Why didn t your parents let you go far away?

Because it is expensive to buy a house in a distant place, and the travel fee is also expensive, especially for people like my mother who can't stay at home and likes to go out to play, my mother goes to play with me every once in a while, and the travel fee is too high.

Reluctant, always feel that their children will not be taken care of when they leave themselves, and the children will suffer a lot outside, so it is better to stay by their side and talk about it, and parents can help if there is any difficulty.

The so-called worry of children traveling thousands of miles is the reason why many parents do not let their children go to distant places, and I am no exception, my parents have been to distant places when they were young, they have experienced a lot of things, and they know that it is not easy to be far away, and they don't want us to embark on that hard road.

My parents didn't let me go far away because they were worried that I would be bullied and deceived when I was a weak woman. Two years ago, I finished the college entrance examination and applied for volunteering, like a bird that can finally fly out of the cage, I am too eager for the distant sky, so I have been looking for a distant university, my mother let me be in the local or two adjacent cities, and I am not allowed to go anywhere else, and now I am in college in this place, and I am not sorry, because it is close to home, I can go home at any time.

I feel like my parents still like it most when I can stay with them and stay in a small city. In fact, they say that big cities are not easy to mix, small cities have relationships, big cities are tired, etc. are all excuses, and my parents actually know in their hearts that big cities are better than small cities, but they are reluctant to let me leave.

I feel that in the hearts of my parents, they still think that I am a very young child and have no ability to take care of myself, so I don't worry about me when I go to a distant place alone, for fear that I will be deceived at a young age, maybe I am like this in their eyes.

The university I was admitted to was too far away, it was very inconvenient, and there was a big difference between the north and the south, and many places would not adapt, the university was not a high school, and I was admitted and my parents strongly did not recommend me to go to such a far place. They say that if you are wronged, no one will really be there for you to protect you. At that time, I thought it would be nice to have family.

On the one hand, it's because they can't bear me, and they always think that they can always see me in their hearts. On the other hand, they were afraid that I would be bullied in the field, and they were not there for me and could not give me some help.

In fact, my parents didn't want me to go to a distant big city, just like when I was a child, I didn't want my parents to go to a distant city to work. Maybe my parents don't believe that I can live well in a big city at the moment, and always think that I will be cheated and don't believe my feelings at all.

I'm actually a mother's treasure, my mother is in charge of everything, and my parents can't accept it when I suddenly go to a distant place, they must think that I am still a child, I can't do anything, and I want others to serve the kind, and they don't want me to go far away because of these.

When I graduated from secondary school, I went to Shanghai to work alone, my parents were two heads in three days, and my mother said that the child was so untalkative, she was afraid that I would be bullied outside. Then my parents often came to me and asked me to have a good relationship with my leadership colleagues. My parents were worried about me.

The main reason is that they are more worried about me, so I think that's the reason.

Parents are here, don't travel far, there must be a way to travel;

Parents are here, accompany more, travel together;

Parents are here, how happy, the whole family is happy.

I am very willing to travel with my parents, and here's why:

1.When you were young, your parents worked tirelessly to raise you, take you to eat delicious food, take you to play, and take you when you go to walk around or play, sometimes they are reluctant to spend money on themselves and will give you use;

2.After studying, the pressure on parents is increasing, but no matter how much pressure is on their shoulders, they are willing to carry it for you, hoping to do their best to help us grow;

3.Before and after work, your parents worry about your work, feel distressed about whether you are tired from work, work hard for you to buy a house, work hard for you to get married and have children, and even take care of your children;

4.As you get older, you will understand how difficult it is for your parents, how fortunate it is to be alive and well, and to accompany them to see the scenery they have never seen and taste the food they have never eaten, these are not the most important things. The most important thing is always companionship, which parent doesn't want their children to come home more often to see, talk to them more, and chat.

5.Don't shirk it, just take advantage of the time when parents are free to play with them, so that they can feel the full happiness from their children.

Parents are here, and there is still a place to go in life. I, I wish all parents in the world good health and happiness!

Method 1: Report your safety to your family in time.

No matter what you do when you go out, only if your family knows that you are safe, then it is easy for your family to feel at ease, and only in this way can you let your family rest assured that you are wandering outside, so that your life can be better, so you must know how to report safety to your family, so that your parents can be more assured that you can live outside.

Method 2: Contact your parents more.

Some young people feel that they are free to work or study outside and can live freely and willfully, and rarely contact their families, which is very bad, and family members are easy to worry about their own affairs. Therefore, you must know how to contact your parents in time, and only in this way can you make your parents feel more at ease in your life.

Method 3: Share happy things with your parents.

It is difficult to go out alone, especially if you want to become a rich person, it is particularly difficult, so you must know how to adjust your emotions with your parents, and don't tell your parents about the unhappy things in your life or work, otherwise they will be more worried than you, so you can share happy things with your parents, so that your parents will live a happier life.

Parents are here, not far away. It means that you should serve your parents wholeheartedly, and even if you have something to do, you should arrange for your family to go out for a while, which is something that everyone can do.

The source comes from the article "Liren" in the Analects.

The original text is: Zi said: "Parents are here, don't travel far, there must be a way to travel." ”

Meaning: Confucius said: "When your parents are old and alive, try not to stay in the field for a long time." As a last resort, you must tell your parents to go, why you are going, and when you are coming back. And arrange for the provision of parents. Fang: The reason, the reason.

Some people think that Confucius means that if you have parents, you just need to stay at home and honor your parents. This is a misinterpretation of the meaning of the sages. If this is the case, isn't it empty talk that the Master taught people to "rule the country and level the world with one family"?

Furthermore, if your family is poor, do you let your parents follow you to starve and cold? This is not only not filial piety, but also the greatest unfilial piety.

Mencius said that "there are three unfilial pieties", what is "there are three unfilial pieties"? The ancients said: "There are three unfilial people in Yuli, and the matter is that Ah Yi is obedient, trapped in the relatives and unjust, and one is not filial; The family is poor and old, not for Lu Shi, and the second is not filial; Don't marry and have no children, never worship ancestors, and don't be filial.

None of the three is the greatest. "The family is poor and the elderly, not for Lu Shi" is precisely to encourage people to start a career, to serve Lu for the office, to support their parents, and to glorify their ancestors.

Some people interpret "Fang" as a direction and a place to go, which is not right, but should be interpreted as "reason, reason", this "reason, reason" includes the "reason, reason" to explain clearly to parents "travel", but also includes the placement and support of parents, that is, the consideration of filial piety. Therefore, you often go home to see your parents, which is the minimum common sense and the lowest level of filial piety.

Because he didn't want to leave the child.

I want to spend more time with my children.

We'll understand it all when we get to their age.

It is decided on the basis of family circumstances, relationships, background, environment, etc. Your question is too general to go directly to your question.

Halo, what era is it now.

Every time I chat with my sister, my parents are always indispensable in the topic, and every time I have to be helpless because my parents refuse to leave their hometown to come to our sisters.

My parents and sister and I are separated by more than 1,000 kilometers each, and we always spend very little time together. Parents are accustomed to everything in their hometown, their whole life is closely adjacent to that land, even the convenience and prosperity of the metropolis can not impress them, they prefer to sit on the street with a bowl to eat, like the local sound, like the Zhaoliang cave built by their own hands, like the endless river flowing in front of the door, like the good company and jokes of the old neighbors. Although they miss their daughters so deeply, they are afraid of causing them trouble.

Parents are far away, children are flying, as long as the parents are there, the children will return to Hong Kong in their hearts, may the parents be happy and healthy!