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For the sake of the child, it is still necessary to maintain, you have a showdown with him, or you take the child back to his parents' house for a period of time, to see how he does it, if he can get lost, it will be better, isn't it, it is not particularly serious, it is recommended not to let the child grow up in a single family.
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Sometimes the relationship is like when we row a small boat left and right at the same time, and when the two of us work together, this time can move forward, otherwise it may be backwards, or spinning in place. No one is perfect, everyone can sit down and communicate once, once no, twice, three times,,, n times, and make a decision if there is no communication, it can be an invisible harm, no matter which party it is.
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There is no need to maintain it, because his love for you has long been discounted.
Making do with each other can only make each other more miserable.
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There is no need to maintain it, a woman has to love herself, a man like him, what's the use of asking him?
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Marriage is not just about money, see if your husband usually cares about you and your children;
Let's talk about it, tell him that you are disgusted with AA, ask him to give you his salary, open an account for the child's education, and you give him pocket money every month.
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1. If you still love him, then continue.
2 You go on for the sake of face.
3 You go on for the integrity of the family.
4 If you go on for the sake of the child.
5. If he has the intention of repenting, then consider forgiving him for once.
6. As long as you have the courage, this society can still find your true love and happiness.
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I may not be able to fully experience your complex psychology, but one thing is certain, if you don't have a harmonious family environment, this is very bad for the growth of children, why do you want to lend him money, you can choose to be separated from your husband for a while, and think about the future.
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Life depends on the husband and wife, to trust, but I have also had your problem, now I turn a blind eye to life is good, and he has not done anything to be sorry for me.
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When you and your baby need to be taken care of the most, but he is taking care of another woman with his heart, will this marriage be maintained?
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If you use "maintenance" to describe your current state of marriage and future development, then I don't think you need to maintain it. But if you ask, is it necessary to improve such marriages? I'm pretty sure of you:
It is necessary. Because it is much easier to improve the current state of married life than to give up the new choice.
If this is indeed the state you described, then you should think carefully about when your marital status began to become like this, and what caused it? I don't believe that your marriage is in this state of dissolution from the beginning, because such a state cannot enter into marriage, unless the focus of your needs is not emotional, but something else.
Since you can ask questions, at least it shows that you have a positive mindset about solving the problem, which I think is very important and a very good place to start. Since your description is too simplistic, it is difficult to give more specific suggestions to improve your existing relationship. But improving the relationship itself is not difficult, you just need to understand the other person's needs and then meet the other person's needs.
The deeper your inner needs are, the easier it will be to improve your current relationship. Therefore, only by observing and communicating with your heart can you find out that the other party's needs are in the first place, and then it is possible to meet him. Don't feel humbled and flattered because of this, emotional relationships are always a two-way street.
A healthy relationship between the sexes can satisfy both parties at the same time, and your efforts are not only fulfilling the other party, but also achieving yourself. It's really not that hard.
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Whether or not you want to continue your marriage depends on your own situation. If you feel that the marriage is still worth trying to make amends, then you should continue to maintain it. If you already feel that you have lost a talk about marriage, this situation can only be broken up by two people.
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If you go on, you will maintain, and don't blindly settle for it.
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It's not that there is no way to maintain it, but you have to adjust your mentality.
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Whether your marriage is worth maintaining or not is your own business, and it depends on how you approach your marriage. What you want, your mindset matters.
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