The person who erected the monument generally wrote several generations, and the person who erected

According to the previous customs in China, the inscription of the tombstone could only be signed by the descendants of the male descendants, and now in many places, the descendants of the direct female can also be written, which is also possible. Erecting a monument for a person with a high rank or a person who has passed away for a long time, because there are many people involved, it is inevitable that each family has some special circumstances, and it is necessary to follow the local public order and good customs.

Writing. The principles of fairness, overall situation and reasonableness should be followed. Issues that need attention include, but are not limited to, the following:

1. The whole family will discuss and negotiate with each other, and the final decision will be made by the immediate descendants of the surviving family (in order of eldest and youngest).

2. There are more offspring (female) grandchildren (females), and when the special circumstances are more complicated, it is best to follow the unified direct blood relatives.

Signature in principle so as not to offend taboos. The more common special circumstances and taboos include: (1) Is the daughter-in-law signed? It is better not to sign because marriage is a legal relationship.

There is a possibility of dissolution of the relationship that is not innate, and once the phenomenon of dissolution of the marriage relationship occurs, it is easy to quarrel with the tombstone; (2) Stepchildren, descendants, adopted descendants, stepgrandchildren (different from the meaning of stepgrandchildren, because of the relationship between parents after remarriage), etc., generally need to pass stepchildren and descendants, are people who do not have biological children, if you must erect a monument for people in this situation, you can sign the names of stepchildren and grandchildren, but to write clearly the relationship with the owner of the tomb, it is best not to sign the name of the adopted descendants, stepgrandchildren, etc., so as not to violate the taboo of the tombstone person's descendants (germline) impure (miscellaneous); (3) Married daughters, granddaughters and other direct female descendants can be written, but it is best not to write their spouses, for the same reason (1), and it is best not to write grandchildren (daughters), etc., which belong to collateral blood relatives.

There is a blood relationship with the owner of the tomb, but according to the tradition of Chinese patrilineal society, it belongs to the descendants (lineage) of his surname, so it is best not to write it together; Moreover, if this situation is mixed together, it will inevitably become a hundred family names.

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If it must be written, the exact relationship with the owner of the tomb (e.g., grandson, granddaughter, etc.) must be clearly written; (4) It is best to write down the direct blood relatives to show that the descendants of the tomb owner are vigorous and the germ line is endless.

3. Regarding the contribution, in principle, it can be divided equally according to the branch, or according to the number of people, and it can be decided by the elders, but it is necessary to ensure that everyone has to pay the tombstone fee, which can be more or less, and it is okay to have a good family condition and be willing to pay more, after all, the cost is not only on the tombstone, but also on other expenses.

4. As for the ** of the tombstone, it is not easy to generalize, according to the family's economic situation, it is valuable and cheap, and it expresses the heart, not the comparison.

Hello, there are more offspring (female) grandchildren (females), and when special circumstances are more complicated, it is best to sign in accordance with the principle of unified direct blood relatives, so as not to violate taboos. It is best to write down the direct blood relatives to show that the descendants of the tomb owner are vigorous and the lineage is endless.

The more common special circumstances and taboos include: because the marriage relationship is a legal relationship, a non-congenital relationship, there is a possibility of dissolution of the acquired relationship, once the phenomenon of dissolution of the marriage relationship occurs, it is easy to quarrel with the tombstone.

Extended information: In feng shui, there are two periods of time in a year when there is no need to choose a day, one of which is to add soil to the grave, erect monuments, plant trees and other yin house matters before and after the Qingming Festival, which is also the reason why people focus on all yin house matters on the Qingming Festival.

If the monument is erected on the Qingming Festival, it should be within one and a half months of the week before and the week after the Qingming Festival. Other specific times must choose an auspicious day of the zodiac, do not clash with the deceased person who erected the monument, to prevent the disadvantage of the relatives and bury the future troubles, the erection of the monument is not as patriarchal as before, as long as it is the direct and collateral relatives who send the old man on the last journey, they can be added. But after all, the tombstone is a traditional culture, and there is a limit to the size of the modern tombstone, so write as little as possible to make the tombstone less cluttered, children, grandchildren must be written, son-in-law, daughter-in-law, great-grandchildren and great-grandchildren are determined according to the size of the tombstone.

It is mainly based on the actual situation, and as far as possible, the direct blood relatives are written, in order to show that the descendants of the tomb owner are vigorous and the lineage is endless, but the most important thing is that the length of the main monument and the wishes of the descendants are the key points for the monument erector to write for several generations.

The tombstone inscription should be engraved with the name of the deceased, the date of birth and death, the name of the person who erected the monument and the relationship between the deceased. The person who erected the monument wrote on the "tiger side" of the monument, that is, on the right side. There are three main types of tombstone erectors; The first is about the direct descendants of the owner of the Yin House, and the descendants or relatives will erect a monument.

Second, if the person concerned has no descendants and his merits are extraordinary, the organization will erect a monument. The third is to erect a monument by relatives. Tombstones are traditional culture, and there are restrictions on the size of modern tombstones, so write as little as possible, and engrave specific generations of descendants to discuss with the family members, which will make the tombstone less cluttered.

Children and grandchildren usually write, and sons-in-law, daughters-in-law, great-grandchildren and great-grandchildren are determined by the size of the tombstone. The common ones are: "filial piety man so-and-so, so-and-so, so-and-so, Sun so-and-so, so-and-so, respectful".

The writing of the tombstone is relatively rich in content. Including feng shui conditions, place of origin, name, identity, date of birth and death, descendants, monument erector, date of burial or reburial.

1 Feng Shui situation, the left side of the tombstone is called the dragon edge, which is an important part of the monument. Here it is necessary to write the mountain direction and the mountain direction linearity, and the gold line. For example, "Liqi Shan Ding divides the meridian into two points with propylene gold."

Its purpose is to inform future generations that if they encounter the flood of natural disasters or the damage of war, future generations can still find the original feng shui direction and re-erect the monument according to the feng shui situation text on the stele.

2 Place of origin: In cemeteries with a large number of immigrants, especially those who have died in other places, the names of the provinces, cities, and counties of origin should be engraved on the most conspicuous parts of the left and right corners of the tombstones, and some only the names of regions and villages should be engraved. This is the nostalgia for the hometown, and it also provides convenience for future generations and relatives and friends to find a tomb when they sweep the sacrifices.

3 Name written in the center of the tombstone. This is called the "middle list". When writing the name of the tomb owner, the number of words is associated with good luck in feng shui.

In order to respect the elders, many respectful words were added in the past, such as the father called the examination and the examination, the mother called the concubine and the concubine, the man added the prince and the prince, and the woman added the family and the widow. And the number of words is applied in a cycle according to the five words of "life, old age, illness, death, and suffering". One of them fell in.

Six, seven, ten.

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The words "raw" and "old" in 6 and 17 are auspicious. If it falls on the word "disease", it is medium, and if it falls on the word "death" and "suffering", it is unlucky. Therefore, when planning to win the list, try to use the numbers in the auspicious format as much as possible.

Such as: "Cheng Xinjiang Society 19th Hao Feng Feng Zheng Dafu Kao Quanyuan Qiu Mansion Junjia City", up to 21 words, just in line with the "life" character, the most auspicious. If the names of the husband and wife are written on the tablet, they are arranged according to the left and the right, with the man on the left and the woman on the right.

4 The date of birth and death is written on both sides of the middle list, still according to the left of the man and the right of the woman, and it is best to write the year, month and day completely. Because of the passage of time, the cancellation of the household registration has been passed from generation to generation, and it is very difficult to find the date of birth and death of the ancestors.

5 The person who erects the monument, including children, relatives, friends, and groups, shall write it on the side of the tablet, that is, on the right side. The child should be written in full, and the deceased child may be boxed around the name. It is still arranged from left to right.

There are also those who do not want to reveal their names, and they can write that their children stand or bow, and worship and stand together.

6 The time when the tomb was built or rebuilt shall be engraved on the tiger side of the stele. There are many words that record time in China, including the Common Era, the lunar calendar, and most of them write the winter solstice and Qingming in the season. The date is also mostly used in dry branches.

The A, B, C, D, E, G, G, XIN, REN, and Gui in the heavenly stems are combined with the Zi, Chou, Yin, Mao, Chen, Si, Wu, Wei, Shen, You, Shu, and Hai in the earthly branches to represent the days or months in the calendar. Such as Jiazi, B, Chou, .......