to be happy with him forever in this life, and takes advantage of the Mid-Autumn Festival to go back to her boyfriend's house to see her parents mention marriage to his parents, and still say that she will talk about it for two years.

It was this incident that made Jing understand, not that she had no money to marry, but that she didn't want to marry, so she proposed to break up. The boyfriend has been trying his best to save this relationship at the beginning, but Jing really wants to give up, and there is nothing to insist on in the future. The last time the argument was overwhelmed, both parties didn't control their emotions, and Jing asked her boyfriend to move out and live in, and never contacted each other again!

At this time, the scumbag's original face began to be exposed, and the boyfriend took out all the large and small expense bills over the years, kept them all in good condition, made a four-page dense list, and said to Jing: "It's okay to break up, return all this money to me!" ”。

My friend Jing is really angry, and when he looks for me, he cries uncontrollably and asks me what I should do?

It really refreshed my three views, isn't this the joke I read on the forum? Why does it appear in real life? Are those pictures of love all phantoms?

Later, Jing couldn't stand the entanglement of her boyfriend asking for money, found his parents, and finally broke up smoothly after many rounds! However, the damage to Jing has not stopped, and it is estimated that it will take a long time to recover.

I hope that all girls in the flower season can avoid scumbags and find a lifelong love, keep their eyes open, and never be wronged with the attitude of a lifetime.

There is no need. Just 1,000 yuan, it is just a gift from two people to each other in the process of dating, expressing their love.

If your boyfriend is particularly slamming the door, come to the door to ask for it, forget it for him.

In fact, between two people, there is no need to worry so much, this thousand yuan was given to you by your boyfriend, if the two of you have a good relationship, then I don't think there is any need to pay him back, but if you don't want to continue this relationship, and you don't want to owe him anything, then you'd better return the money to him, so as not to fall behind.

See how it is given.

If there is an agreement or record in the process of giving money such as a loan, etc., and the other party asks for a return after the breakup, it needs to be returned.

If there is no agreement or record that proves that it was a loan or that there was an obvious giving, it does not need to be returned.

Look at what the money is used for, and the state of your relationship. I think it's time to pay it back, I don't think feelings should be measured in terms of actual amounts, if you start doing this, this relationship is a transaction, it's like a scale, there is no absolute balance, don't run away from what we should give back to others as individuals in the name of love, don't take the kindness of others to us for granted. Once the balance is lost, the relationship is running out.

In other words, girls must be respected by boys, and boys will cherish you. If he doesn't respect you, then it's not that the 1,000 dollars can make up for it. Don't give a guy any chance to think that as long as he uses money, he can control you, and he can disrespect you.

If you often allow, you can pay him back as much as possible, and he will be able to accept it, because the money is not very much, as long as the economy is not too tight, you should not care too much, as a woman should also be financially independent, so that you will not be looked down upon, and will be respected, I hope you can be happy.

If you have just begun to establish a relationship, and you have not yet reached the stage of talking about marriage, it is best to return it to him.

Of course, if he doesn't have any money, he doesn't want you to pay it back, you can do it yourself.

If the two of you have broken up now, and he has the idea of getting 1,000 yuan back, and you haven't sacrificed yourself for taking 1,000 yuan from him, then you can give him back 1,000 yuan, if you don't break up, but just have a conflict, then you don't need to pay him back 1,000 yuan.

Since it's your boyfriend, you can not pay it back, but you can try to pay him back to see if he can accept it, if he accepts it, it means that your relationship is not true, and if he takes the initiative to give it to you, it means that he is very good to you and is willing to pay for you, a man who is willing to pay for a woman He must like this woman.

It depends on how your boyfriend treats you, if you get along well, you don't need to pay it back, if you return the money to your boyfriend, and your boyfriend wants it, it means that he still doesn't love you.

Be sure to give it back to him, so that it can also test whether he really loves you or loves money a little more? If he loves you, he doesn't need you to pay it back, if he doesn't love you and doesn't care about you, he will definitely accept your money, which can also increase the understanding between the two parties!

Whether the 1,000 yuan is used or not depends on the situation? If you have a good relationship and continue to get along, don't pay him back. If you don't want to stay with him anymore. What don't you want to owe him? Then you give him back the 1,000 yuan.

No, you don't. If it is borrowed, it must be returned.

If he asks you to shop or something, it should be an act of gift, if he proposes to break up, you don't have to pay it back, but if you propose to break up, even though he is an act of gift, you had better return it to him, don't leave it to the truth.

Hope. Hope it helps.

First of all, if the relationship has been established for a long time and gets along relatively well. If he gives it on his own initiative, he doesn't have to pay it back. If you take the initiative to ask for it, it depends on your mood.

But if you have just established a relationship and have not gotten along well, it is recommended to return it.

No, if you have a good relationship, you don't have to worry about this problem at all, but if he has something to offer you, you should also give back appropriately, such as buying him gifts or something. It's mutual.

It depends on your relationship, if you have just started talking, you should find a way to return it to him, or buy him something of almost the same value, if you talk for a long time, you can take 1000 yuan and buy it with him, you can buy something for you and him.

According to the court's judgment in the recent hot news, if it is an amount of special significance such as 520 or 1314, it can be determined that it is a gift, and it is difficult to define the rest.

If you have a good relationship and the money is given by your boyfriend, then you don't need to give it, can you give it to him later, love management needs to pay for each other. On the contrary, if you don't get along with your boyfriend and are about to break up, you don't want to owe him anything, so pay him back. Then turn around and run to another person who loves you with ease, looking for your own happiness.

If you really want it, don't give it back to him, if you still lose face, you can return it first, and if he sends it to you again, you can take it.

No need anymore because he gave you 1000 yuan and she is your boyfriend, do you think you need to pay him back?

If it is given, then it does not need to be returned. Your own boyfriend is no one else, but you still have to figure out the money thing, and the concept of giving is different from borrowing.

If he took the initiative to give it to you, it was a gift, and there was no need to pay it back.

No need, because there is no reason for love, since he doesn't love me, why should he tell me 1000 yuan to show that he already loves me.

It's not necessary, I think it's normal for your boyfriend to spend this kind of money on you, and you are with your boyfriend, he also paid something, and you also paid, so it doesn't matter if you spend a little money, this kind of money is all small money.

Yes, definitely, but don't give him money, buy him gifts he likes.

If you are in love to enhance your relationship or Valentine's Day, you don't have to pay it back, and you don't have to blackmail yourself

No, because. He loves you so much.

If you repay what you borrow, you must repay it, and if you lend us money, it means that we are now short of nitrogen and pay them back, and others may need it.

No, next time I transfer money to you, I have to say, thank you dear, you understand.

It's not precious, but it's okay, what is your relationship now? If it's a boyfriend or girlfriend, then he gives you a gift, it means that he cares about you very much, you should feel very happy, if it's a relationship other than boyfriend and girlfriend, then he gives you a gift, it means that your relationship is very close, and he wants to enhance your relationship through gifts, so no matter what he gives you, you have to accept it, don't feel too valuable, don't feel embarrassed, if you don't accept it.

Summary. First of all, Valentine's Day is originally a day to express love for his lover, if he gives his mother such an expensive gift, it means that his mother may have a very good relationship with him when he was a child, causing him to grow up, and the first thing that comes to mind is to give something to his mother. Don't think too much about it, he gave you a gift of more than a hundred dollars.

It's also some tickets that have their own hearts, but they say that they are slightly cheaper on **.

My boyfriend gave me a gift of more than 100 yuan on Valentine's Day, but he gave his mother a gift of more than 1,000 yuan.

First of all, Valentine's Day is originally a day to express love for his lover, if he gives his mother such an expensive gift, it means that his mother may have a very good relationship with him when he was a child, causing him to grow up, and the first thing that comes to mind is to give something to his mother. Don't think too much about it, he gave you a gift of more than a hundred dollars. It's also some tickets that have their own hearts, but they say that they are slightly cheaper on **.

Don't complain too much about him either, first of all, he prepares a gift for you, which already shows that his feelings for you are also good.

Secondly, it may be due to some economic and other circumstances, so that the gift is not very expensive.

Does he belong to a single-parent family?

Not a single-parent family.

In that case, why did he give it to his mother? Because his mother also has a partner.

You will feel that he will pay more attention to his mother's feelings in later life, and not so much to you.

First of all, we should first consider the matter itself.

You should think about it, the things you buy for your parents definitely need to be a little more expensive and practical. So maybe it's a little more expensive.

But it is impossible to go and prepare for his mother every Valentine's Day, probably just right. This holiday reminded my mother, prepared a gift for her, and then I didn't have much money in hand, so I prepared a slightly cheaper one for you.

His mother would give him a few ** every day, and she would tell his mother about anything every day.

shows that in this case, he is still more dependent on his mother.

At what age are you in a relationship?

It shouldn't be too big, otherwise I wouldn't be so dependent on my mother.

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