Blind date wife, betrayal, do you want such a wife

Updated on society 2024-06-10
46 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Your description is not very detailed, I can only give you some advice....Whether you are a money worshipper, whether you doubt her love for you, whether you love her, whether she is worthy of your love ......Once you understand the above questions, the problem is solved....

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You have all married and received certificates, and you still ask what do you want, and in addition, you just said some trivial matters between husband and wife, and there is no fact of betrayal, what does this have to do with betrayal?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You have to be responsible to each other!

    Judging by your question, your girlfriend isn't doing anything particularly excessive. Do you want that kind of love that "belongs to you"? If yes, I don't think you're very mature.

    Before you knew her, before you were sure if you could tolerate her, you got a marriage license with her, and then you started to doubt her again. From this point of view, I feel that you are betraying her because of your own dissatisfaction, and I hope that you will think carefully about your every decision and take responsibility for it like a man!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you don't care, you move on with your life. This kind of thing is ultimately decided by yourself, and others just give you advice.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The 3rd floor is so dramatic. This is the reality. There's no need to think about it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Think about what you can bring to her, too.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Since she has already gone on a blind date, what do you care about her, just dump it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Your wife went on a blind date behind your back, I think this wife is going to play a hidden imitation of "stove quotes". Why would she carry you behind your back? Did she suffer, did you ask her if she had? If she just wants to find another one, I think you'll let her go!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Apparently you are asking this question and are wanting! Isn't there a song that says that there is no one right or wrong in love? From her point of view, why is it wrong to find a better home? Because we feel betrayed because we are always used to thinking from our own point of view.

    In the end, if you don't want it, the key is to distinguish between your own heart and see the other person's heart. If you just like that. Lovers, husbands and wives, they all need each other's tolerance!

    It's up to her.,If she's just in love with boredom.,It's an unequal love from the beginning.。。 This kind of love, which is not reciprocated even if you give it, often hurts more than sweet memories! It's better to stay away!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    No. It's not certain if she'll betray again!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If it's before you're with her, then it's acceptable, and after you're together, then she doesn't have a little love for you, and I can give her freedom.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    He is also a very emotional person.

    Feelings aren't just sweet.

    And feelings are not pure and sacred, now you know.

    But you have to believe that there is still true love in this world, even if you are hurt, she just doesn't know how to cherish you and cherish this feeling.

    She's lonely, that's why, she can't stand being lonely.

    You love her very much, you can see it.

    So you choose to forgive her.

    But you have to get out of this setback.

    Life is bound to have ups and downs.

    But you're a man, it doesn't matter if you fall, get up and move forward.

    A digression.

    Don't look for a beautiful wife.

    The criterion for finding a wife should be good to her husband and be able to live a house.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Nabs. You're a man. Don't say it for a woman. That's unrealistic, it's nice to say, and few can do it.

    What to do for yourself. Ask if you've been working well lately. Is the body still as energetic as it used to be?

    Since I can't think about it, I'll put down this "Pimple" for the time being. Ask yourself, you have chosen to forgive her, why do you torture yourself, I don't know what industry you do. There are some things that can't be solved by common sense, so you can go off the rails.

    I believe you are not small, violence to solve problems, what is it? Kill 1000 and self-damage 800.

    The law doesn't matter what your purpose is. If murder is not illegal, I believe he is dead. But the key is to think twice. Then it's time to do something, and if there's something that makes you feel comfortable, do it. But there is a weight.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Friend, you've only been married for a short time, I think you'd better get divorced... After I watched it, I couldn't imagine that I couldn't bear the abortion, which was equivalent to that man nei she, my God... I can't stand it, I choose to divorce again, because you don't have children yet, and I can't accept such a thing after only 1 year of marriage.

    I'm revising it, friend, I really feel sorry for you, maybe it wasn't exactly what it was told to me, there may be other ways to solve it, and if your wife is truly repentant, I might talk to that man.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The Buddha said that letting go is happiness. But there are a few people who can really let go, and it is precisely because we are mortals that we can't let go. If you can't put it down, you can use the solution that you can't put it down:

    1. I really can't let go of it, although I still love her, but I can let go, I believe. Second, if you can't put it down, you don't have to hold it in your hand, just carry it on your shoulder! It's going to be a little better.

    It's also a good choice to take her with you a lot. I don't have a better way to tell you, I just hope you can be happy soon.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I also think it's better for you to leave, because you just got married, she was so unfaithful to you, try to ask your heart will not only be vigilant this time, rather than long-term vigilance is better to leave a hundred. Once infidelity is not tolerated a hundred times, no one will tolerate the wife who is sleeping next to him stealing a man behind his back, right, maybe you will wake up in fright in your sleep. ,, like the second floor said that the man was talking about a fart.

    The knife didn't cut on himself, of course he didn't say it hurt You have only been married for a year, I really feel sorry for you!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    lz If you love him. And he promised not to make the mistake again. You can choose to take her slowly.

    If you don't love her, get a divorce early. There are many betrayals that cannot be avoided in life. But seeing your post, I feel like you still love her.

    No one is talking about that. It's up to you to think about it. What do you say?

    I wish you happiness in the future.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you can't continue to endure it, let's quietly agree to divorce as soon as possible. If you really like her, why not give each other a chance to save it. In short, don't leave yourself with life regrets!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Look!! Saddened! But I don't know how to help you. The main thing is to see what you think, if you really love her, give her a chance. But you need a long time to recover.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Huh....Brothers, look at the point, people are not saints and sages, who can make no mistakes! If she still doesn't change, I advise you to divorce! Women are woe to water.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    What do you say, you are really a good husband, your wife's betrayal is completely because of the need for sex, there is nothing spiritual, I still care about your life, it's just that when a man is gentle with himself, he softens the desire that he can't control, but because of the physical betrayal, it's hard to accept, he knows who is good and who he loves, but the behavior destroys your trust in her, and there will be a shadow after forgiveness, but in this world, there are too many such hookups, but the one in the family doesn't know, so if you love, you will be together, I only value you in the future and don't want to mention the past.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Unforgivable. Judging from the fact that you attach so much importance to this matter, it can be seen that you are a good man and will never betray your wife. But now your wife has betrayed you.

    If you're barely together right now. There will be no happiness in the future, and the shadow in my heart will never be erased. Divorce is good for both of you.

    Go and start your own new life!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Let's go. If you don't suffer for a lifetime. Once there is a second time.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If you still can't cross the hurdle in your heart, just divide it, don't force yourself. If you think her future is your future, and you are sure that you have you in your heart, then pass it. Don't push yourself.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You are a filial son, but how should your parents think about the problem from your point of view, this marriage is not in a hurry, you have only been talking for a month, how can you understand each other?

    If you are married and 2 people live together for a lifetime, can your parents live with you for the rest of your life?

    If you haven't thought about it, don't get married, do you know why the divorce rate is high now Many of them are flash marriages, which feel very important, especially blind dates, how do you need time to understand everything about each other, and you don't take appearance so seriously, girls must be able to have a kind heart, know how to respect the old and love the young, be reasonable, and don't judge people by appearance.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It's a headache to look at your posts. In the end, a figure came out.。。。

    Blind date, it's good if the first impression is not annoying. Then you need to understand her personality and whether her temper is suitable for being her wife. In the end, it depends on myself and whether I can always think about her.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It's hard to find, it's too old.

    It's not particularly good, and the monthly salary is only 3500

    If you have a monthly salary of 7,000, it will be easy to find.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Since you're over thirty, you should find a man with stable and responsible conditions, after all, you don't have much time to explore, right?

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Yes, yes, it's good to be kind and loyal to love.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It's not too demanding, it shouldn't be difficult.

    If you're not looking for a bachelor's degree, you might be able to find a handsome guy, and the height is in line with you, and the income may not be right, I think.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Your monthly salary is not bad, your school status is okay, and your requirements for boys are not high, I hope you find a !! soon.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Hehe, if you don't care about appearance very much, I think people's temperament is very important, and the personality should be in tune.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Look at fate, your conditions are very good.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It is recommended to participate in more self-guided tours and the like.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Hello, first of all, you have to think about what kind of purpose you have such thoughts, and secondly, you have to think about what you will do if your wife cheats on you. Find out the reason and the problem will be solved.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Because she betrayed you, you can separate from her, or you want to betray and give yourself a reason.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    I wonder if you have a loved one in your heart, or have you betrayed your wife, and your wife has been using this matter to blackmail you or make you unable to hold your head up, or do you want to find an excuse for divorce?

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Let's not talk about anything else, let's see a psychiatrist!! This is not a normal state of mind.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    The big man, relax your heart, just smoke a few packs of good cigarettes and drink a few bottles of good wine, not to mention that this is also an investment in happiness, of course, investment is risky, you need to be cautious in case of trouble, which is also understandable!

    How long have we been together! Let's take another look! Good luck!

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    In fact, you already have the answer in your mind.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Just ask her how she feels about you.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    I think the key is to see if you have feelings for her, and if so, come more violently!

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Don't force yourself on marriage events, raise questions in your heart, don't guess every day in your heart, don't ask the introducer, ask her what she thinks, don't call to say goodbye early.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    If you have a child, this man has no sense of responsibility, and if you don't have children, flash it early.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Since he has betrayed you again and again! I just didn't put you at ease! Such a man is also hurting himself when he comes back! A man with gorgeous pants turned around. Maybe your happiness is not with him! Learn to give up, if you can't get love, you always have to get some dignity!

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    It's not worth betraying this kind of person all his life really.

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