Why do men worry? Why are men worried about love now???

In fact, to tell the truth, love has hurt and hurt, it is not easy to completely forget, and there are a few people who can really forget, it may be absolutely impossible, and they are also deceiving themselves, some memories can only be buried deep in the mind forever, just use time to slowly forget, love can be a momentary thing, or it can be a lifetime thing. Leave because of love, give up because of love. It may sound great, but who can truly give up for love?

Just learn to give up. Some people or some things, inadvertently missed or lost in the years of time, occasionally pick up the memories, will spontaneously give birth to a wisp of romantic feelings recalling the past, it contains a sense of seeing things and thinking about people, the sigh of the past. Love hurts, it hurts so much that I cry, so I choose to let go, letting go is a helpless despair, and it hurts my heart.

When the people who once really loved the release of life were about to meet strangers, they suddenly realized that what they thought was eternally long, in fact, it was just a meeting in Pingshui. I once thought that I could hold hands all the way down like this, but let go to understand that everything is just the accidental intersection of two parallel lines, when everything disappears, the parallel lines are still parallel, even if they are not far apart, it is also the end of the world, the price of bravery is to let go of themselves first, admit failure, accept helplessness, sigh softly, helplessly wish them happiness, from then on, if the heart stops, it is difficult to make waves. In fact, it is impossible to completely forget a person quickly, and it is also deceiving yourself, just keeping the deep affection in the memory and forgetting the pain of the past, because the most beautiful blessing is to remember a person, the best hard work is to think of a person will cry, the greatest satisfaction is what you give, and love will become unforgettable after suffering something.

There are two types of men worried: 1. Worry about money 2. Worry about love. Always feeling like something is missing around you? Less is not money, but love.

Why should men worry about love? Is it because you can't find a good girl anymore or because the good girl doesn't like you at all? On the second floor, it is not that women are living more and more realistically, but that men are living more and more disappointing women.

Don't you want to find out about it? Then I ask you: Are you a handsome guy?

Do you have a promising job? Are you rich? Are you very powerful?

Do you have a house or a car? Do you have an enviable family background? If you don't have any of these, then why do you make good girls like you?

Although sometimes love cannot be measured by the above, love is for giving and enjoying, not for suffering. Without these most basic material foundations, what can you love? Would you say to your loved ones"My dear I love you very much, let us enjoy this poor life together, let us struggle together, and create that beautiful life together!

I don't dare to say everything, but at least the so-called good girls will be affected by you"Love"scared away.

Because, nowadays women are becoming more and more realistic, making men more and more disappointed...

Probably because of the inequality between men and women.

Why do people worry about silver? It is a kind of advanced animal, he is still happy and sad, he has this feeling, he encounters unpleasant things and meets family, some difficulties he will worry, he encounters good things, he encounters happy things, this is a normal human reaction, it is just an instinct of human beings.

Normal reactions, moon and geological problems It is not that you have a problem, but if it affects your normal life, I advise you to go to some places where you feel safe (such as the seaside, lake, park, woods, library, bed, etc.). Give yourself as much time as possible to stay there for a whole day, whether it's in a daze, or rest, just take a day to relax, then think about what happened recently, and then tell yourself to throw it all away, and then plan well, slowly adjust your mentality, and you will slowly get better

Everyone is more or less sentimental and emotional, and everyone will have times when they are inexplicably worried. For example, if you happen to see someone who is vaguely similar to your memory, or something very familiar, or even a normal rain in a normal season, it will make people sigh. I can't tell why, maybe it's the fear of losing when I have a lot of time, or the feeling of loneliness and loneliness when I'm alone.

If you don't think about anything, you won't worry! But as people grow up, the more things they know, the more things they think. Naturally, troubles followed.

If this man is your lover, you should tell him truthfully and let him help you solve the problem, if it is just a general relationship, just perfunctory, so as not to make people misunderstand that you want to ask him for help.

Hehe, I've seen it a lot. Haha small things, you have to communicate more!

If it's really about to break up now, and you don't want him to be too sad, it means that you still love him in your heart! Then, you should give her one last chance to choose for herself, whether he should listen to you or not.

At this time, you have to start to slowly distance yourself from him, such as: don't eat together, don't walk together, don't talk together, and slowly walk away from him. If he realizes that you are leaving, he will take the initiative to ask you why and why he is avoiding his ......At this moment when he is begging you, you can say all the things and feelings you want to say to him; I believe that he will also realize that his continued worries will make you leave, and at this point, he may change himself for your sake.

There is another result, he will easily give up on you and insist on himself. So, you let him choose.

Remember, remember: before you say what is on your mind, be sure to say the following words in front: 'Listen, I'll only say it once, I'll only give you one last chance, if you can't hear it, then we can't do it.'" ’

This will allow you to leave with peace of mind without making him too sad; Because he chose the road himself, he regretted that he could not blame others.

I sincerely hope that he will change for you, but he began to promise that if you regret it in the future, you will still choose to leave. Why? Because he forgot his original promise, such a person is unreliable!

Come and step on my space when you have time, haha.

It is recommended that you try to understand his childhood and see if there is any psychological trauma. The worries of adulthood may be related to childhood experiences It is not easy to change his personality, you should be optimistic first and try to drive him.

It seems that he wants to take on this responsibility, so he is worried.

Keep loving.

From your words, you know that your life goal is not clear enough, according to me, your biggest goal is to get a good woman who loves you and you love, and your life goal is wrong from the beginning, don't listen to others, calm down and think about it, for you women are the most important, that is, you should have a family first and have a career, if you find a lovely woman at the beginning, and then work together, I think you must be very happy now! So what you have to do is what you need most right now, what you want the most, work hard! I'm rooting for you!

People live to experience joys and sorrows, birth, old age, sickness and death, in order to understand what people live for?

In order to realize their own ideals, pursuits, goals, desires and values.

It's tiring, it's hard.

Because society is very unfair, it is very helpless to live.

If you are sad and sad, you have to cry, and if you find something to do, you will not be bored.

Because that's how life is.

No one's life is smooth sailing.

As long as you work hard, it's wonderful!

Be optimistic about anything.

Keep a normal heart.

Life is inevitably about falling and waiting.

Be brave enough to look up.

The sun is always after the storm!

I'll give you advice, can you see it?

1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......

3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.

5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.

Everything may be fate, this is the case when the ancients made words, men are in the field, this is the responsibility of men, maybe you haven't met the harbor that lets you anchor, and it comes with fate.

I will send you a piece of information that I like, life is like a dream, the years are ruthless, and I suddenly look back, only to find that people are living in a mood. Whether you are poor, rich, gain or lose, everything is fleeting, if you are in a good mood, everything will be fine, I wish you happiness.

Men are not the only ones in this world who are so dedicated and dedicated! The same is true of women, for the reason that because we are human beings, we are given this obligation by Heaven while we are alive! And for a better life in the future。。

In order for their next generation to live a good life, and for themselves to be able to enjoy their old age in peace; It may also be to satisfy your own vanity and want to compare others to others.

I believe that there is always a man who loves you, maybe he is not in your eyes. Women, more inner cultivation, temperament from the inside out, I believe that there will be more and more men who like you.

Hello, sometimes it has a lot to do with your personality, probably because your personality makes men keep their distance from you. You have to learn to change your personality. In this way, you can get along better with men.

Believe in your own charm, believe that one day someone will like you, confident people are the most beautiful.

What are you looking for, is it your own problem, or your fate has not arrived?

Hehe, either the appearance is not good, or the personality is not good.

Before fate arrives, someone will love you.

You should send a** and ask everyone to help you make some suggestions, otherwise how will you know what your problem is**.

It's swollen, don't be careful, someone will like you, fate has not arrived.

"Marriage" I want to do too! Or ......Let's make do with it.

He may not have arrived at the right fit for you.

It's not that I don't like you, it's just that you don't feel it, maybe your Prince Charming is stuck in traffic on the road and delayed

Why do you care so much about other people's feelings? Besides, you're not a man, do you know the way men think?

Fate has not arrived, wait patiently,

You're a woman, aren't you? Fate hasn't arrived yet! It's hard to get married if you don't want to get married.

Take your time, don't be in a hurry.

No way! I'm a very popular woman here.

Are you not good-looking? Still with a bad temper.

1.Ugly 2The requirements are high3Older age.

You get as much as you give.

A lot of people will have this idea about you at this stage of your life!

So you are like this, rich people who will come here.

Because women are an indispensable part of a man's life.

Maybe it's because of loneliness, behind every successful man there is always a woman! Virtuous help can help men solve a lot of things, two people may have come together because of fate, only two people who love each other and rely on each other, can go through a life of ups and downs!! Men need women!

I think it's inevitable