There are more and more things about cheating good people now, so should we be good people in the fu

There is a story, many people have heard me tell you about it, an Indian philosopher (very famous I forgot but hehe) saw a scorpion in the water, he couldn't climb out and was about to drown, but the scorpion didn't know that it was just it, so he stabbed the philosopher with a stinger, and someone next to him said, it stabbed you, what else did you save him? The philosopher said that it is the nature of a scorpion to sting, but love is the nature of human beings. I can't let someone else's nature nullify my own

As for the deceivers, we must learn to protect ourselves and improve our consciousness, and good people can't change their good nature because of the increase in the number of deceivers, right? If we become new deceivers because of them, in the words of Secretary Hu, the society is not harmonious, isn't it? The quality of people is constantly improving, use our good to influence them, this generation will not follow the next generation, really, even not empty theory people, even young people after the 80s, but I think this should really become the ideal of the whole society, I think this is definitely a great move, it is possible to achieve, the process is a gradual process, it must be not a short time, but if no one works hard, it will be stranded, and there must be a pioneer in the revolution or something, right?

Well.. This question, it depends on the situation, it's past 1 o'clock, let's go to sleep.

Our recent college graduates have no social experience and are most likely to be deceived, if you don't know people, it's best not to believe what he said, as the saying goes, you can't have the heart to hurt people, and you can't have the heart to prevent people.

Only if you can't say a word, you can't have the heart of harming people, and you can't have the heart of preventing people!

In recent years, things like porcelain touching and moral kidnapping have emerged one after another. In fact, it reflects a common problem, a large part of the elderly group has become impetuous after a long time in society because of the lack of education they received in the past, and they have begun to use their status as elderly people to seek improper benefits for themselves. It's just a generational phenomenon.

With the popularization of nine-year compulsory education and the increasingly prosperous scientific, educational, and cultural undertakings after the reform, there will be more and more high-quality people in the future, and these pathological phenomena will become less and less.

One day, after eating from a restaurant with my friends, I saw a child at the door who had changed the car and fell to the ground. In case the owner of the car sees it and says that we knocked it down, we are afraid that we will not have the money to pay.

In interpersonal communication, I feel that it is difficult to be a good person because I don't handle my colleague relationship well, and I don't get the respect of others for helping sincerely. The person who spends the most time with you every day is not my loved one, nor my friend, but my colleague. He and I were face to face in the office, eating, drinking, and entertaining together.

But when we have the concept of private space, we can't ignore the reasonable social space and public space, and how to grasp the distance in the office is not so simple. Of course, it is necessary to have a good relationship with your colleagues, but it depends on what you rely on to maintain a good relationship with your colleagues and how their good feelings about you are formed. If it's just because you're a good colleague who can relieve them of a lot of burden, you can even fall victim to them when they make mistakes.

1.I've helped people who shouldn't have helped, but I can't help myself, and I've let go of all those who have hurt me, but I haven't let myself go.

2. Helped people who shouldn't be helped, fueling his arrogance. gave it to the person who shouldn't be given, filled up for his greed, the greatest evil of human nature, unthankful, hit a rake, and bite back.

3. I knew it too late, the credit and money were all lent out, and now I have been bruised all over my body, and I have the heart to die, and I have helped people who shouldn't be helped.

4. In the future, those who should be helped, those who should not be helped, will never help, and the efforts will be thankless, and the people who will help will be complained, and the heart will be stuffed. It's chilling to think about.

As a senior anti-fraud expert, I think there are the following main reasons why many people don't believe what good people say when they encounter **:

1.Trust risk: People tend to be wary of strangers when confronted with scams.

This psychology is to protect oneself from possible harm. So, when someone alerts them that they may be facing a scam, they become suspicious of the information.

2.Psychological effects: Psychological research has shown that people are susceptible to "confirmation bias" in certain situations.

This means that when people hear information that matches their existing beliefs, they are more inclined to accept the information and ignore the evidence to the contrary. When confronted with a scam, people may refuse to listen to kind reminders because of this psychological effect.

3.Loss aversion: People tend to be more sensitive to losses than to gains from liquid silver. Therefore, when faced with scams, people may be reluctant to trust kind reminders for fear of losing money, resulting in greater losses.

To help them stop their losses faster, we can do the following:

1.Help from professionals: When spotting possible signs of fraud, seek the help of a professional, such as an anti-fraud expert, the police, or a financial institution. They can provide more expertise and experience to help victims identify and avoid scams.

2.Strengthen trust: Help victims build trust in the kind reminder by providing factual evidence, case studies, and expert advice. This way, it is easier for them to accept the recommendations and take steps to avoid losses.

4.Share your case: Share similar cases of scams with your victims so they can be more vigilant about the risks they may face.

In short, to help victims stop losses faster, a variety of measures need to be taken, such as the help of professionals, strengthening trust, and increasing vigilance. Through these methods, the victim's ability to identify and protect against scams can be improved.

Sometimes we often find that why is it so difficult to be a good person? Presumably everyone has personally experienced being a good person being blamed, or even hated, and I used to think that being a good person may be misunderstood, just like seeing a big lady crossing the road with a lot of things, and going to help out of kindness, people think you are robbing things, at least they say that you are a congratulatory sentence or two, and at worst they say that you are robbing in public. As I get older, I find that being a good person and doing good deeds is directly defined as a bad person or meddling, and sometimes even more and more black.

I can't help but sigh, why? Let's talk about my views through the following levels.

1. The expectations given are too high.

In life or work, it is inevitable to encounter the need for others to help, for example, at work, there are colleagues who need your help, it is easy for yourself, he pins all his hopes on you, but because of his own work, he has no time to take care of others, does not help in time, does not get his expectations, and finally may be labeled as a bad person. I don't know why.

2. Get used to your goodness.

No matter who it is, don't get used to being nice to others, after a long time, you feel that this is what you should do, and over time you will form a dependence on him. I once saw a **, a person suddenly saw a homeless man, felt pitiful, and gave him 5 yuan, and the next day gave 5 yuan, day after day, suddenly due to his own poor life, did not give the homeless, and then the homeless man chased and scolded him, why not give, just because the homeless man is used to the help of others, has become accustomed to it, and suddenly changes and can't adapt.

3. Out of sympathy.

I have a high school classmate who has been keeping in touch, he is the kind of fear and respect in the eyes of our classmates, last month in the high school WeChat group, suddenly saw him scolding all his classmates in the group, at that time it was very net, this is recruiting who provoked whom, and later found out that his sister was using Huixin, it turned out that his brother played some gambling games on the Internet, lost a lot of money, and now people are playing missing, saying that our classmate lent money to his brother is harming his brother, and said that the reason why her brother is like this is because we have a bad ......, Later, I couldn't stand being scolded, and kicked him out of the group directly, through the group everyone Zen hunger Lu chat, we are all because of the friendship of classmates for many years, he borrowed some money to get through the difficulties because of the current living constraints, who would have thought that out of kindness to provoke a commotion.

In life, no matter who you are, you must first lower the expectations of others, and don't habitually be good to others, it is a thankless obligation to be a good person in society, and at the same time, you must always be strict with yourself, and constantly strive to improve your own character.