Why is life progressing, but emotions are weak?

Because when life progresses, people's energy often turns to material enjoyment, or the pursuit of a higher material life, once this happens, people's spiritual needs are reduced, and feelings are thin, but people who share joys and sorrows will not necessarily enjoy this hard-won after the bitterness of the two people, but it is easier to be indifferent to each other's feelings. This may be a manifestation of not cherishing

Because of the acceleration of the rhythm, the delay in the stay of life, and the consequent, indirectly delayed the contact of feelings in life, because they all feel that there is no time, not enough time, busy, so the feelings are light.

In the case of material life is relatively satisfied, the requirements for spiritual life are also higher, perhaps not because the emotions are weak now, but because their own requirements for emotions have also increased. Please cherish the current life, life can progress, it means that it is the result of joint efforts, and the general direction is fine.

Because feelings will fade over time, but so what?

Is it just to live together for the sake of vigorous love? It's not young and frivolous.

Living together is just trying to be stable.

Don't think about weak feelings, weak feelings, otherwise there will really be no existence, find your own interests, don't let yourself make mistakes.

Life progress is a good thing! Who doesn't want to live a comfortable life, don't change the status quo for the sake of impulse.

On the one hand, much attention is paid to, and on the other hand, it is naturally ignored.

Because each has its own different pursuits.

We can share poverty but not prosperity.

At present, the interests are the thinnest, and the family affection is the thinnest.

Relatives were supposed to help each other, but unfortunately, now the relatives have changed their taste, and they have become people who think you are poor and afraid that you are rich.

When you are poor, they will stay away from you, for fear that you will borrow money.

When you are rich, they will compliment you on the surface, and your mouth will be sweeter than ever, but in your heart you will be jealous.

Many people are looking for the family affection they used to have, but now it seems that it is difficult to find, everyone is no longer the same as before, and everyone has a small abacus in their hearts.

You can't blame him because everyone does.

Never complain about the attitude of relatives and friends towards you, in other words, you will do the same, in the face of interests, the relationship will really become very thin, and even vulnerable.

When you don't have money, others pull you to remember to be grateful, and you must be worthy of this affection; If others don't pull you, there's no need to complain, because it's his duty.

Let's tell the story of my friend Lei Lei.

Because his father died early, Lei Lei did not graduate from junior high school, so he followed his third uncle to the city.

He is very diligent in order to make a living, he thinks that as long as he works hard, when the third uncle pulls himself again, his life will not be so sad.

In order to grasp the life-saving straw of the third uncle, Lei Lei almost responded to the affairs of the third uncle's family.

I thought that by doing this, I would get what I wanted, but unfortunately, the result was completely unexpected.

At that time, the third uncle had a small property right house to sell, and asked Lei Lei if he wanted it, Lei Lei couldn't ask for it, so he happily agreed.

The third uncle said that how much money is how much it is, and he didn't refute it, because he knew that the third uncle would not cheat himself.

Originally, it was all agreed, but the third uncle later changed his mind, and he asked Lei Lei to pay in full, but Lei Lei couldn't take out so much money at all.

He said to the third uncle:

It's not that you don't know me, how can I have so much money, I can't owe it, I really can't afford it. ”

Just as Lei Lei was thinking of a way, the third uncle told him that someone wanted the house, don't let him worry about it.

After knowing this result, Lei Lei was very sad, but he didn't blame the third uncle much, after all, he couldn't get the full amount.

If someone else bought it in full, then Lei Lei would not be aggrieved in his heart, but he didn't expect the third uncle to give others an installment, at that time, Lei Lei couldn't understand why the third uncle was like this, and then finally figured it out.

Because the third uncle felt that it would be difficult for Lei Lei to repay it even if he owed some money, it was risky to sell it to him, and if he wanted to avoid the risk, he could only sell it to strangers.

Thinking of this, Lei Lei finally figured it out, it turned out that family affection was so cheap in the eyes of the third uncle, he didn't blame the third uncle, but chose to stay away.

In fact, when a person has a lot of money, he will inevitably be admired by others; But if you are poor, then basically no one will come forward.

To put it simply, this disadvantage is that a person can only get out of the predicament by himself.

Sometimes, what was once a good friend turns into a stranger. Sometimes, some people leave without saying goodbye; Sometimes, there are things that can be understood without opening your mouth; Sometimes, some roads don't go and get longer. Suddenly I felt like crying, and inadvertently we all grew up.

We're all nostalgic. An old song. A familiar stranger.

I don't know that moment. We're nostalgic. Something.

Some people. No matter how unwilling. In the end, they will die of old age and never get along.

That's the reality. It's not that we choose reality. It is reality that chooses us.

I always knew. We're always strangers.

There are two types of strangers: those who don't know each other and those who pretend not to know. But the most familiar stranger is far more painful than the stranger.

If friends don't contact me for a long time, the feelings will fade, blame me for not having the habit of taking the initiative to contact friends, or is the relationship not deep enough? Why didn't I reach out? What am I busy with? How much does friendship carry in my heart? What am I struggling with?

We have to be separated, from strangers to friends to good friends, we sleep together, we play together. We have quarreled and broken off friendships, but our relationship is still not only not weakening but deepening, I will give you a nickname, use your nickname to make up songs and make jokes. I'm always bullying you, and you're letting me go like a big sister.

It won't be long before we're going to be separated, and you can't forget me no matter where you are, how long we haven't seen each other. Whether it's love or friendship, don't talk casually, let alone talk about it often. The weakening of the relationship between lovers and friends largely starts with always talking casually.

Casual is not the same as easy-going, and it doesn't have to be really casual. If you really care, just be honest and honest with each other, don't always say casually.

Time, sometimes it is good medicine, sometimes it is poison, no matter how good the relationship is, after a long time, no matter how good the relationship is, it will fade and the lovers are still like this, let alone friends.

It is said that friends should be in constant contact with each other, otherwise the relationship will fade, I don't think so, real friendship is even if you don't contact each other for a long time.

At first, he will be hesitant, but when he finds that his emotions are gradually weakening, he will become a ruthless and indifferent person.

is indifferent to everyone and everything, even if some things can affect their nerves, but after a while, they will give up on themselves like a broken jar, do not maintain the so-called friendship and kinship, and only live in their own small world, as if nothing has anything to do with them.

The reason why emotions are getting weaker.

Nowadays, the rapid development of society is racing against time, young people, in order to increase their income, work hard and learn new knowledge, children in order to be admitted to a better university in the future, adults desperately enroll them in cram schools, so that Sun Ji Nian people can not enjoy the leisurely life of retirement, take grandchildren into cram schools every day, take care of their lives, each busy with their own things, do not interfere with each other and are inseparable.

Life is too stressful.

In today's fast-paced society, many times shouting has to face huge survival pressure, so many young people do not want to drag another person down, or drag themselves because of another person, under the premise that they can't guarantee a good survival. For such a survival reason, more people choose to be single. Because being single can have more energy to devote to their careers, and will not be distracted by emotional factors, they are already very tired from work, and they don't want to make themselves emotionally more tired.

Yes. Young people should spend a lot of time trying to make money, and not think about ethereal feelings.

Nowadays, people are more selfish, and they always only think about themselves, which is also the main reason for looking down on feelings.

Nowadays, people's feelings have faded, relatives are no longer living in groups, due to work, marriage and other reasons, they go their separate ways, there is less and less movement on weekdays, some relatives almost do not contact, feelings are getting weaker and weaker, and there is no topic to talk about when meeting.

Too lazy. Nowadays, most people's personalities are homely, rarely develop and cultivate hobbies, often stay at home to catch up on dramas, play games, etc., and seem to be very lazy in action and don't like to run around.

Tired of the hypocrisy of adults, in fact, he imitated, people will see things very thoroughly after living in Zen Mountain for a long time, and now there are very few pure feelings, everyone is a relationship between interests and money, the heart is tired, there is no desire to interact with people, tired of the hypocrisy and politeness of adults, just want to be alone and seek a pure land.

The older generation often said: "In the past, they only thought about repairing things when they broke them." And now, if it's broken, I'll want to change it. Including feelings. ”

The past feelings seem to be very pure, and the heart belongs to it, so it is set for life. On the other hand, in modern times, the lights are bright, and some people around them have changed and changed.

The past time is really nostalgic and emotional. Love is also friendship. Calendar.

There is such a passage in The Story of the Sahara.

Hurry up and change your clothes, it's too late. "José looked at his watch and started urging me.

I have a lot of nice clothes, but I rarely wear them on weekdays. I looked over at José, who was wearing a dark blue shirt and a trimmed beard. Okay, I wear blue too.

I found a long garment made of light blue linen. It's not new, but it has an earthy and elegant flavor of its own. The shoes were still a pair of sandals, the hair was down, a broad-brimmed hat with straw was worn, there were no flowers, I went to the kitchen and got a handful of coriander and pinned it to the hat, I didn't use a leather bag, and my hands were empty.

Jose looked at me: "It's good, it's pastoral, it's so simple and beautiful." ”

So we locked the door and went out into the desert.

It was almost 40 minutes from where I lived to the town, and I had to walk without a car.

You may be the first bride to walk and get married. Jose said.

There is no high bride price, simply make an agreement with Jose, and it will be set for life; You don't need to buy beautiful new clothes and jewelry, you can wear old clothes, and other flowers with a hat are also coriander in the kitchen; There was no car to pick me up, so I walked to church. I am afraid that I can't find such a bride in modern times.

Why do we take a high bride price, wear gold and silver, and welcome the old elders of the convoy, but we still have a good reputation in this life?

Because now we don't have the open-mindedness of Sanmao, I can replace it with coriander in the kitchen. Nowadays, the wedding is too important, self-centered, and if it doesn't suit your heart, you break up.

Some time ago, I saw a news on the Internet that the bride divorced because her underwear did not fit.

Many netizens said that the man couldn't do this little thing well, and he didn't take the bride to heart at all.

You see, what a stark contrast.

We can't say it's the bride's fault, or that the groom doesn't take it seriously.

The fault is that both of them are too extreme in handling things personally. are all concerned about each other's faults, infinitely magnifying each other's shortcomings.

Sanmao and Jose's relationship is simple and pure, but it can also reflect their position in each other's hearts.

Nowadays, the feelings between people are still indifferent to people's hearts. Too much about gains and losses, magnify your own efforts, shrink the other party's contributions, and have a corresponding return after paying.