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There is a rebellious child in the family, which is really a headache for the parents, and the rebellious child is disobedient, irritable, and easy to contradict his parents. For children in the rebellious period, parentsDo not threaten your child with violence or reprimand, but respect your child, communicate with him more, and give him more love. When facing a rebellious child, you may wish to guide your child in this way to help him through the rebellious period.
1. Give your child the right space
Most of the reason why children are rebellious is because children have been disciplined too strictly by their parents since childhood. When children reach puberty, they have independent thoughts and desire to be independent, so they will contradict their parents and act against them. Therefore, parents should accept their children's rebellious behavior at this time, observe their children's every move, communicate with their children more, and enter their children's hearts, so that their children can go through adolescence smoothly.
In daily life, parents in many families may be busy with work due to survival pressure, lack of companionship and care for their children, and when they are with their children, they do not have a good face, and their children will be more insecure, their inner needs will not be met, and they will be in a state of great hunger and thirst, and they will be irritable, sensitive, irritable, etc. Therefore, parents must learn to understand their children's hearts and give them enough care, so that they can effectively improve the rebellious situation.
3. Help children face problems head-on
The educational philosophy of many parents is that when their children make mistakes, they will be beaten or scolded, rather than letting them find their own solutions to solve problems, so that children will slowly become rebellious. Therefore, as a parent, when you find that your child has made a mistake, you should analyze the problem with your child and tell your child: "Child, no matter what difficulties you encounter, your parents will always be your strong backing!"
Let's figure it out together. Then guide the child to face the problem and find a solution to the problem. Then after the child has the ability to solve problems on his own, he will be emotionally stable and less rebellious.
To sum up, for children in the rebellious period, parents may wish to follow the above methods to help their children through the rebellious period.
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I think that when the child is in the rebellious period, it may still be a kind of rebellion against the parents' incomprehension of him, so talk to the child well and try to understand what he likes.
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At this time of the child's period, you can be friends with the child, listen carefully to the child's innermost thoughts, and guide the child step by step.
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At this stage, you should be diligent in communicating with your child, so that your child can imperceptibly feel the hardships and difficulties of being a parent, and you can have a good relationship with your child's close classmates, and you can also understand the child's situation when the child makes radical moves.
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1. Let one of the parents play the role of authority and rule-maker.
Don't be angry with your child casually, but let your child know which red lines should not be touched, and once you cross the line, you must be punished by Li Guantuan, such as stopping the snacks of the day, reducing the opportunity to go out and play, etc.
2. Do not criticize the child's emotions and solve problems with him.
Be a good listener and cultivate a sunny personality in your child. As a parent, you should make yourself a qualified listener, listen patiently to his thoughts, help your child eliminate confusion in time, help your child distinguish between right and wrong, let your child know what should be done and what should be suppressed, and let your child develop a positive, healthy and optimistic sunny character.
Parents must try to share their feelings with their children on an equal footing, and try not to criticize them. We can criticize children for doing things wrong, but don't easily say what emotions children shouldn't have, and any emotions should be accepted by parents.
3. We must learn to show weakness and cultivate children's sense of responsibility.
Children are the hope and the pillars of our future. Now we are the backbone of society and family, but in the future, our children will take over the baton in our hands and become the mainstay of society and family. Therefore, it is very important to cultivate children's sense of responsibility.
Therefore, on less important issues, we must learn to show weakness, learn to make a step, and let the child give full play to his own point of view, although his point of view is still very naïve and immature, but the child will slowly become mature and responsible in this immaturity. Which orange.
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Rebelliousness is a common phenomenon during the teenage years, but here are some things parents can do to deal with rebellious children:
1.Establish communication channels: Establish good communication channels with your child, understand their thoughts and feelings, and do not easily criticize or criticize their behavior.
2.Make compromises: Try to involve your child in decision-making and give them some autonomy, but also give appropriate guidance and advice.
3.Express understanding and support: Express understanding and support for your child and tell them that you love and care.
4.Establish rules and boundaries: Make sure your child is clear about the rules and boundaries of the family and social gatherings, and that they follow the law and moral code.
6.Seek professional support: If your child's rebellious behaviour is beyond your means, seek professional support such as psychological counseling or family**.
In short, parents should deal with rebellious children with understanding, support and care, help them overcome difficulties, and establish a positive outlook on life and values.
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Patient and adequate communication:
Parents should not scold, the correct way is to fully communicate and exchange with the child, patiently understand the child's own needs, listen to the child's views on things, and pay attention to communication skills such as tone and tone.
Correct guidance: After fully grasping the child's needs and opinions, if the child's views and opinions are correct and reasonable, parents can not be quiet but can not suppress, on the contrary, they can also help the child realize his wishes and ideas. If the child's needs are extreme or the desire is unrealistic, we should tell the child the correct help to correct the deviation, let him know the concept of right and wrong, and establish a correct outlook on life and values.
At this time, parents' communication attitude skills and correct guidance are very critical to the growth of children, parents and friends must pay attention to and pay time and energy to help children successfully rebel period, so that they can grow up healthy and strong.
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What parents should do is to understand their children appropriately, communicate with them more, and do not beat or scold them. It is necessary to go into the hearts of children more. Be more considerate of your child's hard work.
Parents should also communicate with their children from multiple angles. In this way, it can help the child to get through the rebellious period. Rock starvation.
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Parents must talk to their children well, be sure to tell their children what to do and what not to do, cultivate children's correct three views, and should not be too nagging.
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During the rebellious period, parents must talk to their children well, communicate with their children, and get along with their children as friends.
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It is inevitable that children will have a rebellious period, so what parents should do is to calm down and listen carefully to their children's voices, see what they want in their hearts, and don't blindly impose on their children according to their own wishes, which is not right.
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Parents should communicate properly with their children, cultivate common topics, look at problems from each other's point of view, and learn to listen to their children's ideas.
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Parents can give their children a certain amount of freedom and guide them appropriately so that they do not become more rebellious.
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