If you don t love him but rely on him, should you get married?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-29
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Are you really happy together?! If you are unhappy, why spend a lifetime to complete this unhappy process and continuation?! Do you want a moment of pain or a lifetime of pain and depression?!

    Don't really choose anything because you are being urged, the only one who can really be urged is yourself! I understand your thoughts, because I feel the same way, and I am also worried about this matter, but I think it is like allowing yourself to settle down, and it may take a period of time for only your own blank time to really listen to your heart, and only in this way can you understand what you really want.

    Your current habits and dependence are only because you haven't met a better one, but also because you think that you may regret giving up the relationship now, because if you don't find it in the future, you will regret it even more in the future!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Shouldn't. If you are married now. I'm sure you'll get divorced in the future. For the sake of the future.

    I don't think it should be.

    It's also a good idea to talk to your parents so they can understand what you think.

    That's it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Now society is like this, what you love doesn't necessarily love you.

    If you don't love him, he will love you very much.

    Find a husband who loves you.

    Although it does not match their own ideas.

    But that would be better.

    I don't like that, either, but I can't help it.

    Society is pressing!

    Personal opinion, hehe, think about it yourself.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Plain is the real world is so big There will always be someone better than the person you are now, if you can't meet one, just change it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Don't push yourself easily, or you'll regret it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Find your own happiness and blow him up.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    There is no way, continue to rely on it, until another man you like appears, taking the initiative to give up will make you unhappy, and you will also fall into self-suffering, it is better to wait and wait and see what happens.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you want a small tragedy to become a big tragedy then you continue to be stupidly together, if you don't want this tragedy to happen then stay as far away from him as you can, don't hope that he will divorce and marry you, if he does that, the story of his ex-wife will be your story in the near future.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you can do it without hurting his family and not affecting the normal life of his family, you can maintain this relationship.

    But it turns out that Chinese women rarely do this, because most women's ultimate goal is to get and possess, not share.

    It's a bit excessive, or you end this illicit relationship.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Leave him, don't destroy someone else's family, start your own life again, and I wish you happiness!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Dependence is not love. Hurry up and get out.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Are you happier or sadder with him?

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