As a parent, what are the times when you have no choice but to do so?

In fact, as a parent, the most helpless time is that the child is too young, you can't completely reason with her, because she can't understand at all, so sometimes you have to obey his will, or go against her will, only in this way can he understand what is right and what is wrong, and sometimes you have to be fierce to him, which is really a thing that has no way.

The time when I was most helpless was when I was helping my children with their homework. My child is very slow to write homework and doesn't want to write deliberately procrastinating. Whenever he started to write his homework, he would drink some water and go to the toilet, and for all sorts of reasons, he didn't want to write.

Even if you sit there and write quietly, he is like a snail crawling, so slow that you are very helpless. But when it comes to playing, he is more active than anyone else.

As a parent, the most helpless time for me is when my son does his homework, I remember when she was in elementary school, it was very difficult to do math problems every time, and she couldn't teach him how to do it. Even if it's exactly the same question, the first time I got it right, the second time he didn't do it right, it really made me very helpless.

When the child doesn't want to write homework, I also know how bad the exam-oriented education is now, but he is indeed a stepping stone for the child to come out to find a job and life in the future, he must study hard, and the child resists to write homework, I am also sad, but there is nothing to be done.

As a parent, when I feel helpless, I still know or write homework, in fact, I feel the most desperate, because when you know that when he writes homework, he can do a very simple problem, and then you teach him to make the same mistake next time.

As a parent, when the child is particularly disobedient, but the child is only more than three years old, he can't be beaten or scolded, and he feels helpless when he can't understand the education. I feel a little powerless, and I don't know how to guide my child so that he doesn't mess around. At this time, I feel that I still need to calm down, solve it calmly, and educate the child slowly.

I remember that the child's performance in the first few months was quite bad, when the time passed minute by minute, and the child's homework only wrote two or three words and did not move at all, as a parent, I really felt that I did my best, but how could the child still be like this? So I was angry, beaten and scolded, and the child is still so tired of learning, but I consulted the teacher, and the teacher said that the child at this stage, punishment is supplemented, encouragement is the mainstay, at that moment, I really broke down!

When I disagree with my child, and there is no way to achieve a harmonious point of repeated communication, I will feel very helpless, because of the age gap, there will be a gap between parents and children, so when the concept between the two is different, I will probably feel very helpless.

Today's children are really uncomfortable for parents. Adults try to create better living conditions for them, racking their brains to provide them with a better learning environment, but these children, who don't know what their heads are thinking, really leave teachers and parents speechless.

The school attaches great importance to students' ideological and safety education, and the management is also very strict, especially the class teachers, who are really worried. Which student has any situation every day, notify it in the group at any time, so that the home and school can communicate at any time. But sometimes, there are situations that make teachers and parents helpless.

Seeing my son's conversation between the head teacher and the parents in their class group, I want to laugh a little, but I feel that it seems a little inauthentic, do you see the joke? Of course not, I just think that as a parent, my child has made a mistake, why is it just a few words so soft and fluttering? These two classmates are often reported by teachers, but why don't parents pay attention to their ideological dynamics?

If there is a problem, what's the use of being anxious, you have to find out the root cause and work hard to solve it!

In school, in addition to learning, the teacher is only an external factor, and he can't manage so much at all. Besides, there are 60 students in a class, the teacher is a human being, not a god, and he also has his own family, so how can he manage it so comprehensively, and he has to rely on himself to manage it? If your own children don't care about themselves, that's really not good.

Hu Chawu every night to deliver meals to the children, standing at the school gate a group of parents, some driving, some cycling, some walking, no matter the weather is sunny or rainy or cold wind, adults are looking forward to the school gate, when the children out of the school gate, parents are smiling to greet each other. No matter how many unhappy things are, parents who straighten their backs in front of their children bring warm smiles to their children.

Although the children can not fully understand the painstaking efforts of their parents now, but this is our responsibility, a moment of negligence will cause deeper self-blame in the future, or communicate with the teacher more, find out the crux of the problem, solve the problem!

Looking at these two parents, it is estimated that there is nothing to be done, but the child is like this, it is definitely not like this for a day, there must have been a trend before, but it has not attracted attention, and now it is really anxious.

Hurry up and get it back, ideological work is the first place! These unconscious bear kids!