People are all for themselves? Am I for myself or for someone else?

Updated on society 2024-06-11
34 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    This is true, but it is not absolute. People must always have something to pursue and have ideals to struggle for in order to live this life in vain.

    There is a saying that "self-cultivation, family harmony, governing the country, and leveling the world" means that only when you practice self-cultivation and self-cultivation to impress the perfect realm, can you take care of your home and govern the country and the world. That's why there is a "person who reads for the rise of China" to achieve a great man. "The bird's nest knows the ambition of the bird" is bold and ambitious.

    These are all saying that people should have a sense of family and country, if they only sweep the snow in front of their own door, regardless of the frost on the tiles of others, how can the society effectively operate and develop benignly.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    People don't die for themselves, everyone is living for themselves, that's it, this is the reality, and the reality from ancient times to the present will never change.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's all for yourself, I don't think there's anything wrong with people for themselves, as the saying goes, people are selfish, and any idea must consider their own interests.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    People don't all think about themselves, but they also think about the people around them, and they also think about the people around them.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    People are all for themselves, in fact, this sentence is not true, generally for themselves, but also consider the feelings of others.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    As the saying goes, people don't die for themselves, so everyone has a selfish side. Also live for yourself.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's normal for people not to destroy heaven and earth for themselves, in fact, many times it must be for themselves.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It depends on when, and who you score, and it's definitely not everyone who is just for themselves.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    As the saying goes, people don't die for themselves, and human beings are greedy.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Human beings are selfish by nature.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you don't treat it sincerely, that's why it will have such an effect, and your relationship can be reconsidered to see if it continues

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Everyone has selfishness, and half of the people who live for what they do and fight for what they say are for themselves.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    No, everyone is not for themselves, we can't live for ourselves, only for ourselves.

    People must not live for themselves, nor can they live only for themselves. If you want to be a good person and want to be respected by others, you must continue to learn, continue to cultivate, and continue to do good deeds, which requires unremitting efforts throughout your life. We must do our part to create a better society.

    Life is a tree and flowers, it is destined to accept the baptism of fate, life needs to be appreciated, abandon the idea of possessing everything, don't expect you to have a lot, with a normal state of mind to appreciate a person, a thing, a painting, enjoy the beauty, you will be happy, will be calm.

    Think shallower, see lighter! aggrieved, silent; Misunderstood, smiled slightly. If there is no sunshine, listen to the wind and watch the rain fall; No flowers; Smell the fragrance of the earth; Without applause, enjoy the tranquility of solitude. Good morning!

    If you are scolded, don't be in a hurry, turn around and avoid it, smile faintly, your heart is calm, and your anger will disappear. When you go out, you will inevitably be excluded by some people, or discriminated against by some people, or even jealous, framed, and suppressed by some people; When you get along with others, you will inevitably have friction with some people, or make everyone angry, or even accidentally set up enemies.

    Happiness is not how many sweet words you have heard, but when you are sad and crying, someone says to you: "It's okay, I'm here." ”

    Smiling, not because you have been happy for too long, but because you have forgotten to be sad for too long. Some people and some things can only be understood more truly if they are tasted with their hearts. In the journey of life, we are indispensable for stumbling, rain and wind.

    But on the road of life, there will always be a spiritual lamp shining on us, step by step, moving forward. Good morning!

    Everything that appears in life is like a dream, and no one can possess it forever. Someday, we will all say goodbye to everything we once had. No matter how beautiful it is, in the end it is just a memory, and even if it is not satisfactory, then this is a gift from God. Good morning!

    Self-denial is very easy to self-abandonment. The vast immortals still have unattainable perfection, let alone the mortal world. In this world, there is no invincible superman, and only by facing up to his own insignificance and inadequacy can there be calm and peaceful. Good morning!

    People live for a lifetime, love is the truest. People live their lives with the closest love. Life is short, contentment is always happy.

    In life, we know how to make trade-offs, know how to give, know how to be satisfied, know how to be content, and only then can our hearts be broadened. Talent is not bound by life in the castle of desire. Contentment is always happy, happiness is self-knowledge, happiness is self-sufficiency.

    Life is 100 years old, and it is already in a hurry, not to mention that youth is only a small part of it, and it is easy to pass and it is difficult to find a trace.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Hello dear, I think everyone does what they do for their own good.

    You do everything for yourself.

    When I have him, I have him, and with myself, I have others, other things. In essence, it can be said that everything is for oneself, including selflessness. Except for the lack of consciousness, complete instinct, which exists like animals and plants and even dead things, cannot choose for itself. Otherwise, it's all the result of your own choice.

    And consciousness and choice give people greater autonomy, and this autonomy is a good thing. Intentionally doing things doesn't mean it's good or bad. Good or bad in what to do and what impact to cause? If you do good deeds and help others, everyone will benefit and appreciate you, except for those who have no heart or lungs.

    If people don't do it for themselves, the heavens and the earth will be destroyed! It is human nature, it does not mean that it must be inhumane, selfish, selfish, self-interested, I can bear the world, but the world cannot bear me. People can still choose not to hurt others, help others, or be the people of the world!

    Doing it deliberately is not necessarily bad or hypocritical. It's about whether it's really good or not. If people don't do it for themselves, the heavens and the earth will be destroyed!

    There is no doubt that all people do it for their own benefit. It's just that in such a society where the legal system and morality are becoming more and more perfect, all people must abide by one point when safeguarding their own interests, that is, they must not touch the reasonable, legitimate and reasonable interests of others. It's just that in reality, too many people have violated the interests of others in order to maximize their own interests, and even played scoundrels, threats and intimidation, and moral kidnapping.

    For example, if you help a beggar, it is actually to satisfy your own compassion, and you feel very comfortable after doing it. When you help your relatives and friends, that is also because you feel that it is your own family affection, and you will feel uncomfortable when you see your relatives uncomfortable, so you will help, and in the end, it is also to make yourself happy. That's the good side.

    The bad side is also satisfying all kinds of desires, appetite, greed, curiosity, survival, self-realization, etc.

    Maslow's hierarchy of needs also states that people do everything for themselves. Including sacrificing one's life for the country, that is also a kind of self-realization. The so-called rather die than give in, it is also because I feel that what I hope for is more important than living.

    It's just that in the process of doing things for yourself, some things are good and bad for others. If it's not good for the majority, then your business becomes a bad thing for social value recognition.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Not everyone is doing it for themselves. Some will act for the sake of others, taking into account the needs of others, even at the expense of their own interests. Sometimes, that performance can also pay off, but sometimes something can also be lost.

    In short, everyone has different reasons and motivations to make different choices, so it cannot be said that everyone is doing it for themselves.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    In fact, such a sentence, you must be for yourself, if you are rough for others, you will definitely not work so hard, so you are for yourself.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Everyone, whether they are working or studying, is first for themselves, and then for being able to help others.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's me who lives by myself, because no one can be responsible for your future, only take care of everything yourself, so when you hesitate, listen to your inner voice. There are no absolute mistakes and correct decisions, as long as you talk about yourself, you can bear the consequences, and don't complain about others. Just be bold.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Am I looking for myself or for someone else? This must be for yourself first, and then for others, this is both for yourself and others, and the two are good for each other.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Come to you, Yan Shuqi I am for myself and for others, I think that I live for myself, and there are still very few for others, so for myself or a lot of holes are changed to my completion, thank you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Am I for myself or for someone else, I think. No matter what you do, you must consider yourself and others, not alone. For the sake of self-dust, self-interest, disregard for others, of course, do not mess up, can only think about others. Don't think about yourself.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Am I for Liqiao La myself or for the sake of not being a bad person? I think that if we are all alive, we will first do it for ourselves, and then for the limbs of others, because we can't support ourselves, how can we rush to see it for others.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Many times, even if we fight blindly, even if it is for others, it is more important for ourselves, because only when we help others, then others will also help ourselves to self-eligently, which is a kind of mutual behavior.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    In this case, of course, it is for yourself, and people are not for themselves, and the starting point of your behavior is for your own sake.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It is impossible to live only for oneself in life, it is better to live for oneself and think about others as well.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Am I for myself or for not selling fierce people, as for you are for yourself and for others, how can others think clearly in your heart, if you yourself take the brigade from the middle town bridge, that is for yourself, if you consider for others, this is for others.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Yes, people, I feel that I first live for myself, because I have lived well, and I have the ability to help Oak infiltrate Liangzhou to help others. But nowadays most parents live for others and for their children.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Is that all you say? Isn't there a reason? Should I say what do you do for yourself?

    For example, if you want to get good grades in your studies, it is for yourself and your parents, because of your good grades, your parents will have a high rent and no Mingxing, and they will feel that there is light on their faces, and they can also make your own future great.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    While taking care of your own emotions, you should also take care of the emotions of others. Don't hurt others just for yourself.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I think that whether it's for yourself or for others, you have to work hard to do a lot of things, and if you do that, you can do better.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    The adult world is all about living for others, and it is not something you can control.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Am I for myself or for someone else? I don't know what you're referring to by that? If it's in the family, it's for the wife and children.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    In the 90s, girls in rural Henan Province went to school and were not very recognized by their fathers, especially for less wealthy families, girls dropped out of school when they were teenagers and had the ability to work to help with housework at home, and in a few years they could get married, and their mothers could also collect some bride price.

    Seeing that one of my friends stopped going to school, I also had the idea of dropping out of school. When I graduated from junior high school, I finally mustered up the courage to say to my mother, "Mom, I don't want to go to school anymore." Mother said

    You decide for yourself, it's your own business, don't blame me if you regret not going to school in the future. ”

    For a teenage girl, this is a really big problem. My father said firmly, "I can't go to school, if I don't go to school, I will face the loess with my back to the sky like us in the future?" ”

    At the graduation ceremony of Tsinghua University undergraduates in the past few days, Zhang Wei, a graduate of the Department of Industrial Engineering, was amazed by the words of Zhang Wei, the representative of the graduation bridge and the graduate of the Department of Industrial Engineering. "I always remember my ignorance of wanting to contribute to the cause of education. After the successful study, I decided to postpone my enrollment for one year and join the Tsinghua University Graduate Student Support Group.

    Tsinghua University has cultivated us to become "people with a mission and the pursuit of excellence", my parents hope that I will not forget to "think of the source of drinking water", my friends want me to do what I really want to do, and I want to "do something unforgettable in a short period of time"! ”

    A year is precious for a recent college graduate. Let's take a year out to do something that really hard anyone can do. But no matter how long it takes, "doing something you'll remember for a lifetime" is worth it.

    I go to school for myself, and I work for myself. The idea of working for the sake of the family, working for the boss is a bit silly. What we do is actually for ourselves, in order to prove our own value, and to make ourselves more and more valuable.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Yu Hua once wrote in "Alive": "There is nothing happier than being alive, and nothing is more difficult than being alive." ”

    What is the purpose of living in pain? For the sake of bitterness?

    In fact, I used to think that life was boiling me up, and I hoped that time would pass quickly every day. But now I'm living a life, and every day is too short and I have too many things to do. Life is so bitter, I want to be sweeter.

    People of different levels suffer differently, some people suffer for money, some people suffer for love, some people suffer for study, some people suffer for unsound bodies, and there are even more people who love the country and suffer for the country.

    We always say that we live for ourselves, because we want to live a wonderful life, and we want to make our life go in the direction we want. This job is not the other's life. When it comes to living for others, parents place their expectations on their children and let them live with their dreams, but of course, this life is not the other's life.

    Live for yourself, be cool for yourself, live for others, be cool for others. Is that really the case? The patient is dying, just asking for a death, and the family is reluctant to persuade him to live, but is this kind of living for others really for others?

    No, others just want a thought, a thought that lives in the world. However, it does not mean that living for others means that others are happy, and others still have to worry about the survival of patients. If children live for their parents, will their parents be happy?

    Not necessarily, if the child succeeds, the parents will be relieved and think of their own past failures. If the child fails, the parent will fall deeper into the abyss of failure.

    Of course, there are many wonderful people who live for others, but it doesn't mean that they don't live for themselves, Grandpa Yuan Longping, said that the way they live is both for others and for themselves. Lots and lots of people don't live just for themselves.

    In fact, people who want to live simply for themselves are also pathetic and pitiful. Because for oneself, there is no deeper meaning in life without others. There is also a lack of reference. It is also sad to live purely for others, because without oneself, without one's soul.

    We often say that it is for our own sake. And the empathy that is often mentioned is for him. In fact, it's good to be yourself, and make some changes for others on the road to being yourself.

    For whom to live, to be honest, it is too worthless in front of being alive. Every era has its own suffering, but in order to live, everyone suffers the same suffering, the suffering of time.

    In fact, many times living is just living, just like solving the proof problem of a math problem, for the answer? No, for the sake of the process.

    Life is twists and turns, you see, everyone knows that the ending is just a dead word, and they all know the answer, why struggle to live? It's just to enjoy the process, to enjoy the unknown process.

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