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It is necessary to insist decisively, since she has not completely cut off her relationship with you, it means that she still regards you as a potential boyfriend in her heart. What she wants is that she is not satisfied with some aspects of you, and asks you to change it a little better, of course this is my guess! Maybe she's trying to transform you that way.
Hold on, young man, I'll stand up for you. Stick to what you should insist on, give up and change what you give up!
Take 10,000 steps back, even if she really doesn't fit in with you. What is the need to borrow to end everything? Maybe now you feel that life is meaningless, life has lost its color.
But when you grow up and mature a little bit more, and you look back, you realize that it's nothing, really. The meaning of life is not only reflected in love, but also in the form of a woman!
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Everyone wants to live a more meaningful life, but first we need to understand what is more meaningful.
Different people may have different standards.
Some people think that it is meaningful to have three meals a day, no worries about food and clothing, a house, a car and a holiday, and to be able to accompany and protect their wives and daughters.
Some people think that it is more meaningful to be loyal to the country, pay for the people, and be brave and dedicated in major events.
Some people take time to volunteer at the temple after their busy work, which makes their life more meaningful.
More meaningful actually represents the dissatisfaction with the immediate life, which is not material, but spiritual. In every era, everyone will want to do something more meaningful, and everyone wants to, mainly to see if they have put it into action.
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Everybody is self-motivated and wants to live a meaningful life.
Meaningful and successful are not the same thing Meaningful people don't need to be unsuccessful to live a meaningful life.
Meaningful things are to help others, to care for others, to get the people being helped out of troubles, to get rid of troubles, to make the people being helped happy, to be happy.
Meaningful things are to insist on doing the right things, to let yourself live a life that you don't have to live, and to make your life meaningful.
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Pleasure and devotion, and so on.
How can we live for enjoyment? Don't pretend, admit it! Don't tell me about career and love, career is for making a lot of money, love is for hormones, it's all the joy of life; Not only that, eating, drinking, sleeping, playing, singing, playing and singing, playing piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, travel, photography, shopping, and consumption ......Which one is not for enjoyment?
Even animals know what kind of pain and sin it is to forage for food, to find mates, to take a nap and to have fun, and if people live without enjoyment. So, there's nothing to be ashamed of enjoying. You have to admit how noble it is:
Enjoyment, like air and water, is the pursuit and necessity of our life.
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This sentence is a question, and the main meaning is that we want to live a meaningful and hopeful life. Able to keep working hard and be able to have a positive attitude towards life.
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Everyone is eager to live a meaningful life, everyone is also eager to change their own circumstances through their own efforts, what we can do is to fight and struggle with all our might, and the rest of the success or not is a matter of course. Do your best to live and trust that the heavens will eventually give you a gift.
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Everyone wants to live a meaningful life, but sometimes life is too stressful
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Think, so study hard, exercise yourself, strengthen your heart, improve your ability, and practice the value of life.
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Everyone has a different understanding of "meaningful", and what you find meaningful may be boring for others.
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I never thought about not living, people who "don't want to live anymore" are very naïve people, because the world is so beautiful and life is so worth looking forward to.
That's the way it is in life, when you feel completely disappointed in life, you don't want to continue living, because you can't face it and don't want to face the next life of guessing.
If one day, when you are in a desperate situation, you no longer have expectations for the world and are full of despair in life. Don't be discouraged, believe that no one is an island in this world, there is always someone who cares about you silently, and there is always something worth exploring. Don't choose to give it all up easily.
Hopeful approach to life:
1. Adjust your mentality.
The first thing to do is to adjust the mentality, look at the frustrations in life positively and optimistically, and make it clear that setbacks are an indispensable step on the road to growth, everyone will experience setbacks, as long as they are brave to face them, setbacks will eventually be overcome.
2. Clarify your life goals and be a valuable person.
A worthless person can't see hope for life, so be a person with goals and try to realize his own value as much as possible.
3. Find your own interests.
Interest is the attitude and psychological tendency to explore something and a certain activity. People's interests and hobbies are becoming more and more abundant with the development of the times, and parents have signed up for various interest classes for their children since they were young to cultivate their children's interests and hobbies.
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I thought about it for a long, long time, what is the state of life and death, and whether there is a soul, but I gave up because I was an only child.
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Many people have thought that the lack of praise has nothing to do with wealth or poverty. But think about it the other way around, people travel around the world, eat and play everywhere, the city mountains, the sea, the planes, the ships, ......, I haven't been to see anything yet, it's too wronged, it's better to work hard and live a wonderful life.
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Didn't you think about it, because when you think of how old the child is, you don't dare to, and you are happy, but the child is affected by you, and the parents lose their children, and they are helpless, and it is possible that they will become beggars on the side of the road after the day is buried, do you want them to be like this.
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In fact, the pressure is too great, and the problem is solved alone—hope—dashed—hope—dashed—when the last little hope is disturbed and destroyed by the family—in the end, the only little flame of hope may be completely extinguished—the state will feel that everything is over!! To be alive is a joke! Really, just want to quietly leave - out of this world!
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What is there to think about, working as a worker, working soul, working to become a human being is your goal, don't you work hard?
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It may be that in recent times, as an individual, I feel that the pressure of work or study is relatively large, or I have encountered some difficulties and setbacks in the life of Shengzhi and friends, and I feel more decadent emotionally, in fact, it is not necessary to do this, we live in this society, there is no always smooth sailing, Xiaobei will encounter a variety of different things every day, which need us to deal with, we can not deliberately avoid, only in life continue to hone, so that we can become a strong person in life.
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I think so. If you're in good health, I don't think there's any need to want to leave, after all, it's better to die than to live. If you're not healthy, I understand that there's a saying that life is better than death.
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I guess everyone has thought about it, especially when they encounter difficulties.
But it's easy for us to rot and die, but it's hard to hide hail alive!
But we have to work hard to live, try to live better, let people know that you are living well, this is the meaning of our life!
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I thought about it, when I was in school, I had or was hearing impaired, and I faced the strange eyes of my peers and had communication barriers with others, which made me feel very inferior and psychologically stressed.
Later, I met pen pals, and they gave me sunshine, warmth, and slowly came out.
Even in the dark, there are always people who will give you sunshine. Live well, you are not afraid of death, are you still afraid of living?
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Why don't you live, life is beautiful!!
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I have never thought about not living, because it is not easy for people to live in the world, although they have experienced a lot of ups and downs in the Danqing Dynasty, but they must adjust their mentality.
Because life is beautiful in his later years.
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Everyone in life has a stage of pressure when the ruler is too big and the spirit is facing a breakdown, but I think you should work hard to make yourself happy, increase the circle of friends before moving carefully, not suppress your emotions for a long time, and relax appropriately. will get out of the predicament. Do not resist pharmacological intervention if needed**.
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I've thought about it, I've thought about it many times. But I'm still alive with this question.
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Hey man. I was already lying flat, and after lying flat, I realized that I had been living in other people's evaluations before. I only want others to affirm myself, but I have never affirmed myself, and I will be deeply disturbed.
Life is not so beautiful, but many things have not been seen, eaten and played, how can it be said that there is no meaning, at best, I haven't met the person who understands.
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Since others always leave you, it is always easy to misunderstand you and betray you, so why not make yourself strong and be your own strong backing, I am like this, I am a person with a particularly low emotional intelligence, and I don't know how to have a good relationship with others, but I will not hurt people, I will not do harmful things, nor will I cater to others and sloppy horses, I usually like to read books and think about problems, since social things are not done well, I don't care about it first, just do my own things at work, and do what I like, first make yourself happy, think about it, why are others happy and happy, but you have to be so miserable that you have to die, everyone has the right to live, death is definitely not your intention, live well to be worthy of yourself. Beg!
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Don't be sad, don't be gloomy, be patient in the days of misfortune, believe!
Happy days will surely come!
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Don't want to live anymore? Hello this friend, if you have any unhappy troubles, you may be able to help you, let's carry it together, don't think about it.
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Well, of course, there is, but the meaning of everyone's life is different, some are for themselves, some are for others, everyone has their own meaning of life, and everyone is not superfluous in society. Everyone has their own strengths, strengths, goals and aspirations.
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