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We have all watched the TV series "Ode to Joy", and both of them are salaried people and do not belong to the rich level, but there is a big difference in mate selection, why did Ying Qin look for Qiu Yingying and Dr. Zhao find Xiaoqu? Because Ying Qin has no self-confidence and wants to find someone he wants to control, and Dr. Zhao has a big vision, he is looking for true love, so your brother's mate selection criteria should be his own inner choice, not a problem you think.
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If you are married, then you must know these questions, if you are not married and you are a woman, then you will also know that if you are not married and you are a man, you should also know the answer to the question after years of education.
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First of all, if your brother gets married, first of all, you must have clear rules and clear views, you must look at his ideas, and your whole family must help him check the gates, this thing is a problem that everyone thinks about together and understands each other.
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It's true love, don't think about it, who doesn't have a past, who hasn't met a few scumbags and scumbags.
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Congratulations on your brother's happy wedding.
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Shouldn't you congratulate him at this time?
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You should be happy for him.
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If it's a **doctor, you can see it when you open it. Otherwise, don't think about it. The ancients invented a bunch of messy methods, such as walking postures, leg positions, etc., which are all unreliable after modern medicine.
The big waves wash the sand, and it can be seen that there is really only one way to do this.
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You've been married for 6 years, and your brother has been living with you, so who does he live with if he doesn't live with you? Because you are a soft persimmon, because you are a good sister, because he has been living with you, you don't ask for it.
So in your description, your parents are **? If he doesn't live with his parents, he has a house of his own, why don't he live in his own house and rent it, then he is very calculating and very shrewd, what have you been doing for so many years, I thought you wanted your brother to live with you for a lifetime, I think you like your brother to live with you very much, otherwise how can you endure it for 6 years so long, and it is 6 years before you got married, you were not married before, and your brother is in school.
But whether your brother is an adult or not an adult, or he is already financially independent, you have not described this clearly, if he is not an adult or is quite young, and needs your care, then you can't live with him, but if he is already a full adult, already working, and still living with you, and has lived with you for so many years, then it is purely your problem, then it is not your brother's problem.
You must be describing your brother's problem, he has been living in your house, but I want to say that this is purely your problem, is he unable to fight and leave?
He has lived in your house for so long, his problems don't need to be said, and it can be seen that there are many problems with a clear eye, but if you tolerate these problems, then these problems will be transferred to you, it is not his fault, he is stupid, he is paranoid, he is shrewd and calculating, he has been living in your house, taking out his house for rent, then are you willing to tolerate it, or do you say that he handed over all the money for renting a house to you, so he lives with you with peace of mind, these things you have not described clearly, You simply say this, giving us the impression that you are very cowardly, and you can't endure it all the time, so he doesn't bully you and bully anyone.
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You can tell your brother that it's really inconvenient for your brother to live with you.
Besides, he has his own house, let him move back home.
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It seems that your brother is used to living with you, and this situation should let your parents and your brother have a good talk, after all, you are married and have your own life, and your brother is a little inconvenient to live with you again, in addition, your brother is not without a house.
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Your brother is business-minded. But you can almost remind your brother and pretend that your mother-in-law will come over to play for a while, and ask him to solve the problem by himself. If he's still indifferent, call your parents to talk about him.
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Tell your brother bluntly that you are married, and it is inconvenient for him to live in your house, not to mention that he has a house of his own, and let him move back to his own house, and he is not driving him to sleep on the street, so there is nothing that he can't speak.
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If the older sister lives in the mother's house, the younger brother's daughter-in-law is not qualified to have an opinion; If it's your brother's daughter-in-law's house, you're too tired to stay for five or six days. But it depends on my sister's behavior.
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If the elder sister lives in her mother's house, the younger brother and daughter-in-law are not qualified to have opinions; If it is the home of a younger brother and daughter-in-law, it is too much for you to stay for five or six days. But it also depends on how my sister behaves.
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Should it be? There is no such thing as a should, but if it is really difficult, you can help, but it is not your responsibility.
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-Your approach is open and wise, and I will spend money to supplement my brother.
Maintain the current state, losing your help is now a different way, no one spoils them, and they come back to you.
I've identified you as an ATM. Besides, your parents don't care about your life at all, only their son. You can give it a try, if you say you want to buy a house and lend them some money, try it and see if you can borrow it.
They may not be able to help you if you need money in case of emergency. We must be wise and proper in dealing with this kind of affairs in the state of service.
One: If they come to you again, you must have a mental preparation, first write an IOU for the money you borrowed before, and you must indicate the repayment date, three or five years. That way there will be no insatiable greed.
The more poverty alleviation is helped, the poorer it becomes, and the more it helps, the lazier it becomes. I want to spend money and earn it myself. Do as much as you earn.
Two: You must correct your position and keep in mind that your mother's home is not your home. A lot of women don't believe it.
You'll find out when you get there. A lot of women are divorced, and there are divorced people who live in their parents' house for a period of time, either the sister-in-law gives a face or the brother-in-law is in a mood, and after a long time, the mother-in-law will also drive you out, if you don't believe it, you can give it a try. So your home is your real home.
Don't make your happy home miserable because of the emotions of your mother's family, your husband doesn't understand. Mother-in-law looks down on it and is in trouble. A happy family needs to be managed and maintained by itself.
Three: Adou can't help it, a white-eyed wolf is a white-eyed wolf, spending your money, eating your food, taking your things, and scolding you when he turns around. If I don't give it, I hate you.
Emergencies can be helped, not just emergencies. You need an emergency, they won't help you. And what should be given to you can't be given to you.
Four: If there is a poisonous sore on the body, you must cut it off ruthlessly, for fear that the pain will get bigger and bigger, and it will also be diseased. It will affect their own lives.
You must be principled in what you do. Be sure to get the right sense of proportion.
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