Is it necessary to open up and refute it? Actually, I m not confused!

It's important to use your shrewdness appropriately, and let him say what others think and say.

Just use it in the right place!

What others say, let them say it.

If there is an advantage, of course, it must be shown. Refute them with the most powerful words when they least expect it. Let them know who you really are. Perhaps, your home will be much calmer. Naturally, they will be impressed with you.

They are obviously ridiculing and bullying the weak and afraid of the hard, so that they can see your own strength, and what changes the image of your family is for you to attack yourself!

You can change what you want to say in a way that is anti-customer-oriented, so that they feel that the honesty in front of them is the patience of these people's face!

The key to this matter is to set up a good situation, first prepare the questions that should be told, first pretend to be very confused to make the opening remarks, they must be thinking "this stupid boy must be very stupid, he doesn't even understand these questions", and will definitely start his own big story again, because you have prepared in advance, so the content they talk about is absolutely under the content you prepare, and then while they talk nonsense, grasp a mistake or biased place, and hold on to it, and at the same time throw out their own views, and give them a surprise!

Be careful to ask several questions in a row on this issue, and make yourself the main character of the conversation and let the other person know that you exist! Your parents may advise you not to talk too much, but don't listen to them!

After you finish speaking, give the other party a step so that the other party can come down, which is generally a neutral answer, so that the other party knows that you are powerful, and can not find a reason to ridicule, and will not come to your house in the future!

Hehe, it's the same as me.

There is no need to refute.

It's a waste to be around these boring people and show your own savvy.

Why not wait until you're successful in the future, and make it more fun for them to be jaw-dropping.

Do you want to refute it? It's quite simple, peace and conflict are not one-size-fits-all, they are not a binary existence of black and white, and a dualistic view of the world and humanity is just prejudice.

Human beings, like most animals, are a contradiction of peace and strife, so it is impossible and contrary to heaven to demand peace for human beings in a clean manner. In my opinion, as long as human conflicts can be controlled on a local scale and do not bring society to a standstill, this is true peace.

Many of the problems were completely non-existent at that time.

You say that peace is difficult, and that's what it is, otherwise there is no need for everyone to talk about it all day long. But there is no need to say so much, it is all some specious reasons.

Using Zhou Yi theory to explain that black and white is absolutely wrong, Chinese always like this under the influence of traditional concepts, but they do not know that people are originally comprehensive and cannot be so simple to make conclusions. Peace? It is the best portrayal of the long time that it must be together, and the long time it must be divided, as for the reason, I think that if you have been with it for a long time, you want to be violent, and if you have been fighting for a long time, you want to be calm.

Hello friends, it's about your future, listen to me:

Are you sure you're talking about the future, not the "money"?

College is a great resource, don't waste it, it's true that there are some things in college that are useless to learn, and these are useless for you for the time being!

For example, if you want to build a building, you must first lay a foundation, and if your foundation is deep and wide, the building you build will be tall and large; If not, it won't be able to withstand the wind and rain, and it will soon collapse!

We have to learn a lot of things before we can understand it, such as in martial arts**, you have to know a lot of martial arts, you can stand on your own, Tai Chi Zhang Sanfeng...

Like you now, it is true that college is not the only way out, you can go into business and start a business, but what is your vision, why is the success rate of college students who start a business now low, because they do not have that experience, business experience is not enough, and you can make up for this lack in college now! Whether you would rather trade the money you put in for the lesson of failure, or go back when everything is ready, the success coefficient here is very different! You can look around and see bosses everywhere, but most of the people who go international are college graduates!

Friend, don't look at the present, you still have a long way to go in this life, design for your life, what is the meaning of your existence? I've thought about this question, you've asked, but you don't have an answer?

The material abundance of this world does not give us any happiness, but the spiritual high-rise is built on the material poverty, why ?。。

What we pursue is happiness, not money. How can we be happy ...

What college teaches us is how to study, which is different from high school, if you learn how to study, the day you go to society, you will learn a lot, absorb a lot, and what you see and hear will lay the foundation for your future career...

But all of this, the university can give you the answer, you can not go to class, but the library must not waste this resource!

Write down the questions you haven't answered yet and go to the library to find the answers!

What I can tell you is that when you solve this problem, there will be a higher level of problem that will stump you, and you will try to find your lost self with your heart!

Now is the time to read, read with your heart, to discover, don't come to the day of society, why didn't I think about these answers in the first place!

Make sure that you don't fail any homework in college, pass with 60 points, this is very simple, don't look for boyfriends and girlfriends the rest of the time, and make full use of the university's resources!

You know how stressful employment can be! 10,000 !!

If there is no good family! Estimated at 1,000 yuan, you will be very excited!

Let's learn honestly!

I used to have the same thoughts as you, and I can understand your current situation, and I have been failing almost all four years of college.

But I don't regret it now, you must have used university as a platform to learn professional knowledge, or to find a job in the future, if you are wrong, you can do a lot of things in college, and even try a lot of ideas. You can meet a lot of friends, and they will be your wealth in the future. You want to do business, you don't want to work, you can go into business in college, do it independently, without the help of your parents.

Go and exercise yourself.

In short, I would like to advise you, stay up for four years, and you will have a different feeling after graduation. You're only a freshman, and there are a lot of things you haven't experienced yet!

I advise you, be practical, don't be too high!

It's better to be realistic, that's the case in China right now, going to college isn't necessarily your only way out, but have you thought about it, what your parents would think if you didn't go to college. There will be many unsatisfactory things in business, and when the time comes, you will regret that you didn't study well in the first place, and it will be too late.

You can focus your life on accumulating experience, making friends, etc., to lay a good foundation for the future. Or don't drop out, Bill Gates' times are different from now.

If you really think so, you might as well drop out of school and go to work! If you are in business, you should plan well, and it is better to have the help of your parents to continue their projects, otherwise you must choose a good project if you start your own business! For people who are not interested in their majors and have wasted four years, I have really cut a lot, because this year is my senior year!

A diploma is just a threshold for finding a job, and the real job still depends on ability! However, the landlord does not choose to work for others, so he doesn't have to care about the diploma at all! Talk to your parents and teachers, tell them what you really think, and make them feel that you are really grown up and can stand alone!

Tell the truth: with your current conditions, low academic qualifications, bad grades, and no language scores, regular colleges and universities in the United States will not admit you at all, unless those pheasant universities that only want to make money, but your family's economic conditions are also average and you can't afford it.

But it's not too late for you to repent now, my advice to you is to take a postgraduate exam in China and mix it with a formal diploma, no matter how bad the domestic universities are, at least it can solve the disadvantages of your low GPA and college degree. There are still many excellent tutors in domestic universities, and you can learn a lot of things, which will help you to study abroad in the future, which is true. Foreigners also need to look at your research ability and achievements, not only GPA and language scores, especially science majors.

The acceptance letter in the United States is not possible there and does not let in unless you get a full prize or a half prize The half prize visa is already very difficult.

In this case, it's not interesting to go abroad, and you can't go to a good school, and now many agents recommend low-cost countries, such as Ukraine, Russia, of course, Russia is good, but studying there is more difficult than the third year of high school, and everyone who has been there knows that Russian is very difficult, and France is also relatively low, 100,000 a year, but the study of French should be based on English.

That's what I knew, because I'm going to go to the UK in the future, and I've researched that.

Hey, don't worry about it now I think the admission letter in the United States is unlikely to want that award, you have to work hard, don't be dissatisfied!

"Should you insist on coming back? Or should there be no such thing? Wait for him to take the initiative to bring it up? Or is there no such thing at all???

I don't think about my personality at all.

Whether he pays you back or not, whether he can pay you back or not, you should mention this matter to him. If he mentions him and doesn't return it, it proves that people like him are too unmanly, and if he mentions him, it's naturally best.

Whether you pay it back or not, you should talk to him. If you don't tell him about it, he'll think you're stupid! He might think to himself: She's so stupid to give me a camera for nothing.

How can you make him think you're stupid, no matter what, you have to talk to him about it.

This kind of thing will happen often ...

Come according to your own nature ...

If you want, why don't you, your own things, this is as it should be, it's not easy to say, but you can't be soft on such a person, if he was a good person, he would have returned you early,

You can talk to him about the camera, and you'll find a way.

This kind of person, the more you are good to him, if you feel embarrassed, the more embarrassed he feels, I have a classmate who borrowed my money and said that he would pay it back after the college entrance examination, but he didn't pay it back again and again, saying that he was not available or something like that, until now we are all going our separate ways, can he still pay it back, so take advantage of the time now to urge him no, or there will be no chance in the future, don't be embarrassed, how will he know your feelings, say it, your heart will be comfortable, talk about it,

What's not interesting I used to be like you when I was in school, and now I feel like I was stupid before, and I was embarrassed to just share.

When he took the initiative to mention it, it was probably not possible

If you want me to say, ask him what he can do.

But you can ask him tactfully.

For example, half-jokingly ask him, "Have you earned enough money for my camera?"

Actually, I am his word.

I'm sad too.

But after all, the camera was also bought in yuan.

It's not too much to ask him to return to 60%.

Let's talk about it, if you don't talk about him, maybe it! ~

To put it mildly, instant noodles are not very tasty! ~

Of course, if you are rich, forget it, if not, ask him to pay it back.

And rightfully so!!

Miss, in fact, the girl said such a thing, and as soon as she said it, she would immediately find a way.

Talk to him, it's better to say it to your face.

Unless this person is rubbish, they'll pay it back.

Men have their own dignity! ~

It's not a question of whether there is a need, it's not the point that he doesn't like him, it's that you like him. It's not that you deliberately feel sad and confused for her, it's that you can't keep yourself from worrying about her. There is no value or unworthiness or necessity.

You don't need to hurt yourself about this problem, you just need to let go of the troubles in your heart and stop thinking about him, and do more things to make you happy. Time may not completely overwhelm her, but it will dilute the sadness towards him!

Well, there's nothing unnecessary about that, as long as you think it's worth it.

If you really like it, then the other person is happy, and you will be happy, regardless of whether she likes you or not! But sometimes, don't be too stubborn, there is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower, come on, find true love.

A woman's choice of a boyfriend may be an investment...

You know the answer yourself, and the answer is in your heart.

It's just that you can't do it, so you're still sad and confused.

There are many things that don't have to be deliberately forced, when your own heart is tired to a certain extent, and it hurts to a certain extent, you will naturally let go, but do you feel the need to wait until you are so hurt?

There is no one in this world who cannot live without anyone, only whether you want to leave ...

Although she is not someone you like, sometimes you have to help when you need to. But all I can say is whatever.