What does it mean for a man to tell a woman that he wants to get married?

Women should not get married in flashes.

1. The conflict between two family backgrounds and cultures that I don't know at all.

In China, marriage is never as simple as we think, just as long as you love me. Behind any marriage, there are two different families playing a foil, competition and run-in. The two simple subjects of marriage and the many problems that exist in a series of problems are widely and indirectly latent in their respective family conflicts.

Therefore, there is still a certain reason for the door-to-door pair. Due to the same class interests and living habits, the rich, the poor, the merchants, the peasants, and the intellectuals will all have their own common language, living habits, and value identity. Although the pace of modern civilization and informatization has gradually diluted this boundary, its contradictions and conflicts are not easy to eliminate, and women are easy to regret their flash marriage.

Therefore, it is relatively easy for a man and a woman to fall in love in a short period of time, but if you want to make the two families really integrate, it will not be a matter of a year and a half. In a country like China, a couple and a couple who love each other cannot escape the influence of the whole family on their marriage.

2. The staying power of a marriage with a one-sided relationship and a good feeling for each other may be poor.

After all, marriage is not a dating party, just by virtue of one-sided relationship and a good impression of laughing at each other, you can tolerate and cooperate with each other and even attract to finish a game. Marriage means responsibility, it means mutual tolerance, it means that each other has more shortcomings to expose to each other at a glance.

If there is no little bit of true love to support it, any small event after marriage may inadvertently and quickly destroy the life of the marriage. The marriage of "flash marriage" is like a ripening fruit, although it shortens the fruiting period of the fruit, but in fact it also reduces the quality of the fruit.

I just want to find a girl, whether I have feelings or not, and get married directly. Get married first, and the relationship can be cultivated slowly, which is called marriage first and then love.

The other party may mean that he has had a good impression of a certain woman for a long time, thinks he knows her very well, and even thinks that the other party loves him very much, wants to establish a relationship with her, and gets married immediately! Be with her for the rest of your life.

It means that he has a view of love and marriage, which shows that he still believes in love at first sight, and his attitude towards love and marriage is somewhat impulsive.

When a man says flash marriage to a woman, he wants to marry this woman immediately, which saves a lot of some things before marriage, which proves that this man loves this woman very much, and she wants to marry this woman immediately.

It shows that the boy wants to get married, but there is no suitable marriage partner. There is also the fact that this boy has just found a girlfriend and is about to get married, so he said it in a joking way in advance so that everyone can be prepared.

It means that he doesn't want to waste so much time in the relationship, he hopes to have a faster love, as long as everyone sees the right eye, they can get married, first marry and then love.

A man's desire to get married in a flash actually shows that the boy is very anxious about getting married, so he wants to be able to enter the palace of marriage directly without experiencing too many things.

Hello, I think what he means is his view of love and marriage, and his attitude towards love and marriage is somewhat impulsive. Again, the results need to be carefully considered. I wish you all happiness.

This should be a curiosity and impulse for marriage, he feels that the people around him are married, and he also wants to feel the happiness brought by marriage.

I just want to get married suddenly and quickly, a little faster, and I don't want to drag it all the time.

Since you want to get married in a flash, you have to have a partner, so saying this may be a temptation of your meaning, and I am interested in you, but I don't know what your heart is.

It shows that this man wants to find a suitable woman to marry as soon as possible, and does not want to drag out not getting married.

Flash marriage is to get married after knowing each other for a short time, to put it bluntly, it is to get married for the sake of getting married, and to make do with life without an emotional foundation.

The man said this just to try the taste of flash marriage with you, so test if you have this idea?

It's very tiring to fall in love, it's better to fall in love as soon as two people meet, and get married immediately.

Even if I meet a very suitable person, I will not choose a flash marriage, because the two people have known each other for too short and do not know each other very well, and there may be all kinds of problems after a hasty marriage, so I will contact for a period of time first, and then make a decision when I feel that the two people are suitable, because flash marriage has many shortcomings.

First, the emotional foundation is too thin.

The road can know the horsepower, and the people can see the hearts of the people after a long time, so the marriage should not be too hasty. If the two have not met for a few days, or have been together for less than a month, they will be married for life, which is very abrupt. It's too irresponsible for your own decisions, and you take marriage as a joke.

Even if you have feelings for each other, you have to get along for at least half a year, understand each other more deeply, and then judge whether the other party is suitable for you, and then decide your own future, such a choice is wise and rational. Otherwise, you will regret it later, and then it will be too late.

Second, the purpose is too strong.

The purpose of flash marriage is to get married, maybe you missed the marriage that is too much to talk about, and you are also anxious, and your family is also worried. And I feel that I am almost old, and I am afraid of missing it again, so I decided to find a woman who can barely meet the conditions at random, and complete my life's work. This is too inconsiderate, and the marriage is not taken seriously at all, it has not been well thought out, and it has not been short-term running-in.

In this way, it is easy to have contradictions and misunderstandings in the future. Therefore, flash marriage is really unreliable, it is better to have more contact and more understanding.

3. Think too beautifully and solve the problem after marriage.

People who get married in a flash use their own happiness as a bet, think about the problem too simply, want to get along well after marriage, hide the contradictions, and ignore the unstable factors in each other's personalities. This is easy to go wrong, because the result may be that when they live together, there are many things, and the contradictions are gradually revealed, the two have different views, different habits, and unwillingness to tolerate, and finally it becomes a flash marriage, and before the fast divorce has time to enjoy the happiness brought by marriage, the marriage has already ended.

Marriage is not child's play. It should be taken seriously, think carefully before making a decision, and avoid being unhappy after a flash marriage on a whim, which will be a harm to both parties.

Even if it is suitable, give each other an inspection period and a run-in period, as much as possible for more than half a year, or even more than a year.

Marriage must be a lifelong rush, and taking some time to observe each other is not a loss.

If you get married directly, it is equivalent to gambling on pants, and you will lose nine out of ten bets 1, psychological effect.

On some occasions, some points happen to hit you, so that Hui Zen Qi looks at him with a filter and mistakenly thinks that this is all about him.

Be sure to talk to each other more and observe each other's behavior to see if it is consistent.

3. Give some time and cultivate feelings.

Marriages with feelings and marriages without feelings are often two situations.

It is recommended to cultivate a certain emotional foundation before marriage, and there is a buffer for conflicts after marriage.