Tell me why you don t speak.

When I am happy or sad and sad, and I want to share with others and find someone to talk to, I realize that people cannot fully understand each other after all, everyone is an isolated individual, and empathy only exists in the imagination. So, I don't speak. When I am arguing with others, I feel that although communication and dialogue have the hope of resolving the differences in people's thinking, I am afraid that they cannot solve the differences in people's minds, and communication cannot solve the problem of conflict after all.

So, I don't speak. When I was furious and furious, I was always hesitating to say or not to speak, after all, words are like knives. So, I don't speak.

Why speak when your mouth is meaningless? The world is too noisy and we need to listen to ourselves.

Sometimes I feel that the other party is too strong, and I silently calculated the time it would take to argue in my heart, and finally I felt that it was better to forget it, and I didn't plan to win against the other party anyway, so there was no need to speak. Sometimes I feel that speaking out doesn't solve any problems, and a bunch of people comfort and comfort them, so it's better not to say it. More often, I still think, forget it, say it and lower your IQ.

Because I feel that I am different from most people around me, they like to discuss topics, things that are interesting, I am not very interested, sometimes a thing is actually very simple, but some people like to complicate, and I like to be silent, silent because some things do not want to be said, and no one listens carefully when they say it, and they will not understand it if they listen, and they are used to being silent, for many years, all the feelings are digested by themselves, such as people drinking water, cold and warm self-knowledge, and I don't expect someone to understand me, I don't know myself, I don't know if there will be someone who will make me want to talk to him one day, maybe I've been lonely for too long and forgotten that I'm like this.

Because there is nothing to say. Firewood, rice, oil, salt, chicken, dogs, and bits and pieces of chicken and dog are boring when they sound, let alone discuss, and they are meaningless. Seeing that the people next to him were laughing or discussing because of this boring thing, I felt that I couldn't understand.

It's clearly a particularly boring thing, what is there to say. Of course, all of the above is with most of my colleagues. If you talk to your friends, whether you talk or not, there will be a comfortable atmosphere spreading all around, and it doesn't matter if you say it or not.

The most important point is that I am afraid of saying the wrong thing, which may be related to the various rules of my parents since I was a child, my parents asked me to do what they thought was right like an adult, so that I became very timid and worried about doing anything for fear of offending people, and the only way to respond to others who did something sorry for me was to ignore the face and not comment, I don't want to stick to your nothing. And then I sulked there, because I think sometimes it becomes hypocritical to talk too much. Then slowly I will become a taciturn person, after a long time, I will feel that my language logic has become very poor, what I say in my mouth is much worse than what I think in my heart, I become more and more introverted, not cheerful at all, and over time I will slowly feel that others are alienated from me, and my heart will be cranky, causing timidity, afraid that others will say bad things about me, and I start to cycle and don't want to speak.

If one person sues as usual, who wants to pretend to be cold all his life. In the crowd, it's not pretending to be cold, it's not social fear, it's just that who is really listening to what is said, everyone only cares about what they say, so what is the difference between what I say and don't say, anyway, it's just some gossip. I've never liked to talk to people.

It's not that there's nothing to say, it's that you don't dare. I am afraid that I will tell you all my sorrows and joys, and that one day you will go away and take all that I have, leaving me alone. That being the case, it is better not to say it.

If I am fortunate enough to find a person to accompany me for a lifetime, then I may become a chatterbox.

I always have to carefully scrutinize whether there are any loopholes in the sentence I want to say before I speak, whether there is a place where people can find the handle, I am afraid of being caught by the handle, I cherish my feathers too much, so I put myself in a silent state, thinking that I can maintain a safe and stable distance from others, so in one fierce argument after another, almost everyone around me is conveying their three views to others, trying to win recognition with their own opinions. And I, I'm often the one who wants to talk the most but barely speaks.

I feel like I just don't want to talk, and if I meet someone I'm interested in, I may be a chatterbox, but if not, I'm just a silent shadow, and I can almost ignore my ......Because I don't want to please others, and I don't want to pull down my face with others. But in China, only if you speak well, the leader will think you are good......

This is directly related to the fact that your parents are usually busy with work and have too little communication with you.

Because you don't have the opportunity to exercise your eloquence, you develop an introverted personality with low self-esteem. Let yourself speak without confidence, and become more and more afraid to speak.

Introversion is the enemy of communication and socialization with others. It has a big impact on whether your life goes well or not! Therefore, for the sake of your own future, you must completely correct your introverted personality. Speak up and talk to others!

You just need to pay attention to the following points to correct the introverted personality:

Be mindful of everything you can to boost your self-confidence. For example, actively participate in recreational and social activities, and boldly express yourself at every opportunity. Show off your talents.

After a few times, you will understand that you are not worse than others at all. Even if there is a gap between yourself and others, you can surpass others through active efforts! Your inferiority complex is gone!

Learn to make friends and make a few more cheerful bosom friends. Chat with them often, and you will be infected, and you will become lively and outgoing.

When your introverted personality is gradually changed, you should always remind yourself not to be self-contained. Continue to maintain and consolidate the new positive, open and lively personality that you have gradually cultivated. Let yourself completely come out of your introverted personality!

This depends on the above situation, if you don't want to talk regardless of how much water you drink. You can be autistic, but you still have to communicate with everyone more, if you just don't want to talk to some people, then this is okay.

In the same way, talking too much is nonsense, and men should be silent.

What do you want us to say? You are, why don't you talk about specific issues, let's fight you believe it or not?

I feel bitter in my heart, and I don't know what to say.

What do you want to do? Hahahahahaha

Because I have suffered a lot of losses.

once said the wrong word at the wine table and was poured more than a pound of liquor.

I once hurt a friend because I said the wrong thing.

Once because of the wrong sentence, he left a bad impression on the leader, which had a great impact on his future work.

Many times, language is the sharpest knife. Some people use it to eliminate violence and peace, some people use it to rob homes and houses, some people use it to protect conscience and justice, and some people use it to harm others. I'm like a clumsy knife man, and after scratching myself several times, I'm just going to let it sleep in its scabbard.

I spent the first half of my life learning how to speak, and it took me so long to learn how to shut up. <>

Lao Tzu said: "It is better to keep the middle than to talk too much." He also said: "A light promise must be untrustworthy." ”

Confucius said: "Eat without speaking, sleep without speaking." He also said: "If you don't say what you do, you don't tell you what you do." He also said: "Hear more and be suspicious, and be cautious about the rest." ”

The Buddha said: "There is silence without birth, and there is silence without extinction; The realm of Nirvana is far away from all sufferings, and it dwells forever, without birth and without destruction, so it is called silence. ”

Xu Guanjie sang: "There is justice in right and wrong, be cautious and don't offend others." Leslie Cheung sang: "Confidence is full of irony and questioning." ”

Sima Qianzai: "It's better to get **100, it's better to get Ji Bu Yinuo." Again: "Words must be believed, deeds must be fruitful." ”

Tang Seng Ri: "Wu Neng, I am cautious!" Sincerely! Sha Seng Ri: "Second Senior Brother, you (fucking) just say a few words." ”

Liu Bei said when he was young: "I must take this Yubao to cover the car." Uncle Liu Zijing reproached and said: "Don't lie and destroy my door!" So Liu Bei, who became an adult, was speechless, good at people, and his joy and anger were invisible.

Sun Tzu said: "The prophet shall not be taken from ghosts and gods, nor from things, nor from the degree, but from people, and those who know the feelings of the enemy." ”

The elder said: "There is an old saying in China that makes a lot of money in a muffled voice, and it is best not to say a word. He added: "I have nothing to say, and I will naturally express my position when the time comes." ”

This is just the philosophical experience of Chinese people in the past dynasties, always beware of others digging a big hole, know it or not! <>

Some people are born with such a personality, they love to talk, they are good rulers, they have good language skills, sometimes they say some nonsensical things but they are lively, they talk to others freely, they can say whatever they want, and they are loved by the public. You don't have to be verbose when talking to these people, just open your throat and put it!

Some people are naturally more introverted, don't like people, although sometimes crazy, but their hearts are as quiet as a lake, these people have more elusive personalities. These people are often the seeds of thinkers, speak to them more naturally, don't be quiet, and bring them up, because their ideas are like a surging river, and when they say it, they are articles. But don't offend them.

Some people make themselves not like to talk for some reasons, pretending to be, thinking that they are mature and noble, but in fact they are not much better, maybe there are also very powerful ones, but in fact, they all want to say it out loud. When talking to them, be focused, don't say stupid things, open your own left brain, and everyone will communicate knowledge.

Some people don't talk much because they have a good impression of you and are shy, which is inexplicable.