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What love does it take to love you as life? Passionate or enthusiastic? The reality is cruel, beautiful love is indispensable to the economic foundation, how long can empty talk about love last, we are all grown up and no longer like the original ignorance, yearning for a beautiful love, but the reality hits us in the face, no matter how good the feelings are, there is no material security, you are the baby in the hearts of your parents, they can't let you marry a man who can't meet the material life, they don't want their baby daughter to follow each other after getting married in the future, no money can but must work hard, You can't be like this for the rest of your life.
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Do you really want to give up a man who loves you like your life, but has no money, I think it mainly depends on your own thoughts. Because. Some people are only suitable for falling in love and not suitable for marriage.
If you are ready to endure hardships with the other person in the future, then you can choose not to give up. If you are not ready to endure hardships with him, then you can choose to give up.
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Hello, it depends on the financial situation of the two of you, because love really can't be eaten. In the future, if you have enough money to live together, you can continue to walk. If your life becomes a problem in the future, what kind of love are you talking about?
Can you guarantee that he will always love you as before, and even if he has money in the future, he will still love you as his life.
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I think a person who truly loves you, he will really give everything for you, to love you, to protect you, if he has no money now, it does not mean that there will be no money in the future, as long as two people love each other, there will be better everything, and there will be a happier life.
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There is not only love in married life, but also firewood, rice, oil and salt, feelings can not be used as food, people still play to return to life, return to reality, as the saying goes, poor couples mourn everything, and marriage without material conditions will not last long!
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You can't have both fish and bear's paws, depending on whether you love money or people! Most people's sleepiness depends on your concentration and humanity!
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will not escape, escape is equal to giving up, since the man loves you very much, I can't wait to get close to you, but I am afraid that you will not accept him, so it is a little awkward.
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This is not necessarily, it all varies from person to person.
Some men may run away like this, and some men may not be brave enough to pursue you.
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Generally, a better and stronger person will avoid you, because he feels that he is not capable of raising you, and will only wait for him to think that he is capable of telling you the truth, but time waits for no one. Ah Quiet.
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It depends on what kind of person it is, some people with strong self-esteem will avoid you because they feel that they can't give you a good life, so they want you to live a good life, and some people won't, because he will work with you to create a good life.
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There are three possibilities:
1. Either I like you very much, but I don't know how to face you;
2. I don't like you anymore, or my feelings are weak, and I can no longer face you as usual;
3. There is a serious misunderstanding between you.
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People who have self-confidence feel that they can work hard for the future, and in the future I have the ability to contract your happiness and think that you are inside.
Wouldn't mind now.
If he is tolerant, then he will not run away;
A person who is not confident, or cautious, will run away from you because he has no money now, because he cannot make a promise now, because it would be irresponsible for him or for you.
Of course, if you can really be sure that a man loves you a lot on this premise. Then you can react regardless of whether the other person is running away or not. If you love him too, what does it matter if he has money or not?
You take the initiative and just grab it, people who are in love with each other are not so easy to find (laughs); Conversely, if you don't love him, there's no point in you asking that question.
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Since I love you, I won't run away, although I can't give you what I want for the time being, I will give you what I want in the future.
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It's hard to say, will your happiness with him last a lifetime?!
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maybe, he can't give you happiness, he is under pressure, and he will feel unworthy of you.
There are also those who will work hard for you.
Most of them will choose to work hard first and wait until their career is successful before looking for you.
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Divide people, some people will, some confident people won't, most men will.
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If he feels that he can't give you happiness, he should run away.
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I'm only in my own house, I'm a boar, I'm a pig, I'm a pig, I'm a pig, I'm a pig.
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A man may give up his relationship because he has no money, and he feels that he can't give a happy life to the person he loves. He hopes that the person he loves can live happily, so he will give up his feelings because he has no money. In fact, this is what a man thinks, he thinks that giving up feelings like this can make a woman happy, in fact, this is what he thinks and not what women think.
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If a man gives up the woman he loves because he doesn't have money, I think it's a very responsible behavior, because the man doesn't want the woman to suffer with him.
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Men think that without money, there is no way to give the beloved woman good material conditions, and there is no way to give her happiness. So I gave up.
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A man who really likes a woman is reluctant to accompany this woman to endure hardships with him.
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Such a man is self-aware, he is afraid that he will not have good living conditions for the person he loves, so he will mistake the other party.
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Because a man is poor, he will have a sense of inferiority complex in his heart, and because his inferiority complex is making trouble, he will endure the pain and let go of things that obviously have results.
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I think you should choose to give up in this case, because for a man, they are very rational about feelings, and when you have no money and no ability, you can't effectively give a woman happiness, so he can only follow you to suffer, so you should choose to give up for such feelings.
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Personally, I think that at this time, don't choose to give up, you can improve your personal ability and strive to give each other happiness.
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It mainly depends on whether the man is self-motivated, if the man is self-motivated, then it is not a problem to have no money and no ability now, and he can achieve future success through his own efforts.
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Personally, I think that the love that can be given up is not true love. You are talking about this situation, you have to consider it from two aspects, you are talking about a man, because he has no money and gives up his beloved woman, does he mean that he wants to make his beloved woman happier, and let his beloved woman be with someone with more strength? Or does he have no money himself, and then his girlfriend doesn't have any money, and then he gives up his true love and chooses someone he doesn't love to live, thus achieving a step out of poverty?
1. If it is the first case, I still believe that he loves each other, I think real love is based on the premise that the other party is doing well, if the other party also dislikes him for having no money, and chooses a person with strong economic strength to be together, then her love for a man is not pure love. If the woman really wants to be with the man, but the man is worried about not being able to give the woman happiness because of his own economic reasons, there happens to be other men who love him, and the woman can provide the woman with financial support, in the long run, you want the woman to be with that man, in fact, this is really a pot-bellied man, and what he does is also true love, which is the most admirable.
2. If it is the second case, you abandon the woman you love for the sake of material life and choose to get rid of poverty through marriage, then this man's love for that woman is not true love, in this man's heart, money is the most important, no money, absolutely can't, other things including love are not as important as money, which shows that his values are problematic, on the other hand, it also shows that the woman is not his true love, I think true love is no matter how the external conditions change? There is only one other party in the eyes, in order to be with each other, you can give everything, and such a pure and immaculate and indomitable love in the real society basically does not exist. If someone is lucky enough to come across, please cherish it.
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In daily life, some boys will have a great burden because they are temporarily unable to create better living conditions for their beloved woman, in which case they choose to give up. How to interpret the reason why boys give up should be different voices. It is completely understandable that this boy is worried about such a choice and how reluctant he is.
Perhaps he felt that this was a very selfless performance, and it was also to give his beloved woman a better life. This boy is still more realistic. There may be another way to solve it, which is to give yourself a period of hard work, if you can't achieve the kind of material conditions you want, then look at the girl's choice, if you unilaterally ignore the girl's idea because you are not capable, I think giving up is also an irresponsible performance.
If girls are more concerned about this, I think it's right to give up, and if girls don't care too much, you can work together.
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Usually a responsible man, a man who loves you will do this, he will feel that he can't give the woman he loves a happy life, and he wants his woman to be happy, so he will choose to let go! But this is a stupid idea and practice! For women, there is nothing happier than being with a lover, even if they face difficulties together, as long as they are happy together!
It's a pity that there are not many men who can really understand, and they tend to be self-righteous, and they don't know what he does is really hurting the woman they love!
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It's love when you meet, it's fate that you haven't met, and it's not wrong to try to make yourself better, but if you give up the person you want to fight for because you don't have money, I think you may regret it later, even if you have money in the future, the goal you fought for before is no longer yours, isn't it a pity, don't let it go if you meet.
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If a man has nothing, he has nothing, he will have low self-esteem, so he will decide to leave this woman, because he loves her too much, he wants to give him his whole life, but he has nothing but life, he can't give a woman happiness materially and spiritually, so he decides to leave this girl because he loves her!
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Sometimes men have nothing and choose to leave in order not to affect their loved ones, there should be such things, but most choose to make their loved ones happy through struggle. But in fact, when you have nothing, you are ruthlessly abandoned by your loved ones.
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There are a lot of people who break up with their girlfriends because of poverty, and there are more of us who cut off the idea of finding a girlfriend in the first place. Poor people like us get a salary of more than 10,000 yuan a month in a first-tier city, and it is impossible to buy a house, and there is no suitable job if you go to a city that is almost there. If we have people we like, we will also extinguish this bad idea as soon as possible and not harm other girls.
People like me probably retire to a small place when they get old and finish their last lives in a stable and silent way.
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Saying that he loves you, he loves you, and he also shows that he loves you and loves you. But for a man, you really love a girl. But you can't give her a reliance, a minimum of material security.
Ask yourself, do you think it's appropriate? You really can't chase girls if you don't have any material security. Because when you really fall in love with a girl, you do find that you can't give her some protection.
It's a really uncomfortable feeling. So, it's better not to chase it in the first place.
This question can be replaced by another question, whether to find someone who loves you, or find someone you love, if you don't really love you, no matter whether you have money or not, you can't have a happy marriage, love can know each other, and your heart will be connected. And then the person who really loves you, do you love him too? Whether he has a sense of responsibility, because marriage alone is not enough to have love, it will be diluted by the stumbles in life; And then whether he has the ability to create happiness for you, ability is the standard to measure a man, so to find a "potential stock" that is both responsible and capable, although he does not have much money now, but the happiness created by himself will be more rewarding, in other words, the parents of the rich second generation are not self-made?
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