What procedures are generally required to erect a monument to parents?

Loyalty and filial piety have been passed down for a long time, poems and books have been passed down from generation to generation, trees have roots and flourish, water has a source to flow, worship ancestors, is the fine tradition and virtue of our Chinese nation, and erecting a monument to commemorate the ancestors is a way to commemorate the ancestors. In order to highlight the merits of our ancestors in the past, and the filial piety and piety of our cousins, we have planned and jointly funded by all the clansmen to erect a monument to commemorate them, so as to show that we will not forget the blessings and protection of our ancestors, be grateful for the nurturing teachings of our ancestors, and always remember the kindness of our ancestors.

To erect a monument to parents, you need to write the date of birth and death of your parents on the right side of the monument, leave some space on it, and write it in small characters from top to bottom. In the middle of the inscription, the big characters are written on the top: the tomb of the first parents and the name, and leave some space below.

On the left, leave some space on the top to write the names of future generations, and on the far left, a little lower, write x year, x month, x day.

The deceased painted their names in white paint, and the people of the world painted their names in red lacquer.

The deceased is like a life, and erecting a monument to the parents is a continuation of the cautious pursuit of the future, and it is a solemn need to carry forward the virtues of the past to show the descendants.

If you erect a monument before and after the Qingming Festival, you can omit the auspicious choice, because please be auspicious and auspicious within half a month before and after the Qingming Festival. Before breaking ground, incense and paper should be burned in front of the grave to tell their parents the good news of the construction of the courtyard, and pray for the safe and smooth completion of the project.

The monument should be unveiled after the sunrise of the red wheel at dawn, and the solemn sacrifice after the plaque is erected: incense is burned for candles, paper is burned, and the sacrificial text is read.

In addition, according to local customs, it can be complicated or simplified, in short, it is necessary to pay attention to personal safety when erecting the monument.

Write the text of the parents in the middle part, the text part must be divided into left and right, the Chinese pay attention to the left and right of the man, so the male text is on the left, the female text is on the right side of the tombstone, and the birth and death time, it is best to write all on the left side of the tombstone, in order: father's birthday, father's death day, mother's birthday, mother's death day.

This style of writing can appear patriarchal, and this type of tombstone writing is that the man's name is written on the top and the woman's name is written below. Add a word in the middle, which means "and" and "and". It is generally used in families where men are of high status and status.

Tombstones are usually composed of three parts: the headhead, the text, and the inscription.

1. Look up. The letterhead mainly writes the deceased's former position, occupation, etc., and some can also be omitted.

2. Text. The text mainly states the title of the deceased and the name of the deceased by the person who erected the monument. For example, "first examine the tomb of the king".

3. Payment. The identity and name of the person who erected the monument should be written on the letter.

The time of erection of the monument can be written or not.

The way to write a tombstone for your parents is as follows:

1. The format and content are complete, and the tombstone inscription is raised from the head.

The text and the inscription are composed of three parts, and the content basically includes the basic information of the tomb owner (such as name, place of origin, etc.), the person who erected the monument and the time when the monument was erected.

2. The inscription must be concise and clear, and the inscription is used to describe the life of the parents, which seems simple but is not simple. The inscription should not be cumbersome and concise. Write an inscription for your own parents, preferably omitting details.

Although there is much to remember about the lives of my parents, the best way to remember them is to remember them.

3. The information of the monument erector must be complete, and the information of the monument erector is on the tombstone, so that future generations can understand the deceased and his descendants when looking at the tombstone information, which is particularly important in many areas.

4. The style and writing method of the inscription of the joint burial of parents will be slightly different from that of the inscription of the single tombstone. The inscription of the tombstone of the joint burial mainly includes the name of the stele, the date of birth and death of the deceased, the person who erected the stele, the time of the stele, etc., which are relatively basic, and it should be noted that the name on the inscription is written.

5. The inscription of the parents' joint burial will generally meet one party who is alive, but want to be buried together after a hundred years, the tablet will stand first, and at this time, the name of the living party can be engraved or not. If it is engraved, the color of the name should be distinguished, and the name of the living should be painted black.

6. The habit in most areas is that if the name of the living is generally not colored or red, the name of the deceased is generally painted with gold or black, and the name of the deceased is generally painted in gold or black, and the name needs to be reserved if the name is not engraved to facilitate the engraving of the name later.

The stele is generally engraved with the name of the tomb owner, the name of the person who erected the stele (generally the descendants), the date of the stele, etc., and the stele must be inscribed, that is, the concave carving, not the convex carving. The second is that the number of words should cross the ecliptic. The zodiac, which originated from the Taoism of Zhang Ling, is consistent with the 12 Jianzhi date, and it is calculated that the single digit of the total number of words is auspicious.

Or it is advisable to cross the white road, according to calculations, the single digit of the total number of words is auspicious. But there is no need to be rigid about the number of words. In addition, the font should not be line script, cursive, preferably solemn Wei tablet style, official script, regular script.

If the drinking image in the mountain tomb (the drinking image refers to the mountains around the acupuncture site resembles a certain animal shape, such as the ant land, the centipede land, the tiger land, the cow land, the civet cat and mouse catching land, the tiger down the mountain, the dragon playing with pearls, the phoenix spreading its wings, etc., the drink shape is a special content in feng shui) should not set up a monument, and there should be special content during the sacrifice, such as the tiger-shaped land, the meat during the sacrifice, and the grain in the ant land.

After the tombstone is erected, it should be protected and corrected if it is crooked, the bird droppings should be wiped clean, and the cracked ones should be repaired or replaced. According to Feng Shui, the tombstone is related to the good fortune of the whole family, such as cracking, having a head at the top or upper part of the stele, having a disaster in the long house (boss) on the left side of the stele, and injuring a woman on the back of the stele.

Generally, the name of the father and the name of the mother are written on the monument to the parents, and then two sentences are written, and the name of the son and the name of the woman are written on the inscription, and then the year, month and day.

Write the text of the parents in the middle part, the text part must be divided into left and right, the Chinese pay attention to the left and right of the man, so the male text is on the left, the female text is on the right side of the tombstone, and the birth and death time, it is best to write all on the left side of the tombstone, in order: father's birthday, father's death day, mother's birthday, mother's death day.

This is usually written with the date of birth, the name and the time of death.

This is usually the parents' own.

This is usually a matter of course.

This place will have different priorities, and it's best to refer to the local one.

It seems that every place has something special about it.

Take the test first, such as the funeral test, this should be introduced when you order the tombstone.