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It seems to be relaxed and carefree, but in fact, the whole person has become hollow, and the brain is becoming more and more dull, not the kind of imaginary freewheeling, human nature is cheap, and the entertainment that takes time out of work is cherished, if you are relaxing all the time, you will lose your sense of happiness, and you will be happy in contrast.
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The year before last, when I had worked for 4 years and 6 months, I resolutely quit my first job, which can be described as a good salary, and then spent 8 months spending a gap year. Don't ask me why, it's just that I'm confused when I go to work, and I want to stop and look at the world. The days when I just quit my job can be described as a relief, it is common to not draw the curtains all day to eat, drink, sleep and sleep for half a month without going out, no one has to pay attention to it and do not have to say those insincere words, the mood is extremely refreshing, there is no way who makes me like this leisurely and casual life.
It's a pity that the family thinks that this kind of behavior is against the sky, although they don't live together, they can't help but have 100,000 relatives come to your door every day to do ideological work for you. Then I suddenly woke up to myself and suddenly realized that this behavior was indeed wrong, and then I went out. During the period, I went to Mohe in the coldest time, went to the most remote place to the small mountain village in Guangxi where my friends taught, went to Ili to see lavender, and went to South Korea by myself.
All the free travel of the whole self-service, sometimes there are small partners on the road, sometimes they travel alone, take the way to the airport, and also stayed in a five-star hotel that accidentally arrived in seconds, what I have seen and felt and experienced is not a sentence or two can be summarized, in short, I feel that this period of time is very meaningful to me. Later, after working for all these years, I finally fed the fat little purse and saw that it was going to hang up, so I went home and adjusted it and started to look for a job, and then. Then I started working again, which is roughly a little better than my first job, at least I don't have to work overtime.
I am very grateful that I have withstood the pressure from all parties and the hesitation in my heart, and gave myself a different choice.
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I haven't worked for a year and a half, and I feel more and more out of touch with society, and I feel good when I go out for a shopping and dinner occasionally, and I feel that it is impossible to integrate into society anymore, although I don't like this impetuous and noisy world. The days at home are to go out in the evening to buy groceries, go to the supermarket, and spend the rest of the time reading, watching movies, and reading articles. I feel like I'm old and very adaptable, even though I'm 95 years old.
Are you bored at home? I don't feel bored at all, but I'm annoyed when there are many people. I have the capital to eat what I want, drink what I want, and if I don't have capital, I won't eat or drink, why can't I live my life!
If you have the ability to lie down and play, who still works!
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If you don't go to work for a long time, you will feel that you can do a lot of things you want to do, develop a lot of hobbies, and take a lot of training classes, but everyone has to go to work and no one plays with you.
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There are 5 houses in Beijing, worth 2000w+, and a deposit of more than 2 million. I just quit my job for a month, it's comfortable to rest, if I'm rich enough, I don't want to work for the rest of my life, the shrinking of my social circle has no effect on me, I'm not afraid of loneliness, I like to be alone, for me only my family and lovers are important. Driving a car of more than 20w on the road, I thought, I only drove such a cheap car in 5 houses, and those who drive good cars are so rich, anxious.
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I haven't worked for almost four years, and I am happy that I am very free and can spend time on various hobbies, but I am not happy that I am like a waste, with low self-esteem, and a long road ahead, and I am afraid that I will be looked down upon when I go out in the future.
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Often naked, often unemployed, since graduating in 08, changed countless jobs, the longest to do more than a year, the shortest to do three or five days, over the years the total length of unemployment for three and a half years, the total length of work for four and a half years, always find a job to do two or three days on the entanglement of whether to continue to do, and once there is a tangled emotion, will definitely resign, every time after resigning, will go home to sleep in the dark, and then continue to sleep late and get up late, breakfast is basically free, play mobile phones and computers, basically no hobbies, Friends are afraid to contact, and family members rarely communicate, feeling that they are too successful to see the future.
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I didn't work for any reason one year after graduation. More and more homely, not socializing with people. However, I have been looking for a job, and my goal is to definitely go to work this year.
I feel that the longer I stay at home, the more my head is wooden, my mouth becomes stupid, and in short, everything is going downhill as fast as I can. Although I still insist on exercising, reading, and cultivating new interests, not being in contact with society is really a fatal blow, and some people may be afraid of society because of this. Fortunately, my mentality is okay, I have failed all the jobs I have been looking for, and I am ready to regroup and continue.
Work can always be found. Resolutely not to stay at home anymore.
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I didn't go to work for 1 year after I became pregnant. The feeling of not going to work is that I don't dare to spend money lavishly, and I feel that I am not free to spend my husband's money. I have nothing to do every day.,I'm not interested in TV dramas.,At first, I couldn't read the book and I couldn't watch it later.。 Every day feels like a year.
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If a person does not have a job, the sense of self-worth will be relatively low, and if he has not worked for a long time, he will have an inferiority complex in his heart, and he will slowly dislike to contact with others, and when he sees others talking about work together, he can't interject at all, and then he will subconsciously feel that he is useless. If a person does not go to work for a long time, his expression and thinking skills will deteriorate. In the workplace, there is a saying that fighting with people is endlessly fun, although it is a way to ridicule, but dealing with people, even if it is a struggle, can also enhance their thinking ability, and their brains are still running at high speed.
People around you sometimes have to cooperate with each other, sometimes there will be contradictions, every day these seemingly ordinary phenomena will happen to you, you must go through your brain to think, day after day, year after year, in the long run, your brain is stimulated by various things, which develops your brain, so that you continue to gain new knowledge and ways to deal with problems in life, and you are constantly improving in your work. Therefore, not going to work is a waste of one's potential for a person who has the ability to work. The days when you don't go to work all day and have nothing to do are actually quite boring.
If you don't go to work for a long time and don't deliberately practice your professional skills, your ability will definitely decline gradually, which is also not good for integrating into the next job. If you can, I still hope that even if I don't go to work for various reasons, I can always stay sharp and maintain my professional ability, so that I will not depreciate in the talent market because I don't go to work, but become more and more valuable and attractive. People tend to be cranky when they have no pressure and no direction, and they are busy and do not die, but they may die when they are idle.
So it's better to do something meaningful.
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I am very free to go to work for a long time, I am very happy, I can do whatever I want, and my creativity and imagination are also very good. People don't become decadent, and even if they don't go to work, they have other hobbies.
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Although there is not much mental pressure and the body is relatively relaxed, it may become very depressed, not interested in anything, and will become very inferior; I think it will, if you can't get in touch with the outside world well, you will be derailed from this society.
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You will feel that you are worthless, you will have low self-esteem, and sometimes you will be very decadent, you will feel that you don't have a lot of topics in common with others, and you don't have the confidence to buy anything in life.
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I feel useless when I don't do anything.
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Decadent. It's like a salted fish.
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I have the most say in answering this question, because I haven't been to work for seven years, and my feeling is that I am now very afraid of entering society, I am afraid of going to the interview for work, and I even think that I will be a housewife at home for the rest of my lifeAlthough I also know that being a housewife is the most dangerous profession, I really have a sense of fear of entering society, how to say, it is even more frightening than when I went to study alone, maybe this is the reason why I have been derailed from society for a long time.
I haven't gone to work since I got married and pregnant, at that time it was because of the pregnancy that I was not in good health, so I could only choose to be at home, I thought I would go out to work after giving birth, I thought that going to work was the ideal of life, and then after giving birth, because the child was not brought, so I had no choice but to continue not to work, Dabao accidentally had a second child after the age of two, so I could only continue not to work. Now Dabao is in the first grade of primary school and Erbao is in kindergarten, and my in-laws now have time to take care of my children, but I don't want to go out.
My husband always said that his parents would help take care of the children and let me go out to work, after all, I was also hard to get into college, I can't say that I went to college in vain, and now I am still young and can go out to find a job to do, and I may not be able to find a good job in a few years, but I am a little scared, I don't know if you will feel this way, in short, I have been away from society for too long, and I really always feel that if I am allowed to go to work, I don't know how to get along with people, how to do my job well.
I'm scared now, because I need to go out next year, go out into society, out of the house, how to say, that feeling is extremely unconfident in myself, afraid of facing blows, feeling like a child who needs to be protected, but unfortunately no one can protect me.
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There are many people in life who want to be able to make themselves not have to work, so that they will feel happy and happy, and they will feel that life is very free, but I think there will be certain disadvantages of not going to work for a long time, today we will take a look at people who do not work for a long time, what kind of feelings they will have.
So a person who has not worked for a long time, a person who has not worked for a long time, their hearts must be more panicked, more uneasy, more confused, and also at a loss, he does not know his future in **, he does not know what he can do, he will definitely doubt his own value, and he will also make himself very helpless, so people must find something to do, whether it is to go to work, whether it is to start a business, do not let yourself be idle.
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People who don't go to work for a long time will find it very boring to stay at home every day, but in fact, it still feels very comfortable and relaxed.
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People who do not go to work for a long time are physically and mentally free and unconstrained, and at the same time, they will become more undisciplined because of the comfort of life, and the rhythm of life will be distorted.
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It will be very idle, looking at idleness, feeling that the time of the day will become so long, friends are either at work or at home with children, and they can't make an appointment at all, simply put, they are idle to panic.
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The feeling in my heart is that I am very bored at home, I feel that I am a waste, I have nothing to do and society has been seriously derailed, and I am very depressed in my heart.
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It will feel very leisurely, and there will be a lot of time to squander every day. If you don't have a good schedule, it's easy to waste your time.
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Indulging in the comfort zone and not knowing the outside world, it is like living in your own small circle and not knowing anything, and when you come back to your senses one day, you will find that you are far away, but you are content with the status quo and don't know how to change.
If you look like this for a long time, it will definitely cause depression, and sometimes it will also cause psychological anxiety, and emotional upset will have a great impact.
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