My girlfriend, who had known me for a few days, asked me for a red envelope

Hello! Your problem belongs to the emotional type, now I will break it down for you.

You have known each other for a few days, on what occasion, if it is a coincidence, or it is love at first sight. Then you should have a good understanding of your girlfriend's past, if you have been observing for a few days, or if you are working together but not in a workshop, then you should think about it yourself, whether you can have a deep relationship. After all, it's 1,000 yuan, and it's a lot to say more, not to say more.

The above is purely personal opinion.

I wish you a happy new year and a speedy resolution of your worries.

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Hello, online dating is also possible, and when the time is ripe, you can make an appointment to meet together.

However, it is not excluded that there is a possibility that the same sex pretends to be the opposite sex. You can judge for yourself whether the other party is sincere. Small red envelopes can still be given, and if you want a lot, you must prevent people and money from being empty.

You can euphemistically say that the salary has not been paid to a small red envelope, or that you want to see you, and prepare a big one for her when the time comes.

In moderation, if you have plenty of money, you may be able to establish a good image, but if you are such a girl who is not black or white, it can be said that it is better to leave early. —qt

Look at the situation and how much weight you have

If she knows you don't have a lot of money a month, she will open this mouth

I advise you to divide it!

I've only known each other for a few days. You should get to know your girlfriend well.

Give her a rose, just these days on Valentine's Day, the meaning is coming, and it saves money.

Give her something else, like a voucher or something.

According to my point of view, this kind of behavior is normal, which shows that your girlfriend and you are already inseparable from each other, and are willing to be coquettish and courting in front of you, this is true love, you have to cherish it.

I think it's normal, it's more or less a heart, and the red envelope also confirms your heart. Normal?

This depends on your economic strength, if you have money, you will send more, and if you don't have money, you will send less, 66, 88, 188, 520 or 1314, depending on your strength. Since it's your girlfriend who is blind Li, it's better to post one. Because girls are especially looking forward to the people they care about during the festival to bring some small surprises to themselves.

Girls often don't pay much attention to how much you send or how expensive the gift is, what they care about is that you care about her heart and this person. Schoolgirls are easily satisfied. If the goddess has to give a gift to his girlfriend on the holiday, she can send a red envelope that doesn't need to be too big, and it has a meaning, such as fifty-two yuan to mean that I love you late, or send a thirty-eight to wish her a happy holiday!

It's good for two people to be happy together, don't worry too much!

1. This is a matter of customs, in many places, the girlfriend goes to the man's house for the first time, and the parents want to give a red envelope, if you don't give it to express dissatisfaction, you don't want to get married. If you make an appointment in a restaurant or other place outside, you don't have to give a red envelope when you see your parents for the first time, but going to your house is different. Because it is generally uncertain whether to further escalate the relationship to a marriage discussion, Qiao Lamo will not bring his girlfriend home, unless your parents know your girlfriend and know each other very well, then you can go to your house as a friend to play.

2. Obviously, the custom at your girlfriend's house is to give red envelopes, and you take her to your house without knowing about it in advance! This is, of course, a great hurt and grievance for her.

3. How to remedy:

1) Explain to her clearly that you didn't give red envelopes because there is no such custom in your family, and it's not that your parents are dissatisfied, tell her what your parents really think of her (for example, your parents actually like her very much) (the point is to explain the difference in customs, you and your parents didn't think of this stubble at all);

2) If you don't take her home because you want to talk about marriage, then you don't need to do other remedies for the time being, because if your girlfriend's custom is to go to your house to consider marriage, and you tell her that you don't have this idea, it will cause a bigger conflict; If you are also thinking about getting married, you can ask your parents to come over to play (travel or something), have a meal, and make up a red envelope. But the red envelope needs to be given by your parents in person, and cannot be handed over to you.

When replying to a girl, you can add a condition before giving a red envelope, such as:

1) "I only send it to my girlfriend, do you want to be my girlfriend?" ”

2) "If you accept my red envelope, you need to accompany me to watch a movie and eat this weekend." ”

In short, don't let girls get your red envelopes so easily, use your red envelopes to get closer to girls, or invite judges to ask girls.

3) "When we meet, you kiss me, and I'll give you a big red envelope, how about it?" ”

4) "If you call me husband, I will send you a red envelope." ”

The psychology of girls asking for red envelopes

1. Prove that you are willing to spend money for her

Some girls ask for red envelopes from boys, and may want to prove whether the boys are willing to spend money for her, so that they can judge their weight in the boy's mind. "Some may think this idea is nonsense, but it is undeniable that some girls think so.

Or the girl doesn't have the brain to follow, and when she sees someone else playing, she also tests you (if the girl likes to give me a red envelope, I will send it, but all the girls I like have not posted a similar circle of friends) It is recommended that you dig into the wilderness after chasing can explain to her, and it is also good to change your mind.

2. Greed

In fact, the average girl will not take the initiative to ask for red envelopes like boys, if you feel that there are so many such girls around you, it may be that you are in such a circle!

Those girls may be beautiful, but empty and lonely, or they may be more fond of joking and chatting with strangers, and who doesn't love money, and who wouldn't want to eat a free pie that fell from the sky when they had the chance? It's just a greedy travel mentality.

If your girlfriend asks you for a red envelope on Valentine's Day, then you can give it to the other person directly. But if your girlfriend often asks you for red envelopes, you must ask for reasons at this time, and you can't give them directly. We must know that feelings are feelings, money is money, feelings and money cannot be confused, and we must be clearly divided, so as not to make the relationship between the two parties strange.

If your girlfriend always asks you for red envelopes often, then you can ask your girlfriend about the reason for asking for red envelopes, whether your girlfriend's salary has been spent or your girlfriend's girlfriend does not give her living expenses, and then ask for the reason, you can give a little appropriately, but you can't give it often. Because your girlfriend is an adult and you are also an adult, it is not good for both parties to get money through work instead of asking for red envelopes from your boyfriend. Because we must know that if the relationship of money is accounted for in love, then it will make love deteriorate and make love become powerful, which is very bad for future development, and may make this relationship end relatively quickly.

Therefore, before giving a red envelope, you must ask the other party the corresponding reason, and you can't give it casually.

We must know that girls pay special attention to the sense of ceremony, especially on Valentine's Day or Qixi Festival, girls especially hope that their boyfriends will send them a red envelope, no matter the amount of this red envelope, as long as the boyfriend sends it on behalf of the boyfriend's mind, the girl will be very happy. Therefore, during the holidays, boys can send a red envelope to their girlfriends, so that their girlfriends can feel your love and make your girlfriends very happy. During the festival, you can send a more auspicious red envelope, such as an auspicious number, so that the relationship can become harmonious.

Absolutely. Because I like each other very much, if the other party makes such a request to me, I will definitely agree and satisfy the other party.

Of course, I will give it directly to the other party, because I think asking for red envelopes is the most common, and it is also a kind of love for my girlfriend.

I will give it directly to each other, because I think two people should be happy together, and I will try to meet each other's small requests.

I won't give it to the other party directly, I will choose to ask the other party what is the use of taking this money, and I will give it to her if it is important.

I would give it directly to each other because I think it's very natural and very fun for couples to do something like this.