My girlfriend s family asked for a job transfer and bought a house, and my girlfriend s family asked

That's not too much to ask. It's a must. Especially work.

Do you still want to live apart? If you don't work together, then don't get married as soon as possible. Because sooner or later you have to leave.

Maybe you say now that you will never do so-and-so, but this promise is useless. Facts are facts. What is going to happen will happen.

So take care of these beforehand before you get married. Otherwise, don't get married. Misleading others and misleading oneself.

Before she got married, her family had so many requirements. You have to be careful not to lose both your money and your money. You really love her, and you verbally promise to make your difficulties clear to their family. It's not good to be separated when you get married, you have to work hard to accomplish this.

Don't focus only on "do not do what the other party asks", your thoughts and plans are clearly explained to the other party's family, such as what is your situation now, so you can't achieve it, but how will you be in the future.

Note: It is not empty words, it is based on facts, and it is concrete; It's not about making up anything to deceive)

This requires you to really think and plan for the problems faced by the two people in the future life, if it is really well-founded (the purpose is not to say it nicely), I think people will also change and give up the current requirements, after all, the ultimate purpose of people is to live a good life for you.

It's not terrible to have troubles, it's up to you how you overcome them. If you are a person who is not willing to be mediocre and worldly, then don't worry about your troubles, lest you die before you grow old. Virtuous and elegant.

In fact, it is for the good of my daughter.

But often ignore others.

Dear, I think it's too much. Actually, I'm in the same situation as you; But she has always encouraged me and supported me! Step up your game.

And work together. I think you should first stabilize your emotions and analyze your strengths and weaknesses, what your current situation is, and your positioning. Now you can't dwell on this one thing, you still have to live, so change the perspective, think about how to live, how to live, you fight now, except for anger.

So, calm down and think about how you can make money. Actually, if you don't have a house and have money, you don't say anything, which is very realistic now. Sometimes I wonder, is it the environment that has changed us, or have we changed the environment?

It doesn't matter, we just need to know: what we want.

We always think that we love someone very much, and we will love it for the rest of our lives and wait for it. Until the sea changes color, and the sea withers and rots. When everyone tells us, don't be obsessed, he is not as good as you think, but we would rather believe the fairy tales we have woven for ourselves than the words of the people around us.

always thinks that if we fall in love with someone, we must not change our hearts for a lifetime, and we always think that we can wait until the fate in the dark to meet again. When the clouds and mist dissipate, when the two intersecting lines are staggered, we know that we are just a fan of the authorities.

We always think that we love someone so much that we will do anything for him, and we love it to the gorgeous background until you turn around with a lonely face. Whoever doesn't love first, leaves first. I always feel that the first person to turn around is the best, watching the person we love the most go away, we think it is a lifetime, this life, just him, except for him, none of us will love again.

The heart has become numb to feelings, the tears have flowed, what else should be waiting for me, some things, are not as fragile as I think. Ask, if you lose him, will you really not be able to live, maybe that second will be, but what about ten days or a month, a year or more, suddenly one day you suddenly wake up and you will say, why, once you were so unable to let go.

In fact, it's not that we can't let go, what we can't let go of is just a mood, that kind of unwillingness. Why, you didn't love you first when I still loved you. Why, you loved me so much at the beginning, but now you have become so cold.

When we ask these words in our hearts, in fact, we no longer simply love this person, we just fall in love with our own unwillingness. In his bones, no one is willing to be worse than others, and everyone wants everything about them to be beautiful and incomparable.

When we fall in love with someone, we are actually in love with a feeling, a feeling that only he can give. If you don't love someone, it's because you don't feel it. If you don't love it, you don't love it, and it's useless to be reluctant.

We will say that we are waiting for someone, but in fact, what we are waiting for is no longer this person, just a mood, unwilling to leave the person who is suddenly there. If he comes back, will you still love him as always, tolerate everything about him, don't say yes so easily, say with your heart, will you really do?

No one wants to change his mind on purpose, a person, when he loves you, really loves you, but when he doesn't love you, he really doesn't love you. There is no way for him to pretend not to love you when he loves you, and similarly, there is really no way for him to pretend to love ......you when he doesn't love you

So, why not let it go, because we want to be happy ourselves. It's better to love while you can love, don't let your love wait too long, don't let your happiness wait too long.

But do we sometimes feel lost? Just like me now, the pressure of work is a little overwhelming, and love is something that I can't even think of, so how can I experience and be happy?

Not everyone only looks at whether they are rich or not, women's reality is normal, not showing it, but it is not normal, the reality is not wrong, she has the right to pursue a better life, if you really can't let go of her, you should make yourself strong and become able to give her happiness, but in addition to being rich, the most important thing is the relationship between you, which money can't buy.

Two people must have someone to sacrifice, if no one is willing to sacrifice, or weigh the sacrifice that took a long time to make, it will be a problem in the future, if you can really settle down on the coast, let your girlfriend come over and be over, if you don't come, you will be pulled down. I also have a pair of college classmates, who have been together for several years, graduated and the man went abroad, and the woman is in the bank, which is also very stable, and at home, but after the man returned to China, he came to BJ City to find him without hesitation, and gave up the original good job, this kind of sacrifice is very necessary, who sacrifices more, who will cherish it more. Whether you like it or not, it's not the same, not to mention whether it's suitable or not, it's not easy to tolerate, it's also different!

Inverted doors? Can you accept it at home? Joke, sooner or later, if the woman is from the man's family, do you want the man to go to the woman? Now in this society, the habit of women is gone!

In fact, love is to give up for the sake of the other person.

Love is beauty that cannot be had.

Explain your situation directly to your girlfriend and see if the other party's parents can also help. If not, ask her if she would like to get married, rent a house first, and then buy a house when she has saved enough money to buy a house.

I also have a friend, she has been very melancholy since she was a child, I think her personality and her name are quite a good match, her name is melancholy, the name is quite good, but the meaning is not very good. When she speaks, that gentleness, you have to listen carefully. Hehe.

Ever since she was a child, she told me she wanted to change her name. I said, "Then my sorrows are called bouncing."

She laughs when she says that! Later, after a month of separation from Sorrow, she really changed her name to Jump. I was amazed.

And around me all day. The tone of speech is still very gentle, but the bouncing is much more cheerful now than before. She told me:

I saw an arithmetic network on the Internet, and then I got the guidance of the master, and I really changed my name. I think that's a coincidence? Or is it really the traditional Chinese culture that solves the doubts in people's lives?

If you have any doubts, go to the arithmetic network and try it. Hehe, I hope you can be happy every day.

Convince the other party. If I love you, I will definitely be willing to share weal and sorrow with you and work together.

It's all really in love, what else is there to worry about.

Your narrative shows that you want to buy a house in the woman's house. Your uncle and grandmother replied to Zen, and your grandparents must love you, it depends on your attitude. I think you should buy it in your own home.

Is your girlfriend from Zaoyang, Hubei? In that case, that girl is too smart and Liang Ming, she must be easy to go back to her parents' house, in fact, if she marries you, it is you who decide to buy a house in **, because you are the head of the family, you have to take care of the boss, right, how to take care of the second elder when you buy so far away, it is impossible, talk to your girlfriend, the ancestral family in front of the shed is always the ancestral family, ask for satisfaction.

This kind of thing can only be discussed, my husband and I didn't talk about the house when we got married, and we only bought it after we got married, so we still have to communicate.

I'm afraid that such an inconsiderate girl will cause you trouble in the future.

Cold salad, this woman doesn't mean anything, you can't consider your family environment, and she always asks you to do this.

First of all, can you take your parents over? Examine her feelings.

Discuss it well and hope he can understand you.

Let's talk about it.

If your girlfriend says that she will break up if she doesn't buy a house, it proves that it is not you who wants to marry, but the house, and ask yourself depending on the situation.

Let's discuss it carefully, there are two situations, she loves you, she wants to be with you, and she is married without a house at home. Or, if they love you and their family looks down on you, neither of them will force you. You'll get the rest.

Let's be honest, no way. Or borrow money for a down payment. And then through this matter, looking at the attitude of your mother-in-law's mother-in-law's family, you can see whether their family is the kind of person who is material.