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Is he under too much pressure? You should talk to him, long-distance relationships are very hard, if you have the conditions, it's better to go to one of his cities to spend more time with him. It's not right to hit a woman, but don't do it, girls don't look good when they fight.
If he comes to coax you this time, forgive him. Talk to him once. Solve your problems well and tell him that he won't forgive you for hitting you next time.
If there really is a next time, you should consider changing people, it is really not good for a man to beat a woman. If my boyfriend dared to hit me, I would definitely break up. But I'm not in the same situation as you, and I don't know if I'll be able to hate me at that time, but he doesn't have the courage to beat me. Hey
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No, I don't think your personalities are compatible, and you will fight before you get married, and you will have it in the future? He's asking you to order it now, but not anymore. You should consider breaking up with him, marrying such a violent man is a tragedy! Sooner or later, he will punch and kick....
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I don't think it's worth it for beating your boyfriend, even if you love him a lot, even if you love him a ......lotIf it were me, I would communicate with him first, and if it didn't work, I would break up ......
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Depending on the situation, a slap does not make a sound, and it is necessary to empathize with the situation in a timely manner.
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If you do it before you get married, you can imagine what it will be like when you get married.
One thing I don't understand is that I don't know why you're fighting.
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Because of the intensification of the contradictions, the result is the escalation of anger and the fight.
And it's just the fuse you want to part with, in other words, you're already thinking about whether or not to end the relationship.
A sentence of unwillingness has already shown that you have carefully analyzed the actual conditions of the other party, carefully weighed the personality characteristics of the object, and the financial situation. This is the result of you weighing the pros and cons, and finding out that the other party's current situation is indeed a little unworthy of the status quo. But no one will not have their own temper, and the rabbit will bite if they are in a hurry.
Who's going to say it? How many times in every marriage is the urge to divorce, how many times is the urge to strangle the other person, and why? It's just that the temper of the two of them comes up, and no one will accept anyone, and no one will let anyone!
You want someone with better conditions, you want someone who can love you more, and you feel wronged materially or spiritually with your current boyfriend. Therefore, if you want to be with him for a long time, you will be unwilling, you will be unwilling to pay, and you will not want to take the initiative to contribute.
And reluctant, is unwilling to deny their past choices, on a subconscious level, it is difficult for you to convince yourself that the current man you are blind.
On the other hand, this relationship also has all kinds of sweetness, all kinds of different ups and downs that you have been together. There is the energy you have invested, the time you have invested, and the feelings you have invested in the relationship. The common experience between these two people is still their own hard work to run to the point where they are now, how can they be so easy to give up.
In addition, there is a lot of uncertainty in the face of leaving, not sure that you can find a better condition, and you are not sure that you can meet a better and more right person. Combining the above will form this complex mentality. And the final decision is still up to you, after you think about it seriously, whether you want to spend the rest of your life with him.
Whether you decide to leave, or decide to stick to it, it takes courage and serious thinking.
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I don't think so. Because a man who hits his girlfriend is bad and not worthy of forgiveness.
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There is no need to forgive, because there is only one and countless hands-on hands, and if you forgive, you will do it later.
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Don't forgive you, you should stay away from this kind of boy, he doesn't even have the temper to tolerate you, so the boy can't be married.
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I will not forgive, because such a man is very unreliable, and may have violent tendencies, even if he gets married in the future, it is very bad, if I meet such a man, I will definitely choose to break up.
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I'm not going to forgive him at all. Because feelings are not forced at all, if he treats you badly, then you can leave him.
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Won't forgive. No matter who does it first, as long as he does it, he doesn't have the demeanor of a man.
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If you have a fight with your boyfriend and accidentally have a violent act such as choking your neck, then you need to look at it on a case-by-case basis. Judge whether to forgive his actions from different angles.
1. Because of impulsiveness, I regretted taking the bridge afterwards.
If it is your reason that he is subjected to domestic violence, some of your words and actions will make him impulsive and cause him to have domestic violence against you, but then he regrets his actions very much. You can think about the wrong things on impulse. If he doesn't usually do such things, you can consider forgiving him.
If you don't love him at all, or don't feel good about it, you can break up. It depends not only on his attitude, but also on yours. After all, it's a relationship between two people.
2. I love you very much and regret it afterwards.
If he loves you very much, he will feel very sorry for you after the domestic violence and very much want your forgiveness. Maybe he's an impulsive person. Maybe his heart loves you a lot, but he has to do something wrong to you.
In fact, if a person is violent towards you, your feelings are basically over. If you are still very chained and he has feelings for him, it is impossible to think about continuing your feelings. If your feelings are still the same as before and he is no longer violent towards you, you can still consider forgiving him in life, he just loves you more and cares about you.
3. I love you to apologize after playing.
Your relationship is in a tepid state. If he apologizes to you after committing violence to you, it is not easy to forgive him. Because he doesn't have deep feelings for you, he might make this mistake again.
After playing, please forgive him, this time I ask you to forgive him. Because he might come back later. After all, he succeeded the first time, and the second success was quite natural.
The hardest thing to do is the first time. Once there is a first, the second and third will be far away.
4. I don't love you very much, and apologize after fighting.
Usually, I feel cold to you. Tan Minhu this time, I lost my temper with you for some reason, even domestic violence. Although he apologized to you after the game, he didn't accept it.
He doesn't love you in his heart. He only apologizes to you for his actions. If you stay with him again, you may experience domestic violence.
So ending this pointless relationship as soon as possible is the best outcome.
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<> is on a case-by-case basis. If it's your own fault, your boyfriend is impulsive or passively fights back, and you can forgive it. After all, no one is perfect, and as long as it is a human being, it is possible to make mistakes.
The key is to look at his attitude after making mistakes, if he sincerely admits his mistakes, he can be forgiven. If it's the boyfriend's own problem, or maybe he did it on purpose. This depends on the nature of the matter, depending on the quality of his life, if the boyfriend lets himself go, neither love nor compassion, such a boyfriend cannot be forgiven.
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Summary. It depends on a lot of factors, such as how much the man did it to me, whether he apologized, whether he made a mistake once, not a pattern of behavior, and whether he actively tried to correct it. If all of the above conditions are met, I may consider forgiving him, but I still need to think carefully about the decision.
If a man did something to you, would you still choose to forgive him?
It depends on a lot of factors, such as how much the man did it to me, whether he apologized, whether he made a mistake once, not a pattern of behavior, and whether he actively tried to correct it. If all of the above conditions are met, I may consider forgiving him, but I still need to think carefully about the decision.
I have a bad relationship, he will always do it, but I have been resisting, until yesterday I called him ** to let him go home, he finally came back, to think of our unpleasantness in the past few years, I asked him to get out, he didn't roll, I did it to him, and then he did it, but I never forgave him, and now he is still reasoning with me, he thinks that he has always been very good to me, he is making concessions, saying that I am vexatious and bad for him, in short, he thinks that he did not hurt me without me, and did not let me mention the past, let me forget the past, But I couldn't believe he couldn't get out of the way before.
Dear, if he keeps doing things to you, always thinks that he is right, and doesn't consider your feelings, there is no need to forgive him, marriage is a matter of two people.
Seeing that I sued for divorce and now says give it to me, I say I want to correct it, but I can't believe and forgive.
Dear, this kind of man is not worthy of forgiveness.
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