I want people around me to love me. But when they really love me. I don t feel it anymore

It may be that you have become accustomed to the previous life, although you really want him to accompany you every day, but when you really realize it, you can keep a little distance from him, make an appointment with him, see him once a day, slowly change it to once every two days, three times a week slowly decrease, maybe then you will find that you are looking forward to a month or a week to meet soon.

If you say that, you can only be friends, your fate may not have arrived, or it is impossible for the two of you, you don't have to be too sad, love this kind of thing is not something that one person can tell, it always makes people feel incomprehensible, if you don't have feelings for him, you don't have to force it, you can try to find other ways to change all this, you may be better friends.

If you stay together for a long time, you may be bored.

Take control of yourself! When someone who loves you appears around you, please cherish him, okay?

God knows, feelings are the most boring, shameful, and rubbish, and it's best for people to live independently and not ask for anything.

I think you're too far apart, or maybe you don't like him anymore.

I guess that's when you haven't met someone you really like. Let it be.

Maybe the person you love hasn't shown up yet

People are born with seven emotions and six desires, there will be times when they are ignorant and like someone, and there will be times when they love someone passionately.

So what does it really feel like to like or fall in love with someone?

1.Psychologically, you will feel that the other party is all kinds of good:

This so-called "lover's eye is out of Xi Shi", when you like or fall in love with someone, even if there is a good person around you, you will still feel that he is the best, the person you want to find. As a result, you will also develop a sense of affection for him, trust him, and read him.

2.Physiologically, there will be strong or weak sexual drives:

When you fall in love with someone, you will want to have physical contact with him, holding a small hand, putting a shoulder, hugging and other intimate contact.

So why is there an inexplicable inferiority complex for this situation?

1.Reality gaps.

In real life, there is an obvious gap between yourself and the ta you like, for ta, you belong to a state of low allocation, and you will naturally have an inferiority complex;

2.Psychological lack of self-confidence.

Because of the feeling of liking, it is good to see that he is good, and he feels that he is almost perfect, which is an image of the other party based on self-perception and cognition. But usually this is a cognitive bias, believing that you are not qualified to have an intimate relationship with this person who is almost perfect, and therefore the inferiority complex is caused.

3.Adverse effects experienced.

Whether it is the relationship between parents in the family or one's previous love experience, it will have a greater or lesser impact on one's current intimate relationship, whether good or bad. If the relationship between the parents in the family is not harmonious, it may cause the children in the family to think that love does not make people happy.

If the failure of a previous relationship is more obvious due to oneself, it will also make oneself lack confidence in the happiness of intimate relationships.

As a result, in the face of the person you like, you may be afraid that you can't give her happiness, and you will naturally have an inferiority complex that likes it and is afraid of hurt.

However, we all know that many things are difficult to have if you don't actively pursue them. Best wishes!

Without details, there is no way to analyze.

It dawned on me that I had never thought of what I was like in his eyes. I just looked at myself through his eyes, as if I were facing a lake. The lake doesn't speak, the lake is the lake, what can you expect from the lake?

The lake is still a lake, and there is not a trace of waves. I suddenly remembered the legend of Eco and Carnassus—was I the fairy of the woods who could not speak, or the daffodils that shone on their own water?

He said that there was one thing he had always wanted to tell me, and he was afraid that if he didn't say it again, he wouldn't have the courage. It was at that time, and at that time, it seemed like an empty space to me, like a wasteland so vast that I could see the horizon. Tears have been rolling in the eyes, and the heartbeat seems to have stopped forever.

Perhaps, this is fate: I am obsessed with my own imagination of him, indulging in ......Eventually, he eventually fell into a position from which he could not extricate himself. At that moment, I listened to the hustle and bustle in the **, and almost burst into tears.

I have been waiting for many years, but the time, place, people, causes, processes, and results are none of the things I expected. I finally believe that everything that changes in the world is just a story. Otherwise, how can there be so many ups and downs, so many foreshadowings, suspense, twists and turns, so many reasonable and unexpected, so many sudden retrospectives and sudden realizations.

I'm just a touch of scenery that isn't bright, because I stay in one place for so long that I can't even see the original color. My world withered and collapsed, and my feelings ...... without a problemThe sky is full of snow, and I am destined to meet, and then, lose you.

The last chance he didn't know, and he would never know, how many days and nights of writing and diaries had been put together.

In the end, it was just like that, a heavy one, and it ended without a problem.

And then I lost it all at once, and I finally realized that not every seed of love can grow into a tree.

Can't be in a hurry, love can't be in a hurry, make do with unhappiness, happiness requires patience, rest assured, the other half that belongs to you will definitely appear, it's just a matter of time.

Then go die.

Ah, goodbye, friend, goodbye

You have to say whether you are a man or a woman or from Thailand.

Believe you will find it, bless you!

The people who love me give everything to me, and I sigh for the people I love.

This is one of the characteristics of human beings: what you don't get is always the best.

Why don't you think about it from another angle, in fact, many people will encounter such a problem, you don't love the person you love is just like the person you love He doesn't love you is a problem, you and the person who loves you have encountered the same problem, maybe the person you love is also facing such a problem, maybe fate has not arrived, you haven't met you like each other, but more often you can consider trying to accept the person who loves you, maybe you will find him good when you get along; You can also fight for the person you love, maybe your contribution will make him find your good, don't passively love and be loved, think about what happiness you want, take the initiative to fight for it.

Cherish the people in front of you!

True love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted by the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned for him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think of him (her), you will be excited when you see it, your heart beats faster, you will feel very warm and safe when you are together, real love for a person will be willing to take care of him (her) care for him (her), give him (her) everything he (she) wantsYou will be happy when you see the person you love happy, and you will be troubled when you see him (her) troubled, but you will do everything you can to make the person you love happy and happy, and the real love of a person will want to grow old with him (her) and get along with him (her), you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, and you also get another happiness in this process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, without him (her) it seems to have lost something, with him (her) I have happiness!

Love, sometimes it's really far beyond words. As boys, we sincerely hope to master certain knowledge, experience a little bit of life, and become familiar with the necessary skills. Because after all, we will grow up over time, and we have to support our families and take care of our parents, and it is very necessary and very practical to have a certain material foundation.

Come to think of it, I feel like it's better to read more. "There is poetry and books in the belly"; If we have a pair of ears that have listened to classical **, eyes that have admired world famous paintings, and a mouth that has recited Tang and Song poems, the kind of temperament shown may be far beyond the reach of money. The one you love may not love us; But we must be rational and resolutely put an end to wishful thinking.

And it is also the freedom of others for her to fall in love with others, don't be hateful, men, and know how to be tolerant.

I firmly believe that as long as we reach a certain height, there will be very good women who will accompany us through the second half of our lives in the near future. Good luck.

Then you let go and find someone who loves you and has feelings for you.

Thank you for the invitation, you love him very much, but you don't feel love and hope, and others are very bad? Or is it not good enough for you? He is not good enough for you, I think he doesn't love you, maybe he's tired of being with you, if he doesn't have the idea of going on with you, then you can leave, there's no need to waste time and energy on it.

Because when you meet someone who loves you, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; Give you care and care, because he loves you, when he turns your interest into his interest, or because he loves you, the person who loves you will change for you, this is the person who really loves you.

In a relationship, since you can't see the future, there is no need to hold on anymore. There is a saying that says very well, persistence is a kind of wisdom, and stubbornness is a kind of stupidity. It may seem to you that you are insisting, but it is not.

It's originally stubbornness, and it's your unwillingness to evolve. When you let it go, you'll find that it's just that. There are many things that you have to try, because what you think is not the worst outcome.

Happiness will not be waiting for you all the time, the person who loves you and the person you love is not ready to appear, please learn to cherish the person in front of you, when you can't change a person's mind, you can change yourself!

I'm an emotional creator, and I'm welcome to share your different opinions! Thank you.