When a love doesn t know whether to give up or not

I think most families often have this kind of thing happening. You're happy to have a good boyfriend, and their parents are happy that they have such a good son. For the elderly, we all understand that respect is a must, but, in addition, we must add a little tolerance and understanding.

They are people from the old society, we basically can't change the ideology, people live for most of their lives, so we can only adapt, in addition, it is a practical problem, the daughter-in-law from other places donated money and ran away, who is this thing, everyone is afraid of encountering. Transposition, your man, what will your parents think and do? Now, the solution is, if you are hard-hearted, I must follow him, then, the rest of the problem is your boyfriend's business, if he loves you, he will not let you suffer too many grievances, depending on how he chooses.

Of course, if you are not afraid of anything and don't care about anything, then be decisive, there are no unforgettable feelings in this world, and time will dilute everything. Remember, what's right is best.

You're a good girl. In fact, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are also very careful when talking, and they will not be like you said. If you need to rent an apartment outside for work, you can't blame it.

There are many things that don't have so many reasons, depending on what you think in your heart.

If his parents can't accept you from the start, and your current boyfriend's weakness isn't on your side.

I don't think you can have a better time in the same room after being with him. It's useless to dwell on it, either you work hard to change yourself into the type of daughter-in-law that his family likes, or you can withdraw as soon as possible.

If you give up a relationship that you don't love to be sleepy, you will feel that Wang Tsai is very light and loose, because you feel burdened, stressed, and unhappy together, when you choose to give up, you will feel that this pressure is gone, and there will be no troubles.

Whether or not to continue a relationship that is not favored should be determined on a case-by-case basis.

If the foundation of the relationship is weak, there are serious disagreements between the two people, or there are very strong objections from relatives and friends around the relationship, then it may be necessary to think twice about whether to give up.

However, if two people love each other, have enough trust and understanding, and are willing to give for each other, then it is possible for a relationship that is not favored to be transformed into a beautiful relationship.

For example, in the movie "Dream of the Covered Bridge", the protagonists go through many difficulties and challenges, but eventually come together. There are also many examples in real life, and some great love stories start with seemingly undesirable loves.

Therefore, whether you continue or abandon the relationship, you need to think rationally, weigh the pros and cons carefully, and respect your own and the other person's true inner feelings.

Just like in the TV series "The Legend of Chu Qiao", the love affair between the heroine Chu Qiao and the male protagonist Li Fang, King of Qi, has experienced a series of twists and turns and challenges.

First of all, there is a huge disparity between the identities of the two, Chu Qiao is a grassroots girl from a humble background, and Li Fang is the king of the great country Qi, which makes the relationship between the two questionable. Secondly, King Qi didn't have a real affection for Chu Qiao at the beginning, but just used her to achieve his own goals.

In the end, the two also encountered a lot of external pressures and obstacles, including family interests, political opposition and other issues.

However, as time passed, King Qi gradually discovered Chu Qiao's kindness, intelligence, and bravery, and gradually developed true feelings for her. Chu Qiao is also deeply in love with King Qi and is willing to give everything for him. The two eventually overcame all the difficulties, got together from hunger, and faced more challenges together.

Therefore, even if it is not a good relationship, as long as two people truly love each other and are willing to pay and work hard for each other, it is possible to transform into a beautiful relationship.

It's just in a split second. I gave up at that moment, because I realized that I was too entangled in doing this, and it was also difficult for me, so I might as well choose to let go. In fact, if you can do the following three things, you can really give up.

1. One of the main reasons why many people can't let go of no longer contacting him is that they still want to be friends with each other after breaking up, so they repeatedly contact each other beyond the scope of friends, if the other party replies, she will be very happy, if the other party does not reply, she will be sad, this is not the state after the breakup at all. Since you have chosen to break up, it must be that there is a problem in the relationship between the two people, although you are very reluctant, but you also have to admit that you are no longer suitable for being together in Jian Zaoyan, so you chose to separate, since this is the case, then you should accept the reality. It's not wise to keep pestering and contacting the other person after a breakup, as it will only make you feel like you've made the wrong choice and want to go back to the past.

The first step if you want to let go is not to give yourself such extravagant hopes, don't feel that there is still hope, if necessary, delete and block can be used, don't feel reluctant. Second, some people will always find opportunities to meet each other, such as a gathering of mutual friends, such as on the occasion of meeting him, you will have joy in your heart, but what if you see him? It's just an extra layer of heartache.

has separated, you have to be clear about the relationship between the two people now, you are the most familiar strangers, don't expect the two people to have other relationships, let alone expect him to become friends with you, it's good to simply be a stranger. Maybe you have forgotten it in your heart, but because Yiyan met for the first time and gave up all his efforts, you will feel that he has a cold attitude, or that he has not loved you, in short, it is cranky, which will only make you miserable, why bother? If you break up, don't think about meeting him anymore, but also try to avoid meeting him, his appearance will not let you evoke the beauty of the past, but will make you evoke the pain of the time, this is the so-called "the better the past, the more cruel the reality."

3. It may be human instinct to stop thinking about his good thoughts, especially when two people are separated, you will only think of the good things in the past, the good things he has for you, but ignore the quarrels that make you break up, and the bad things he has for you. Sometimes you will infinitely magnify his kindness to you, and you will also reflect on whether you are not good enough, you will feel that everything is your fault, if it were not for you, this relationship would not have come to this point.