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If there is no pursuit, no ideal, no goal, you will lose yourself, you will live very empty, very confused, and you don't know what you are living for. We have to know exactly what we want. In fact, what we want is very simple, all we want is happiness.
He doesn't have a specific concept of what happiness is, maybe it's a feeling, maybe it's spiritual, maybe it's material, I think both are indispensable, especially in today's society. However, spiritual wealth is more important. The power of the spirit is infinite, the mind is magical, and only when the spirit is rich will there be a higher level of pursuit.
People must have material pursuits, the quality of life can be guaranteed, but do not be confused by the material, behind the material is the dedication to the ideal. Only when we realize our ideals and fulfill our mission, this life will be meaningful. To be a person with cultivation and taste, to live freely, to face difficulties and challenges at all times in life, and to dare to face the waves of life is the real strong.
Always be prepared, work hard for a better life, and live well for the people we love and love us deeply. Existence has its own meaning, everyone has it, and it is indispensable, because there are too many people who care about you all the time.
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That depends on what you think, in psychology there is self-altruism and pure altruism. The former is an act that arises out of a certain demand of oneself, and it can be said that it is for oneself to benefit others. The latter is completely different, that is, simply only for the joy and happiness of others, without their own feelings.
What is lacking in society now is the existence of pure altruism, in fact, it also exists, but everyone is unwilling to pay for others, so they hide their own pure altruism. People live for themselves and for others, depending on what you are willing to do!
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Of course, man has to live for himself. But sometimes it helps others. I'm happy, too. It's for myself. I don't think it's necessary to think about it so much. Go with the flow. Love yourself. Don't do things that hurt others. That's it.
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In essence, it must be to live for oneself, after all, it is "people are not for themselves, and heaven and earth will be destroyed" (there is no other meaning, praise,), but the meaning of a person's life is to risk others, serve others, that is, live for others, but to put it bluntly. Living for others is actually living for yourself, (the specifics will not be explained, it all depends on your own understanding), purpose, to live meaningfully.
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The human mind is uncertain and pursues things that are fickle. They want to grasp him, catch him, or keep him, but they don't know the uncertain nature of things themselves. Is there happiness, yes, happiness passes quickly, the pursuit of chasing short-term happiness, he wastes most of our life to enjoy the ephemeral beauty, and asks for this beauty to stay?
Soon disappear and leave behind, emptiness, loneliness, infinite confusion, and a long period of suffering. Is there no point in living in this way, and happiness should not be pursued? Of course, it's not that external happiness is short-lived, but what about having unchanging happiness?
Seek from the heart, enjoy every minute and every second of self-satisfaction in the moment, live a real life, do not worry about external meaningless things, and be happy and disgusted. Only for oneself to truthfully master one's own satisfying existence. If you don't know how to do it.
I beg you to study Buddhism. There is no more perfect life than a person who studies Buddhism, enjoys life, and is carefree. Buddhism has never been superstitious, worshipping those illusory gods, just teaching you to live well, enjoy life, and not be troubled and suffering.
Use wisdom to cut off troubles and firm attachments. Let life be without regrets. Life is like a play, playing the role of a child at home, a student to a teacher, a worker at work, and a tourist when going out.
The mask always carries a heart for others, lest he be injured. Parents don't let you know for fear of preaching, friends don't let you know for fear of ridicule, and even don't let yourself know for fear of sadness and can't extricate yourself. I have not been sincere to people, things, and the environment, and I have even forgotten that I have sincerity.
Compliments joke as a happy **, life left him and he couldn't find himself, but he didn't know these 2 original fakes. Fake for a lifetime. It's hard to live now.
Life is like a dream, but this dream is always gone. Looking back at the dream, do things exist? I have existed but it is so illusory and unreal, my life is vivid as if it was yesterday, it seems that there is no existence of true and false, it is difficult to distinguish between true and false, and what I am doing now in my life, and I have not woken up in my dream.
The things in the dream, the things in the dream, the people in the dream are real and illusory, clinging to the illusory and unreal existence of life in the dream, trying to grasp it firmly but it is like air that cannot be obtained, things will not come again, the dream will not repeat itself, clinging to the past things and not letting go, it is better to live in the present, recognize the dream will not be affected, and there will be troubles.
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Why do people live? A question with no specific concept!
But man first lives for his own existence, and man himself is not an individual, with a family, relatives, and people we love.
So for the sake of the family, and of course for the love we deserve.
Therefore, one cannot live only for oneself.
The meaning of life is to create value, in order to prove one's existence!
Be someone who works for others, do what works for others!
Go live better!
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