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You must not have such thoughts, let alone give birth to such thoughts, because once you have a child, you must give him a sound family, which is the most responsible performance for him, if you can't give him such a family, it is better not to let him come to this world.
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This idea arises from the fear of marriage, widowed marriage is more terrible than a single mother, marriage is not only a form or a commitment, if it cannot be realized, it is physical and mental torment, so women do not want to get married, but women have the idea of being a mother, and the idea of skipping marriage and having children directly arises.
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Yes, many women nowadays think like this, because getting married is too much trouble, but really want to have a baby of their own.
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Comfort yourself that even if the child is married, he will face the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, husband and wife, parent-child relationship of the family, and various maintenance and parenting tasks, all of which are very hard, and it is not impossible to have a free life.
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In such a situation, if you want to effectively calm your mind, you must establish a correct outlook on life, you can travel on your own or devote yourself to other matters, as for the marriage of your children, you don't have to worry too much.
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Parents should think about their children's happiness, don't think that they have reached the age of marriage, and let their children get married, to know that happiness and happiness are the most important, not the most important thing about marriage.
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At the age of 33, I don't dare to get married because I don't want to settle. I feel that I am getting older, and I can't find a suitable one, but I don't want to lower my standards because of this, so I will be more and more afraid to get married. As for whether to be single for a lifetime, it still depends on your own choice.
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She doesn't want to overwhelm her married life, after all, the problems faced by two people after marriage are especially trivial things, and there are countless them, but it is not realistic to be single for a lifetime, after all, there are always times when you feel lonely.
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Their own conditions are not bad, and the choice of objects is relatively high, the most important thing is that they are afraid of unsatisfactory and troubled life after marriage. Some people will indeed be single for the rest of their lives if they can't let go and change.
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I think it's probably because I haven't been able to find a suitable partner for myself.,I can only go with the flow.,Even if you're single, there's no way.,Except for sometimes being a little lonely.,Usually it's okay.。
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I am afraid that my quality of life will decline after marriage, I am afraid that I will meet someone who does not love me, I am afraid that I will encounter someone who is domestic violence, I am afraid that I will not be able to manage my marriage, etc., and I am afraid that I will not be able to manage my marriage, etc., and it is impossible to be single for a lifetime.
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This is because there is a certain fear of marriage, and many women have little need for marriage. But very few women are really single for life.
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It's because this girl hasn't met her true destiny yet, and the family atmosphere before is not harmonious, so she doesn't dare to start easily, no.
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In fact, the main reason is that it is difficult to meet a person you like, and you don't want to be single all your life.
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Generally, girls of this age, it is difficult for them to find a suitable partner because they are too mature in their thinking and will consider many aspects. But they won't be single all the time, and they will find the most suitable person.
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is because they are very demanding of their other half, have experienced a lot, and have seen a lot, so they dare not get married, and they will not be single for a lifetime.
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Because what I want is not satisfied, I am afraid that the person I am marrying now is not good, it is possible to divorce, and I will not really be single all the time, and I may get married in a certain period of time.
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Because of the 33-year-old leftover girl, she is particularly independent and does not pursue marriage. It's okay to be single for the rest of your life.
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As long as you relax and be in a good mood, keep a normal heart, and make friends, you can find a partner, after all, the seventh census shows that there are now more men and fewer women, so why worry about not finding a marriage partner.
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Then wait slowly for a while, and believe that your fate will always come.
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I don't think there's a need to be anxious, marriage depends on fate, and it doesn't necessarily mean that you will be happy when you get married.
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She can go on a blind date. Because now there are many people who can't find a partner and go on a blind date, maybe she can meet a suitable partner.
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Then don't get married, because as long as you have money and knowledge, you can live well, and you don't necessarily have to get married.
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It will be found, only to lower the standard of requirements, but the criteria for mate selection in today's society are simply based on everyone's personal conditions and whether they are suitable or not. Whether it's true to you or not, you have to get along to know it.
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The old age has no stomach, as long as it is not too old, the key is to be good-looking and cheerful, you can find it.
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Are you married? I'm 26 repairing cars....
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Did you find it, I'm also looking for the right one.
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Alas, if you don't find me, you can get feelings, can you cultivate I'm 2300 a conservative man.
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Men think like this is very selfish, not at all for the woman, the child is not alone, and when they grow up, the single-parent family will also be discriminated against in all aspects, the woman thinks like this is simple-minded, since she has children, marriage is a kind of proof, to introduce her husband to relatives and friends, the other half of the future.
There should not be much in this country, after all, it is deeply influenced by traditional Chinese concepts and generations of thoughts; In addition, there are many factors that do not want children, such as open-mindedness (of course, there are few people in this area), financial burden, health problems, etc.; I believe that not wanting children should be temporary, and it is impossible to have children for the rest of your life, because children are the guarantee of the true happiness of the family.
For the matter of having a child, maybe he needs a while to transition his previous psychology to better accept the child, you must know that freedom is very important for a man, he may feel that having a child needs to change more places, for these he does not want to change. He was afraid that in the end, he would change so much that even he couldn't recognize it, and I think you should calm down and communicate about this. It is also a reminder that if you have asked him the same question several times in the recent past, then you should try to restrain yourself from asking him again after a while, so as not to make him feel that you are always pestering him to ask this question, so that he will avoid you. >>>More
Before I come back to the problem, I'll correct it.
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