Should I get angry, should I get angry, should I go on?

First of all, that girl is still so young, he is not sensible, plus you and your dad are a sudden "episode" in his life, so you don't have to worry too much about these, I believe that when she grows up, she will understand your father's love for her, she is a girl after all, you can rest assured, when she grows up, her attitude towards her father will definitely come to a 180-degree turn! I wish you a happy family!

If you dare to say that you love your father, I dare say that your sister loves your father too.

You can go against your father, or even with your hands. Can't your sister?

The first thing to understand is that you are now a family. This is important.

What can you make a 12-year-old understand? Let him go and help his mother cook and do your laundry?

She's still young, and she doesn't know how to be a person. In the future, you have to learn slowly and understand slowly.

I've got a trick, hehe. Brother learns this, it definitely works.

Children are innocent, you can use this to have a good relationship with him, make him feel that it is good to have an older brother, and then you can guide her to teach her life, teach her to honor her parents. The problem is solved.

If you don't understand something, you can continue to ask.

You're still young, your father doesn't want you to suffer so humbly in the eyes of your sister, work hard, don't let others look down on you, people have to bow their heads under the eaves, there is no wall that can't be climbed and there is no cut that can't be cut, come on... There is a loss and a gain, which increases the relationship between your father and daughter.

Maybe she is also in the rebellious period, and she can't accept your father yet, you don't have to be angry, it's not good for anyone, it's better to treat her like your father, one day she will understand.

Since a family is a family, what would you do if he was your own sister? Little girls will be a little rebellious.,Teach her as tolerant and patient as a sister.,I think she'll understand it over time.。

Impulsiveness is the devil, and there is something to say.

Seriously, there's no need for that, calm down.

Asked: "Teacher Zhou, what is the essence of this problem if you know that you can't get angry, or you can't control your anger?" ”

Answer: "It's normal to get angry, why can't you get angry?" You don't need to control it, and don't regret it after getting angry.

Your annoyance does not come from 'getting angry', but from regret, and the reason for regret is that you don't allow yourself to get angry at work.

After reading your article yesterday, you are good at reflection, which is commendable.

You don't allow yourself to get angry, and regret it after getting angry, which means that you are very demanding of yourself and a very good person.

But people have tempers, and getting angry is inevitable in life and work, and proper anger can indeed solve some problems. If Qiaomeng never gets angry and has a good temper, he may become a good person and be ignored by others, which may not be a good thing.

No one will get angry with Takano Bridge for no reason, and no one will never get angry. It is compassion to allow oneself to be angry, and it is also compassion to allow others to be angry. If you set yourself free, you can set others free.

You are not asking yourself to be a saint, and ordinary people are not saints, so everyone will get angry. Treating ignition as normal and allowing it to happen is not a problem at all. If you don't allow yourself to get angry with others, there will be inner conflicts and it will become a problem.

The real question is not the 'anger' thing, but our attitude towards it. 'Anger' does not hurt people or themselves much, but the inner conflicts that arise because of it can be very painful.

It's good to ask yourself to be 'always calm' and 'be reasonable'. But this is the realm of a saint, and ordinary people can't do it at all. The golden mean and the middle way are very important, and anything that goes too far will hurt you and hurt yourself.

Allow something to happen, and you won't notice it, and it won't affect you.

I think that no matter what kind of conflict occurs between lovers, it is useless to get angry, or should Bi Mingmeng calmly regret the bridge and think about how to deal with the contradictions between the two people. When the shield is solved, the fire gas naturally does not exist.

I think of the emotionally stable person in my family. First of all, the same beginning, my original family is a nest of artillery battles, one point to blow up, the family together is higher than the voice, than who blows up faster first who has the initiative, I have gone through a hard struggle, became the fastest person to bomb, and my voice and logical thinking ability definitely give me the upper hand.

The first quarrel I had with my husband was in the rental house, and I can't remember the specific reason, that is, I was alone in the state of a person**, he was there calmly looking at me, looking for an opportunity to appease me, but the more I talked, the more explosive, in the absence of opponents and nowhere to put my emotions, I was angry and rushed to the crown to simulate my mother's road to run away from home, at the moment when I opened the iron door and rushed out of the door, I was stopped and hugged, and was asked why you want to run away from home is your home? I should be the one who wants to go out! My brain suddenly stagnated, yes!

You should have run away from home, so you turned over and pushed him out, but the strength of the people was heavy, and after retreating a few times, my little flame was extinguished, and then the matter was over.

Another time I bought a new car, I drove to visit a customer, somehow I collided with other cars at the intersection, I was blinded, and the responsibility of the other car old driver was all deducted from me, I called ** to my husband, the first question: Are you okay? After confirming that it was okay, tell me to take a picture and then drive the car to the side of the road and stop and wait for him to pass, blind Bi didn't take long for him to drive over, negotiate with the driver, call the police to report the insurance and go home, from beginning to end there is not a word that says mine is not, if it is my parents must be so careless?

What are you doing, it's probably going to explode at the scene.

So I've slowly become a soft-spoken (occasionally a lion's roar), not arrogant or impatient, and a calm middle-aged aunt who solves problems seriously when she encounters anything.

Category: Annoyance.

Problem description: In communication, many people also want to communicate with you and do things in a friendly way, but there are still many people who lose their temper every day, and they feel that sometimes they have to lose their temper, such as feeling that they have been wronged, for example, others do not agree with your opinion, etc......Have you been in a similar situation? So when are you most likely to get angry? :)

Is it good to get angry? Not good, is it? Obviously, the result of the outrage is a lose-lose situation. Would it be nice if we could control our emotions before we get angry? It should be very good, right?

If we were to ask the question differently, would we get a different result? When we're angry, we're completely out of our minds, and I think everyone agrees, right?

If we change the question to this, how can we avoid getting angry? Is there a better one? Will we get the exact opposite?

When you are angry, think about the things that make you angry, are you getting more and more angry?If you thought of the way to avoid getting angry when you knew how to see our enthusiastic netizens in the dynasty before getting angry, would you have the idea of trying?If it works, wouldn't it be possible to avoid a frustration and save a relationship?

Isn't it better than regretting it later?