What should people care about before the age of 30?

I'm about the same age as you, I've been talking to my boyfriend for a year and now we're in a stable relationship. He was a few years older than me, so my parents told us to get married.

But we don't want to get married, because we don't think we have any financial foundation yet, at least we don't want to get married and live with his parents, so our goal now is to buy a house, at least a house and get married again, we can take out a loan to buy it, right?

As for the formal job, it doesn't matter what the formal job is at the moment, you can find a job to do first, and think about it while doing it, it will definitely feel better than it is now with a salary

It's thoughts, and you must have your own ideas.

You'd better still get a job, for reasons that don't explain. As for the goal, just do something that interests you, and slowly the goal will appear.

Find a career of your own first to settle down, and when people are busy, they won't feel lost. 24, a great future is in front of you, and you have just gotten married, so it's time to settle down. Cooperate more with her husband's work, and now I have to learn a lot and learn how to love each other.

If you have any troubles in the future, the two of you will solve them together, and I wish you happiness.

Before the age of 30, I think it is best to have our own abilities, including all aspects of ability, of course, because ability is our own, it can make us work better, live better, fall in love better, and take better care of ourselves and our families.

Life experience, whatever it is.

When people reach the age of 30, if they are not married, when they see their parents slowly getting old, when they see other people's children beating ** to their father and mother, their hearts are always unhappy, and their parents are also anxious, that is, their family conditions are not worse than others. In the eyes of others, their parents also need to be inferior.

After discussion with the good parents, someone said yes, and then they started building the road, and their brother and uncle's father helped build the road. At that time, it was still very cold. When I fix it, I come out early each day to work because if I want to build a house, I need to replicate my old business.

When I go out to work in Shenzhen again, I have more things to worry about and care about after marriage, such as thinking about a house without a house, thinking about a car without a car, and caring more about my own home after marriage. Social life began to dwindle, and all I thought about after work was going home. Digging feast.

If not, or unsure, your thirty may be full of hesitation, as a woman, at the threshold of thirty, if you are not married, you will encounter a series of endless urging to marry this series of topics, in the traditional Chinese style, a woman's only task is to be diligent and thrifty, so it is not very likely to put women's work influence in the first place! When you come to this age, the middle-aged and elderly people are also the time when life is unsatisfactory, and the most concerned about this is the money problem, and this time is also the time when you pay the most money, and the most worried is the health of parents and children, no matter how much you have been at large before.

Worried about my family's physical and mental health, worried about my own physical and mental health, because I was afraid of losing my parents, I was worried about our children being lost. When you start to make a deposit, it's not like you don't have to think about what you want to use as before. Work hard, after all, there must be a lot of living expenses for children at home.

My own external image, because I was still very young before the age of 30, youth is capital, and my husband often praises himself for being beautiful, but as I get older and 30 years old, you can slowly find that your husband just says how you got fat, ** is not good, it is beginning to look down on yourself.

I don't care about my appearance, I don't care about work, I don't care about anything, I don't care about other people's eyes.

Among these things, I don't particularly care about emotional things, work things, attitude things, group wisdom things, and some details.

Love. At this time, people have their own choices and their own ideas, so they don't particularly value love.

Instead of complaining about social injustice and regretting that they did not work hard in the past, it is better to start at the age of 30 and think carefully about their future outlet, find a job that interests them, accumulate a little ability every day, and form their core advantages after a long time.

In fact, this netizen has encountered this problem, and there was also an uncle in his 40s who had the same doubts, thinking that he was old and not as energetic as young people, and he felt that he was already unable to make trouble.

In fact, I think that people of every age will be frustrated in the workplace, but what determines the height of each person's workplace is their attitude towards things at the trough.

In your 20s, you have the most choices, and at this time, you can work hard to try and make mistakes, as long as you are diligent and fast, the future will not be too bad!

When you are 30 years old, you must carefully choose industries and positions, and since you have taken a detour at the age of 20, you must choose according to your abilities, advantages, and interests at this time.

At the age of 40, there is no capital for trial and error, and he has accumulated a lot of life experience, looking for a job requires stability, and it is more important than knowing what he does.

Since we can't change the length of our lives, we can only change the width of our lives and find goals and careers that suit our different ages.

I am currently 32 years old, and the new difficulties I face after the age of 30 are that my career has reached a bottleneck, second, it has become more difficult to get promoted and raised, and third, my competitiveness has decreased due to age.

The first dilemma is that after the age of 30, I will face a bottleneck in my career development. When you are in the age of 20, you will have a period of continuous development in the workplace. During this period of time, your career will be very smooth, and you will continue to improve and progress.

But when you reach the age of 30, this state of continuous development will encounter obstacles, and you will find that even if you still work hard, your career will gradually stagnate, and you will encounter a bottleneck period and you will not be able to continue to improve.

The second dilemma is that when you are over 30 years old, it will be more difficult for you to get a promotion and a salary increase in the workplace. As my career development has entered a bottleneck, it will become more difficult for me to get a promotion and salary increase in the workplace after I have passed the age of 30. For many people, the promotion and salary increase they received in their twenties will be the last in a long time, and they may not get a promotion or raise for a long time after the age of 30.

The third reason is that as you get older, your competitiveness will decline after the age of 30. When you are young, you are full of vitality and vitality, and your competitiveness is the strongest at this time. When you are over 30 years old, as you grow older, your energy, physical strength and other aspects will decline, which will weaken your competitiveness in the workplace and your career development will be affected.

In short, because of the above factors, I will not be able to get out of this predicament because of the new difficulties I have encountered in the workplace after the age of 30.