Why don t today s parents understand us???

Don't talk back to your parents, quarrel, they are also for your own good, the happiness of your children is their greatest wish, maybe they think that the big city has great opportunities for development, it will be good for you in the future, you have to calmly tell them the reason why you don't want to go, they will understand you.

First of all, Beijing has Beijing's good and its bad, every place is like this, there are good lives and bad lives, so what kind of job to find is not in what place, it depends on personal ability, in small broken places, there are also rich people, no matter how big the city, there are also begging along the street, there are also those who have eaten the last meal, and there are many good companies in the provincial capital, and the treatment is not bad, not worse than going to Beijing.

Also, if you don't have relatives or friends in Beijing, you will be very stressed alone, especially when looking for a job, you will feel very helpless, if you are a girl, you will feel more tired, and you have to be careful when you go out.

Parents want to have a good future for you, but you have to tell them that the future is your own creation, and that if you work hard, you will be productive.

Since you don't want to go, you must persevere, reason with your parents slowly, and then find a job as soon as possible, which feels good, so that your parents will feel relieved, and I guess they won't keep urging you.

Another way is that you first promise your parents to go to Beijing to develop, but not now, you have to tell them that you need experience to find a job now, and it's not too late to go when you have experience, so that you can slow down if you don't say anything, and you won't keep talking about you, and you can find a good job to settle down, and then work hard to make achievements, so that the parents won't say anything anymore, they will feel that the child has really grown up, and they will also feel that your persistence and your choice are right.

Anyway, don't make your parents sad No matter what, maybe they're a little stubborn, but it's all for your own good, don't keep saying that they understand you, you also have to understand their painstaking efforts, and they are reluctant to let you go on your own Who doesn't want to see their children every day.

Are you male or female? Don't die at every turn. Tell your parents that you have the right to choose. Otherwise, you won't be happy for the rest of your life.

1. Understand the parent's growth environment. What is their upbringing and family background like, so you can understand why they do what they do.

2. Talk to your parents deeply and calmly. Don't get angry, hold back your temper, and listen patiently to whatever the other person says.

3. Understand parents from the side. That is, to understand parents and other people from their conversations. Parents may be hard-mouthed and reluctant to tell their children that they are at fault, but they can understand what they think from conversations with others.

Fourth, when you become a parent, you will understand their psychology. Raising children knows the kindness of their parents.

5. Ask someone to persuade your parents to find out what they really think.

6. Put yourself in their shoes and consider what you would do if you were them. That way you'll get to know them.

7. Go into their lives. Get to know their classmates, colleagues, relatives and friends, and everything will be clear.

Think about it, do you understand your parents? You ask this to show that you don't understand your parents either, so don't always expect others to understand you, we have to try to understand others and stand in other people's shoes. If your heart is selfless, then you won't feel that others don't understand you.

Open your heart to others.

So will you understand your parents? What if we only focus on ourselves? We don't have a language barrier, but we always hurt our loved ones for some trivial emotions, if we can talk about it calmly? Eliminate the concerns of the elders? Watching your own words and deeds?