What is it like to have a conversation with your significant other?

Confidant, talk about everything, say whatever you want, feel very loving.

I feel like my partner is where I belong. There will be a sense of tacit understanding in everything you do.

Confidant, talk about everything, say whatever you want,..

I can't get tired of saying anything, my feelings can always heat up, and I feel that I have met real love.

Of course I was happy. The feeling of happiness is as sweet as the scent of flowers in the breeze; Happy feels like a perfect family; Happiness feels like the joy of success; Resemble. Everyone's happiness is different, and I can't say enough.

Anyway, there is no substitute for the feeling of being happy, it is mysterious.

You can't stop talking. Even if you don't talk about a topic, you can play for an hour. And then it's like swiping the screen.,Hahahahahahahaha

Whatever person you are, you will meet someone, sometimes you think he is cheap, sometimes he is warm.

Two people will not get bored together, and the relationship will develop in a good direction.

I feel that I am not alone every day, and then the two of them will become more and more tacit with each other.

This feels very good, and there is a topic to talk about with the other party, which means that there is a common language, and you can communicate very well.

There are endless topics to talk about together, and I feel that my other half is my best belonging. There will be a sense of tacit understanding in everything you do.

The two of them are very close to each other, and there are many topics to talk about every day. I'm also happy not to be so embarrassed.

If there are endless words to say every day, others will not talk more after the novelty has passed, but we have endless words every day.

I feel that there are endless words to talk about every day, I can talk from morning to night, and I am very happy, two people are very comfortable together, there is a common topic, two people are together, the important thing is the topic, if there is a topic, the relationship will get better and better.

You will feel comfortable with him, you won't feel embarrassed, you will have a lot of common topics, and you won't quarrel because of disagreements.

I will, so it can promote affection. 1. Share your childhood.

In the childhood life of each of us, we hide the influence of our original family on us, and share our childhood with our close partner, not only to share our childhood happiness and troubles, but also to let each other enter our own childhood to experience our own happiness and sorrow.

When we understand the growth process of the other person, we can empathize with each other to the greatest extent, and we can understand why the other person has formed such a personality and temper.

It seems that this is a process of sharing, and at the same time, it is also the fastest way to let the other person into your heart.

2. Make rules for love.

Formulate the rules of love that belong to two people, and in this rule, it is not only necessary to include the mode of getting along with two people, but also include the mechanism of stopping the war between two people.

Especially when two people have conflicts, effective love rules can help us reduce quarrels and avoid cold wars to a greater extent.

A good relationship must have its own love rules, whether there is a special notice to formulate this rule as soon as possible, but it must invisibly affect the emotional relationship between two people.

3. Share hobbies.

Girls always hate boys playing games, and boys always hate girls for putting on makeup for a long time.

Because boys' interest is to play games, while girls' interest is to be beautiful. This is the difference between men and women, and because they don't understand it, they will be particularly annoying.

Maybe when girls fall in love with games, and when boys fall in love with makeup, they won't hate this interest so much.

Therefore, share your own interests and hobbies, and let the other party understand in depth, he (she) can not like it, but you must understand.

4. Talk about each other's view of love.

The concept of love is a very macro expression, just like we always say that the three views are different, in fact, few people can explain which three views are.

The same is true for the concept of love, it is difficult for us to express our view of love, but we can talk about our attitude towards feelings and how to deal with problems when they arise.

A lot of feelings are talked about, how can there be feelings if you don't talk about it.

<> talk about the ex. This is a very sensitive topic. At the beginning of the chat, the other person may just ask you how your ex is, why you broke up with your ex, etc.

Out of curiosity. Both parties are relaxed at first, and the other person will tell you that no matter what you say, you won't care. However, when you really talk about your ex, when the other party finds out that you still have some sweet memories, the other party's mood is instantly not good, and they will immediately become jealous.

This is beyond the control of reason. You may get angry when you don't stop saying nice things about your ex. If you tell the other person that you have several exes, it is likely that your status in the other person's mind will plummet, and the other party will subconsciously think that you belong to the scumbag and scumbag.

Even if the conversation is good and ends up in a fight, it can be a prelude to a later breakup. No matter how many exes you have, no matter how many stories you have with your ex, try not to mention them. If the other party takes the initiative to ask, you can say that you have forgotten everything in the past, and you don't want to mention the sad things in the past, and the other party will not ask further.

Don't talk to each other too often. Friends of the opposite sex talk to each other. Before they didn't have a boyfriend or girlfriend, it was just a deeper expression of friendship between two people.

But no matter how good a friend of the opposite sex is, don't always talk, because it is easy to have emotional resonance when chatting. When two people confide in each other and get each other's understanding and comfort, it is easy to become dependent on friends of the opposite sex. And when talking to each other, when the words are expressed in the depths of the heart, it is the time when the individual is the most vulnerable and defenseless, and it is also the time when two people of the opposite sex are most likely to enter each other's hearts.

So, if two friends of the opposite sex have never had the idea of being together, it's better not to talk to each other often.

When two people are together, don't talk about each other's family conditions, and don't dislike each other's family conditions, which is also a topic to avoid talking about. If two people are genuinely together, don't care about each other's family conditions. Sometimes caring too much will hurt the other person's self-esteem and will not let the relationship go to the end.

So you must know how to manage your love, and sometimes you have to know how to make love last. Many people just don't understand, so that love will be broken and life will be regretted.

Your own ex, the privacy of both parties, the money of both parties, and not other people of the opposite sex in front of him, these topics are to be avoided. These topics are landmines for two people, and there will definitely be a lot of disagreement between two people talking about these topics.

Topics about the past, topics about your ex, topics in your own family, topics about your own economic situation, and topics of quarrels should be avoided directly; Because these topics are particularly embarrassing, it will affect the relationship between two people.

Topics related to the ex. Derogatory topics. Painful experience. Boast about your topic. Topics that harm others. None of these topics are very good.

In response to this problem, many people are also confused, after all, the love is as sweet as honey, and the time is diluted as water, which is a very normal situation. Even if you have another relationship and don't solve the problem, you will still enter a vicious circle that keeps going back and forth.

Many people are accustomed to a mistake Li Yeshen is that there is no long-term mentality, after a long time, forget the oath you once made, forget the image, demeanor, and behavior that the other party gave you at the beginning, there must be a bright spot that impresses you, this highlight is something you have to remember for life, but often we don't have the habit of recording daily notes, after the washing of time, the memory has been zeroed, and the rest is infinite pain and contradictions, and even towards the end.

In fact, when it comes to this, many people will be at a loss, how to give it meaning, in fact, this is exactly the same as doing a business. Many small and medium-sized enterprises, to achieve a certain scale, how can not be expanded, the bottleneck of the cause has defeated many heroes, as everyone knows, enterprises to achieve a certain scale, but also need cultural heritage as the goal of development.

Without cultural heritage, there is a lack of soul, without vision, it will lose its direction, a giant ship, without satellite positioning, no matter how strong the horsepower, it will not be able to reach the destination. "Emotion" is one of the most difficult things in the world, it is actually very difficult for couples to manage well, but there are always more ways than problems, as long as we are willing to work hard to find a way, willing to accumulate memories of lost youth, eternal evergreen is a bit exaggerated, and there should be no problem with a hundred years of good together.

This requires the efforts of both parties, striving to enhance their own value, knowing how to cherish the efforts of both parties, and supplementing the thin literacy culture. For example, with the current cultural development, most people are too lacking in antique art culture, and if you are given a work of art, we may not be able to distinguish the real thing from the fake. Antique art is the need to learn historical knowledge and explore its cultural value.

Feelings" is actually an antique, what we lack is nothing more than understanding, digging spine guessing and communication, if the two sides are in a curious, exploring, interest in the same mentality, to communicate, in fact, no matter how long the time, the two sides have the same endless days, endless love, endless words. **Personal opinion, if it is inappropriate, please do not spray,** is the most effective, I hope to enlighten you.

Need Ki to say some boring things, talk about some things that happen in life, or you can also directly ask the other party to do what Fan Fengheng wants to do.

You can go to find out what the other half likes, and then go to learn this aspect since Sun Bei He Ji, for example, girls like celebrity gossip, then you can go and talk to her about the content of this party.

You can share some trivial things in life, like I like to tell my husband about what is happening around me, and he is also very happy to listen to it.

Two people can go to an event together, so that two people can have the same experience and have some common topics.

In some cases, having a common topic is a bond between two people.

If two people want to get love, they must first establish contact and start dating. Only with a common topic, two people can have something to talk about, to establish contact, to communicate with each other, to gradually develop feelings, therefore, the common topic has become one of the most important foundations of love, and it is impossible to get love without a common topic.

Self-identity. For people who need to gain self-identity in a relationship, it is more important for two people to have common topics. Many of people's behaviors are aimed at finding self-identity and affirming self-identity.

This is no different in the search for mates. Subjects who can affirm their sense of self-identity will be more popular. There are several elements of a love relationship that affirm a sense of self-identity.

If two people have common topics in many aspects and have the same views, they will be considered to have three views that are more compatible. This is both a testament to one's self-identity and undoubtedly a strengthened version. This becomes a dimension of judgment for finding a mate.

Accompany. If there is a person who can talk to you about your favorite topics and your interests, this kind of relationship will be perceived as quality and quality companionship at the same time. When many people are looking for a partner, they will consider whether the two parties can talk.

Being able to talk to a person in many ways, have common topics, and agree with each other's views. It is tantamount to affirming each other in mutual accompaniment and resonating at the same frequency. For people who are still looking for self-identity, who are still constructing self-identity, there will be a need for common topics.

In the process of being able to chat freely about common topics, you will feel that you have met yourself, met a confidant, met self-affirmation, and made yourself feel more powerful and stable. For people who have not yet built a solid self-identity, there is often existential anxiety. And this kind of companionship can alleviate this anxiety.

Therefore, to build love, develop love, and common topics will be more important for this kind of person.

The marriage model needs to be constantly groped and modified in life. But no matter what kind of marriage model, you need to respect each other, appreciate each other, and communicate effectively.

Many couples have been together for a long time, and there will be a gap, and they will slowly feel bored and have no novelty together.

Let me talk about my actual situation and give you some suggestions.

First, reduce the frequency of contact.

Second, improve the quality of contacts. Although the chat should be fixed, it is not excluded that both parties have something to do temporarily, in this case, don't let the other party feel that I went out to play with friends tonight and didn't have time to fight with you**, so there is a sense of guilt, give him enough time and space, just tell you about it.

Occasionally, I feel that there is nothing to talk about today, and I can say that my work is particularly messy, I have a headache, I want to go to bed early, good night, etc., and there is no need to force it to express any conventional greeting topics. Wait until the next day to care about whether the other person is sleeping well, how comfortable is the best.

Finally, develop common interests.

It's impossible to have the same hobbies every day, but learning the same things will definitely create something to talk about. For example, if two people have signed up for a fitness class and will go to the gym after work every day, the two of them can talk about the topic of fitness, how the other person's figure is, and so on.