The phenomenon of round rice pension in rural areas is frequent, and the exposure of true filial p

The old people have such an idea, and they always feel that raising children prevents old age. In fact, in fact, having a son cannot guarantee that he will have a happy and peaceful old age. In today's rural areas, the elderly have more than two sons, and the problem of supporting the elderly is "round rice".

This method is particularly common in rural areas. It is not only a way of filial piety, but also a fig leaf for pseudo-filial piety.

When the old people are getting older, when they are old enough to help their children anymore. They become a burden to children, especially in rural areas. The living conditions in the rural areas are not as good as those in the cities, and the only way to make money in the rural areas is to work and farm.

The income is hard-earned money, the income is not too high, and the expenses of the family are not too low. If there are more elderly people, there will be one more mouth to eat, and there will be an extra expense.

When the elderly have several children, especially sons, the issue of supporting the elderly is like playing ball. Let's not talk about daughters, the ideological daughters in the countryside are all people who marry others. Although they want to take care of their father, after all, they have their own family, and if they keep taking care of their mother's family, it will cause dissatisfaction among their parents-in-law and husband.

The burden of taking care of his parents fell on the son. Rural people have a lot of energy in their bones.

As one of the parents and sons, he can't be too good to his parents, otherwise he will cause the dissatisfaction of the other brothers. If there is a brother in the family who is better off and behaves better to his parents than the other sons, the other brothers will put the burden of supporting their parents on themselves. Therefore, the only way to adopt the method of "round rice" can be adopted, and the families of several sons live in a family for a year, and during this year, they have to manage the food and drink of their parents, which is called "round rice".

Many times, parents live in their son's house and live a life of "rotating rice", and their children only take care of the food, just to block the crowd in the countryside.

There are both, but I think this is very reasonable, some children just don't know how to repay kindness, and they are not willing to fulfill filial piety, so they can only take compulsory measures, so some are true filial piety, they are voluntarily taken care of, and some are forced.

Rural round meal pension is true filial piety, children are providing for the elderly, but the way is different, according to the family situation is understandable, mutual understanding should be considerate, as long as the elderly are treated well is true filial piety.

In fact, they are not really filial, some people just want the pension of the elderly, and some money, so they will be filial on the surface, and they are all pretending to be for everyone to see.

In fact, there are many people who are not very filial, but they are afraid that outsiders will say that they are not filial and will pretend to be like this, but in fact, the actual situation is not so good for parents.

It is the exposure of true filial piety, because many young people now feel that their parents are very difficult, so they are indeed truly filial to their parents.

Generally, if the elderly in rural areas have more than two sons, this phenomenon often occurs when they are supporting, which cannot be said to be pseudo-filial piety, but just for a balance.

There are three main reasons why some rural people prefer to live by themselves rather than "round rice". First of all, many elderly people do not want to be a burden to their children. Secondly, what the elderly want is sincere companionship, not perfunctory support.

In addition, the old man thinks that this kind of "taking turns to support the elderly" is a very humiliating thing, as if he is declaring to the outside world that his son is not harmonious and unfilial.

We found that it is more popular in rural areas to take turns to support the elderly, which is the so-called rotating rice for the elderly, but some elderly people do not want to take turns to eat, they would rather live alone. There are three main reasons why old people have such a mentality.

First of all, many elderly people do not want to be a burden to their children. The old man knows that the children also have children and need to support the family, which is very stressful for the children. Some elderly people are actually very conscious, they don't want to be a burden to their children, so they choose to live alone.

Such an old man, in fact, is because he is old, afraid that his children will dislike him, and he will become a burden to his children, so he will have such thoughts.

Secondly, what the elderly want is sincere companionship, not perfunctory support. Sometimes in the process of taking turns to support, the elderly will feel that their children are just completing their maintenance obligations, just completing the task, and supporting themselves very perfunctorily, and they do not really want to accompany themselves, nor do they really want to live with themselves. In this kind of alternate support relationship, the old man's heart is hurt, and they sometimes have to look at the face of their daughter-in-law, so they simply live alone.

In addition, the old man thinks that this kind of "taking turns to support the elderly" is a very humiliating thing, as if he is declaring to the outside world that his son is not harmonious and unfilial. The reason why the elderly would rather live alone than continue this way of providing for the elderly is mainly because they feel that this way will make others laugh, and they will feel that they are very defeated and embarrassed, because their children are not filial and kick themselves around like a ball. They don't like this way they evaluate themselves in the unexpected world.

The above is the reason why the old man would rather live alone than take a round of meals.

Because they feel "aggrieved". There is a feeling of living under someone else's roof, so they would rather live on their own.

It is because this method is particularly inconvenient and also hurts the self-esteem of the elderly, so they are reluctant to do so.