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Let's solve one such problem, there are more and more older leftover women, aren't they afraid that they won't be able to marry and have children?

Marriage is very important in our daily life, and having children is also a top priority, but with the development of science and technology and the progress of society, people's concepts are gradually opening up, and having children is no longer a must for women. So they are not afraid that they will not be able to marry and have children.

We are not only married and have children in life, but there are more wonderful things waiting for us, although children can bring us a lot of happiness and different experiences. But there are also many things in our lives, such as traveling, shopping, singing, etc., which can add some rich colors to our lives.

In fact, for this problem, with our current medical technology, the problem of fertility is not difficult to solve. Although the older you get, the less likely you are to conceive a child. But our science and technology are also constantly improving, and there is always a way to conceive a child, so many people are not in a hurry to get married, and they are not in a hurry to want a child.

At the same time, we must understand a truth: older leftover women are not unmarried, they can get married, but they think more about whether their three views are similar to the person they like. Because this will affect whether you live a happy life, if you want to live a happy life, you don't have to have a child to accompany you when you are young.

Some netizens think that they are not afraid that they will not be able to get married, compared to not being able to marry and have children, they are more willing to wait for a suitable person, waiting for a suitable person, waiting for a suitable person, can make the second half of their lives more happy and beautiful, and will not let them blindly look for a marriage partner because of some secular problems.

The responsibility and responsibility of marriage, when the husband and wife have been married for more than ten years, the love will slowly disappear and become family affection, which will come to our side to warm us. The meaning of marriage does not need to be spoken, but it needs to be acted. Marriage is a balanced relationship, the meaning of marriage is that we encounter difficulties, someone can accompany you to go on, support you, the motivation to move forward will not give up, do not give up and insist on accompanying you to old age, such a marriage is very meaningful.

With the continuous improvement of our living standards and the continuous improvement of women's social status, it is not difficult for us to find that in the current generation, the age of marriage is getting later and later, unlike our parents, the sooner we do not get married and have children, the better. For modern young people, their attitude towards marriage should be more cautious and harsh.

The most anxious people now should be my parents, for fear that I will not be able to get married. The last time my mom told me about it, she cried and said she was afraid that they wouldn't be there when they got old. What should I do if I have no one to take care of and no one to love?

I always wish I could get married sooner, always say that I am an older woman, and arrange blind dates to introduce me from time to time. I used to be a little anxious, but now I seem to be numb. As I've gotten older, I'm now in a broken mindset.

I'm gone anyway, so let it be. I feel much more comfortable when I breathe a sigh of relief.

In fact, there is nothing wrong with being single, free and carefree. You can eat whatever you want, play whatever you want, don't worry about anyone's feelings, and life is quite comfortable. Compared with those who get married early and have children, revolve around their husbands and children all day long, and maybe divorce again.

It's not bad to be single. You don't have to worry about family chores all day, and you can live a more relaxed life.

Seriously, I've been single for a long time, but I still love being single. No one cares, no one restrains and no one worries. Only occasionally lonely and lonely.

Especially when you are sick and there is no one to take care of you, that feeling is even stronger. I'm not an unmarried person, and I've thought about finding someone I like to marry. When I'm fine, I always reflect on myself, why I can't get married at the age of 35, whether it's the other party's wishes or my own problem.

Maybe I went through a lot, but it got better slowly. I don't think it's scary to die alone. If you meet someone you like, you will still consider getting married.

If I can't do it, I'll be alone. It's all this age. It's not that painful to think about.

The anxiety of older leftover women about marriage is not that they can't get married, but that they are afraid of chicken feathers after marriage. That kind of life without self makes people feel deeply powerless. I was more worried about choosing the wrong person because I was in a hurry to get married.

Compared to being single, marrying the wrong person is really scary. It could be an age issue. When you get older, you worry too much.

Nowadays, for older unmarried women, fertility problems will no longer be a cause of marital anxiety. They will pay more attention to the quality of marriage, and single women have enough financial independence, so marriage will no longer be a necessary choice for their future lives.

Introduction: Nowadays, many girls are reluctant to get married, and feel that they have no freedom after marriage, but some people are worried about them, feeling that they will not be able to get married and have children, and they want to say that an unhappy marriage does not need to exist. Girls can add it to any person, but this kind of behavior is irresponsible behavior to themselves.

You must know that married life takes a long time, and if you find that you are not suitable for this person, you are hurting each other's feelings. I hope that all of you can find your own other half, and your married life is very happy.

To be honest, I'm not looking forward to love now, if I can be single for a while, I feel very good to be single, there are a lot of trivial things after falling in love, and these may cause conflicts, quarrels and friction are indispensable in love life, and I feel particularly uncomfortable every time I solve these problems. And there aren't many easy days after getting married, so it's better to keep yourself single for a while. And single women they don't have such troubles, one person makes money and one person spends, their quality of life continues to improve, their life is richer, why should they think about falling in love, getting married and meeting the right person.

It is meaningless for the wrong person to get married, it is impossible to get married, as long as he continues to become excellent, no matter how old he is, he may encounter a very happy marriage, although he is older, but they don't need to worry too much about having children, as a boy, they must continue to improve their physical fitness, and constantly make themselves excellent, so that they can attract equally excellent women, and don't let themselves become the kind of people who are both ordinary and very confident, Others don't like it very much.

They are not afraid that they will not be able to get married, they are more willing to wait for a suitable person than if they can't marry or have children, and they will not blindly look for a marriage partner because of some worldly problems.

Since it is a transaction, it should be done in accordance with the rules of the transaction, and the bride price must be returned with the same value as the bride price, and the bride price is to marry the yellow flower girl, not the older leftover girl, the second-hand woman, the transfer girl and the Qinglou girl, but the first-hand woman and the original natural woman, this woman must understand; 70% of women file for divorce because women now have too many male girlfriends, but both parties have no money and need to find a third party to support them, so women find a nominal husband, and over time they cheat the man's money, and the woman and the male girlfriend need to find the next man to cheat, so they file for divorce from their husbands; Before marriage, the woman must be required to do a marriage examination, and the child must be tested for paternity, and once a problem is found, the woman will be asked to return the bride price, and refund one and pay three, and give compensation, and at the same time sue the woman for fraud, and refund all ......the expenses of the woman and the child

I'm really not afraid, why should I be afraid? A person doesn't know how good it is, in addition to working to earn money, he eats whatever he wants, and he rests when he wants. Do it once every three days, and it won't be very dirty if you are lazy once a week.

Clothes are thrown into the washing machine, and I am happy to eat three meals a day. No one picks on the thorns, no one morally kidnaps, no need to be challenged to be patient at any time, temper your temper, don't be too good!

I don't get married at an older age, I have assets at home, and I have a career, but the luck of marriage is unsatisfactory, and I was anxious before and now I have figured it out. It's nothing if you don't marry for a lifetime, you will sponsor poor children in middle age, build a nursing home in old age, and return the inheritance to the descendants of your family name after death. Sometimes it's nothing, after all, if you don't bear the hardships of having children, you naturally don't want to rely on your old age, you don't take the risk of getting married, you don't want any company, take care of your parents, and live comfortably in the days you can control.

Fortune and luck are equal in this life, and there is no such thing as a perfect life, and there will be gains and losses.

is not afraid, because now girls have their own jobs, and they will live very well by themselves, and they are not in a hurry to get married or have children.

The people who ask this question should not belong to this group themselves, but this kind of problem is endless. I'm also curious about why so many people who can't hit the eight poles keep worrying about what they will do in the future, more than they themselves. Don't they deserve to be lonely and old age, you just watch the play, why do you have to break your heart for them so much.

People themselves are not in a hurry, what are you anxious about, unless you formulate a policy to promote childbirth, or you are a parent who loves your daughter, or it can only be because the woman does not get married, which leads to the forced remaining part of the men.

Older leftover women are generally high-quality women with high education, they are not unable to marry, they do not want to marry, most of them have long seen the nature of marriage, what is the meaning of marriage that can reduce their quality of life? Why get married for the sake of getting married? Why do you care about the world's eyes?

Is the conventional wisdom necessarily correct? Compared with the marriage of chicken feathers, isn't it fragrant for a single aristocrat? Whoever is happy who knows!!

can't get married, can't have children, and resolutely don't make do. Why don't you say that there are many people who can't marry a daughter-in-law now. Generally, the conditions for not marrying a daughter-in-law are really bad, and the older leftover women are generally very good and look down on men with poor conditions.

They should not be afraid, because they have a good earning ability, their lives are very stable, and getting married is not their ultimate goal.

Most people are afraid, but after missing the age, there will be fewer and fewer people who can match. My classmate graduated with a master's degree, is employed in a university, has a Beijing hukou, is 170 tall, looks middle-to-middle, and is now 40 years old. Her current goals are:

Male, of the right age, mentally normal.

I don't think they're afraid, because there are a lot of older leftover women who don't want to get married, and there are also a lot of older leftover women who just want to be Dink, so I don't think they're afraid that they won't be able to marry and have children.

The increasing number of older leftover women is an insurmountable transitional period in the process of social development, at the expense of contemporary older leftover women and more singles, thus moving towards the next more sober era!

There are two main factors in the formation of contemporary older leftover women: the first is caused by the long-term development of the radical material economy and the defects in the construction of spiritual civilization; The second is due to the interaction between societies, which leads to different cognitions, especially the psychological defects brought about by the affirmation of self-worth of leftover women!

I would like to share an experience I have personally met with you: it is a conversation between an old husband and wife and a granddaughter, and the granddaughter asks grandma (how many years have you been married) and grandma