My parents are going to divorce, and they don t want me anymore

Must be lonely.

It's sad. Be strong.

Although they are not with you anymore.

At least they're still there.

You're kind of a relative.

20 years old: I should be an adult.

It should be independent.

We can't control our parents' affairs.

You don't want to cast a shadow on you because of their affairs.

You have to live well.

Do your own thing.

Make more friends. Be kind to others.

That way you won't feel alone.

Although it hurts you to do this.

But don't blame them.

Maybe they have their own difficulties.

Even if you can't be considerate of them.

But don't hate them.

Be sure to live well.

Let's open it.

20 years old, learn to be independent in life, parents can't want you completely.

Live well.

Financially, they shouldn't ignore you until you can start a family.

Damn, like me, ten thousand people are idle

Let's find a partner and get closer

Don't you want to talk to your friends about this kind of thing? Miserable!! me too

When you grow up, you have to learn to take care of yourself, and you can't live under your parents' wings all your life.

You're also older, I'm talking about this kind of thing, my parents are also divorced, why am I fine.

Summary. Hello dear, both parties do not want children in the divorce, then it can only be handed over to the court for a judgment, or the agreement is that custody belongs to one party, and then it is raised by one of the parents, but both husband and wife need to pay child support. But doing so is not good for the child's development.

If the negotiation fails, it can be submitted to the court for a judgment, and both parties can submit some evidence that it is more conducive to the healthy growth of the child to be raised by the other party, and the court will make a judgment according to the specific circumstances and the provisions of the law.

Well. Hello dear, both parties do not want children in the divorce, then it can only be handed over to the court for a judgment, or the agreement is that custody belongs to one party, and then it is raised by one of the parents, but both husband and wife need to pay child support. But doing so is not good for the child's development.

If the negotiation fails, it can be submitted to the court for a judgment, and both parties can submit some evidence that it is more conducive to the healthy growth of the child to be raised by the other party, and the court will make a judgment according to the specific circumstances and the provisions of the law.

Well. If you miss your mother, talk to your mother, and talk to him when you miss your father, because adults always have their reasons for divorce, as children understand them and give them blessings, divorce is sometimes the best choice for two adults. As for you, just do your own thing, read good books, learn skills, don't give up on yourself because your parents are divorced, that's the stupidest idea.

Love yourself well, love your parents well, no matter who you live with, just be yourself.

I'm sorry to hear that. I recommend that you seek professional counselling that can help you deal with your emotions and emotional issues. In addition, you can seek the support and help of relatives and friends to ensure that you have a safe and warm home.

The most important thing to remember is that divorce does not mean that your parents do not love you very much, and they may be going through their own difficulties and challenges. Although it is difficult, try to understand their situation and be open and respectful.

Parents are the proud teachers of their children, and their words and deeds play a decisive role in the growth of their children, so as parents, they should give their children the power of role models and establish correct values and outlook on life. Everyone has some shortcomings of one kind or another. Or what you think is wrong in your eyes.

Perfect. If the requirements are always particularly high in all aspects. Then you may not be able to meet the right person for you in this life.

Actually, when looking for a partner. First of all, measure yourself. What is excellent in all aspects and what is not.

Don't blindly strive for perfection in the other person. I am not perfect, why don't I want others to be perfect. No matter what reason parents cannot be with their children for a long time, they should pay attention to the cultivation and communication of feelings with their children.

Let children feel the warmth of home and feel the love of parents for their children. Parents can try to spare as much time as possible to accompany their children, to reason with their children, parents have no doubt about their children's feelings, unconditionally love their children, raise children, provide children with the best possible living conditions and educational resources, so that children can grow up freely, and then hope that children can have a good life. Between parents and children, between brothers and sisters, it is because of blood that the relationship will become so delicate, although there will be some contradictions, but because of the existence of blood, a lot of efforts do not ask for returns.

Some children may be born more withdrawn and unwilling to deal with others, this is because their personality is more introverted, so parents can help their children build interpersonal skills, and they can also let their children participate in some school speech classes to help children effectively receive everyone. Due to the lack of family care and education, children will have a sense of loneliness, insecurity, inferiority, etc., and constantly strengthen their sense of independence in helplessness, while self-awareness is also quietly enhanced, and the basic life knowledge and concepts instilled in general family education will also be questioned and even mutated with the enhancement of self-awareness, and then there may be a weakening of communication ability. These may affect future work and life.