Help me think about my child s future. 30

This matter should be communicated with the child well.

Ask him what he thinks Don't impose your own ideas on your child.

You may think it's a good thing, but it's not necessarily what you want for your child.

So communication is the key to getting your child to open up and speak their minds.

If the child is sensible, it means that the child must be very kind and can understand the painstaking efforts of the parents.

Therefore, parents must also understand their children's thoughts.

The body is thin, if it is not the reason of the body, eat more nutritious, the child is the second year of junior high school, and the body is still growing, and he can't make do with eating.

In addition, there must be a reason why you don't like to study I don't know if you have asked him Be sure to find a way to let him say what he really thinks If the child wants to do something not too much, you should let him do it, but at least he must graduate from junior high school If possible, let him continue to go to school After all, knowledge is very important You can't do it because the child doesn't want to go to school It is not for his good Sometimes it is also very difficult to be a parent But you must first find the key to the problem Know that the problem lies in order to better solve the problem Don't be in too much of a hurry either, take your time.

The first thing to do is to take care of his body, now is a very important time to grow his body.

Then make sure he doesn't learn badly.

It doesn't matter what he likes or is good at, the key is whether he is learning with his heart.

Academic qualifications still have to be mixed.

Frankly tell you, your son's poor study is directly caused by the divorce of your husband and wife, there must be a big shadow in the child's heart, in fact, the most important thing is to communicate with the child more, ask his ideals, chat more to understand the son's inner world; In fact, you should first take the high school exam, and then take the university exam, no matter what, you have to train the child to become a talent, since you are raising the child, you should take on the obligation, usually care more about him, it doesn't matter if the exam is not good, the key is to have a good attitude, in fact, junior high school, high school that little thing is not difficult, as long as you study hard, how can you not learn, the key is to be sad all day long, do nothing can not be motivated, so you can't do anything well. The child is well-behaved and sensible, that is your blessing, such a good child is afraid that there will be no way out in the future! Take a look at "Yangtze River No. 7", the migrant worker's father let his child study in an aristocratic school, so that he can be a useful person to the society in the future, what a great father's love!

If the child does not understand your hard work, don't scold the child, you have to be reasonable, it is estimated that your child is also more introverted, remember not to beat and scold the child, which is not good for his growth!

That's all, I hope to serve as your reference!

I'm the type! Let me talk about my thoughts, I just don't like to study, and then I didn't get in, but I studied technology! And he studied very well and ranked first in the class!

Mainly the encouragement of parents and the love of the profession! Be sure to pay attention to his studies! Don't let him waste his studies, I have that in my class.

Throw him a basketball first! Then tell him to learn whatever he likes! It's very simple, and now many technician jobs are very lacking in talents! It's not easy for college students to find a job! See what your son is suitable for!

Let him learn a profession, so that he will not be idle all day long, otherwise children of this age will easily learn badly.

Learn a skill, be down-to-earth, and persevere!

Ask him what interests him

First of all, education should start from understanding and understanding children, strengthen emotional exchanges with children, and establish good family interpersonal relationships. To understand is to understand the child's personality, interests, hobbies, and what he thinks in his heart, what he usually does, and what kind of people he interacts with. To understand is not to ignore the role of the child in the family, and to have a place for him to express his opinions in the family, and not to say "what the child understands".

Their views should be listened to in matters of the family, and the democratization of the family should be built, that is, the rights and status of each member of the family should be respected. Respecting the rights and status of children at home is not blindly pampering and pampering children, and placing them in the status of "little emperors". Obeying children is not respect, it is doting.

Second, education should be taught by example rather than by words. In the family, children grow up under the influence and education of their parents, and grow up in the understanding of the world around them, and their parents' attitudes towards life, career, life and others have an important impact on children. Therefore, parents should constantly improve their own quality.

Children's family education, parents should lead by example, the child is still young, you teach him whatever reason, he will learn the same, don't think that the child is still young and feels that nothing matters, every child is the future flower of the motherland, to cultivate well.

For his own children, he must give him all the clothes and food that he is not willing to use. The child will always be the first in the hearts of his parents, hoping that he will have a healthy body and that he will be happy from childhood to adulthood. A carefree life.

I want to raise my child to be a person who knows how to live, is not burdened by life, and can make some contributions to society, and when he is old, he can feel that his life is worthwhile, and that's it!

There are also routines for educating children. Wise parents will let their children fall in love with one thing unconsciously, and then, step by step, guide her to fight for it.

For every parent who doesn't want their children to become dragons and phoenixes in the future, but how to do it well? In fact, we can start cultivating children's hobbies from an early age, and then slowly discover their interests. When he grows up, remind him to develop towards that convenience and guide him to the right path.

First of all, treat him well, every time he needs something, he will seriously ask him if he really has to do what the reason is, and then let him choose what he wants to do or decide for himself, such as going to the movies or going to the zoo, you ask him, you want him to choose whether to go to the zoo or the movie, don't talk casually or think about it by himself, give the child his own choice, so that he will grow up and have his own opinions, unlike me, the first reaction is to ask others instead of thinking about himself.

For my own child, in fact, I don't have high requirements, I think he can be safe, healthy and happy, just live this life, he doesn't need to be too good, anyway, it's good to be healthy and healthy, and spend his life peacefully.

If you want to have a good family environment, first of all, my other half and I can't have any influence on him, and secondly, we must cultivate it according to his personal hobbies, not forced to learn something, but also not too relaxed about him, and cultivate his correct life values, not too narrow-minded.

A study in the United States found that in an atmosphere of family disharmony, children's physical and mental health will be harmed, and personality defects and psychological problems will appear, and even suicidal tendencies will be more serious. A study in the United States found that:

In an atmosphere of family disharmony, the child's physical and mental health will be harmed, and personality defects and psychological problems will appear, and even suicidal tendencies will occur.

Educate the child well, let him become an independent and capable person, I will save some money for him every year, accumulate over time, and I may be able to help him in the future, but I will not tell him at present, save more, it is best not to become a burden to the child in the future, I don't want the child to be embarrassed by his parents, do not drag the child, even if I can't help him, but try not to drag him down!!

I will work hard to earn money, not only to lay a good material foundation for my children's life, but also to set a positive and hard-working example for my children, focusing on learning and education. In today's society, knowledge is the most important, and it can change the fate of people's lives. Only by forming good study habits from an early age, loving reading, and loving research, can we accumulate and master more knowledge, lay a good foundation for primary school, junior high school, high school and even university, complete their studies, and achieve their goals in life.

The hope of the child is given by the parents, and the son is not the fault of the father, so as a parent, you must be good at discovering the strengths and advantages of the child, guide in many ways, communicate with the teacher more, and find out what he is interested in. Once discovered, then, the investment will achieve unexpected gains, and the child will be grateful to you, I believe, parents want their children to be successful! Then go for it!

As parents, we all want the best for our children, both materially and spiritually. Parents are the first teachers of children, in daily life, parents' words and deeds have a direct impact on children, in addition to doing their best to give children a good material life, but also to establish correct life values for children and cultivate children's good habits and motivation to learn knowledge. Let children understand the importance of knowledge and cultivate children's independence.

I am now a parent of two children, I believe that every parent wants to do something for their children, I am an ordinary person, what I hope to do for my children at the moment is to earn more money, buy a house for my children, and I can have a better life for my children in the future

Of course, I did my best to care for him, educate him, and support him, but of course I couldn't get used to him, so that he could become an independent and brave child, at least better than myself.

Look at what the child likes, don't deliberately put some pressure on him, and slowly discover what the child is good at.

I was very inspired by reading the book "The Growing Years of Yang and Others". In particular, Chapter IV and. Chapter 4 is about Yang and others' parents, who have been urging Yang and others to study and study again since Yang and others entered the third grade.

Yang and so on are no longer as easy as in the first and second grades. It makes her not want to grow up and want to be a stupid kid hail leak. That's right, most of the classmates in Xunxila's life don't want to grow up, if you don't grow up, you don't have to do endless homework all day long, and you don't have to care about grades and rankings if you are a stupid child.

In the fourth chapter, Yang and her friend Effie are playing with mushrooms, which just shows that making mushrooms in children's hearts is easier than that of elementary school students, mushrooms only need to grow up quietly, and they don't need to fight for anything desperately, what they care about, as long as they grow up. And students are different, every time we take the exam, our parents tell us to be sure to take the first place, and then review desperately, copy the test paper if we fail the exam, and review more desperately next time we do the exam.

Now I'm in the sixth grade and I'm facing the first turning point in my life. They all said that I should study harder, and told me every day to read, learn phonetic transcription, and learn rhetorical devices. It is said that it is to reduce the burden on parents, so who will reduce the burden on our parents!

I don't know if you have noticed that there is no mu slipping on the child's right hand, there is always a small bag bulging on one finger, which should have accumulated for years of writing.

We are all children and should not bear too much, please think about it for us.