The boyfriend is still in contact with his girlfriend who has been broken up for seven or eight mont

What do you have to talk about with that girl. You should make it clear to your boyfriend that in the world of relationships, there are only two people, either she or you, not that you can solve it by finding another woman. Let him face it, don't run away from it, but really face it.

If he could handle it, the woman wouldn't have come to him again; After all, it's been four or five years, and it's impossible to just let it go, give him a little time, let him know that there is still someone in this world who will treat him better than his ex-girlfriend, and if it still doesn't work after working hard, give up.

Kiss. The problem is not something you can solve by talking to the girl.

The problem is with him, or rather with the two of you.

You are only 3 months old, and it should be a situation when you are in love, which means that you actually have some problems with each other in these three months.

It feels like you don't know and understand him enough, and his recognition and dedication to you are completely insufficient.

Don't you want to think about why? How old are you? How long have they been apart?

I suggest that you have time to talk to your boyfriend, communicate with him seriously, don't be suspicious of him like this, if you want to be with him well, you have to talk about everything, don't hide it in your heart like this, sooner or later it will be a hidden danger...

This should be analyzed on a case-by-case basis.

Think about why you didn't contact in the first place? Judging from personal experience, if it is because of the contradictions of the Cold War, then 7 months is too long. At least one of them has no expectations for this relationship, and maintains an attitude that you don't come to me.

Communication is needed for everything. 7 months is really too long, and it should be explained to both parties, no matter what should be explained in the first place. Get back together, it's better to get together and disperse, let's get a result, don't let yourself be annoyed by this matter!

I think that at the beginning, I was the same, I left my boyfriend to go to another city, **less and less, from the beginning of the day to once a week, once a month, and then slowly not contact, no one said to break up. There are also no obvious contradictions. Later, I heard from the listeners that he was in love, and then I didn't feel sad, but I always felt that my feelings were very complicated, and I never let go.

After another year, I came back, and both of us knew about us from mutual friends, and we still didn't keep in touch, until one day, we met by chance on the street, and we walked up to each other and recognized each other at a distance of 200 meters. I don't know what he was like, but I remember very well that I was in a super complicated mood, my heart was beating so fast that I couldn't put it into words. Then they looked at each other very awkwardly, and they didn't know what to say for a while, and then they didn't know what they said to each other, breaking the embarrassing situation.

I only remember a few words of greeting at the time, and said that if we had the opportunity to have a meal, of course we all agreed. Later, we really had a meal together, and during the meal, we all tacitly asked if the past was okay and how we planned to come back, without mentioning how we had changed. Later, we each fell in love and got married again, without contacting each other and not disturbing each other's lives.

But I will also ask my classmates or friends if they are okay. Many years have passed, and now that I think about it, the reason why we didn't contact at that time was because we both felt that our feelings had appeared, and we were reluctant to say that we broke up. In this way, we slowly let time make a decision for us.

Sorry, that's a bit too much. Your things may not be the same as mine, but you know in your own heart the cause of what happened. So any suggestion is just advice, you need to follow your inner thoughts and find the right way to deal with it.

I hope you deal with it as soon as possible, and I wish you a good mood every day!

Of course it's okay, because this is an ex-boyfriend, and it's still a boyfriend if it's not contacted.

Only by clearly expressing the attitude of breaking up can it be considered a breakup.

Otherwise, no matter how long you don't touch, it won't count as a breakup ......On the other hand, even if you contact each other every day, you may have broken up, and you are just ordinary friends with each other.

The two of them have been in a cold war for seven months, not to mention whether he is willing to break up or not, you also have the answer in your heart! If you see it, delete each other, and if you can't see it, put it down and try to contact it! A hundred years of repairs can be crossed in the same boat.

The Buddha said: The Buddha said that it took 500 times to look back in the past life in exchange for the passing of this life.

The present moment should be cherished at all times.

If you don't contact you for seven months, is it considered a breakup? If he is really busy with work, it should be okay.

Seven months without contacting you and still treating him as a boyfriend?

I broke up with my boyfriend for a few months but later I found out that he was with a woman who was eight years older when he broke up with me, and then he came back to me, and he came back to me, and I listened to his friend, and he said that he had been with that woman for a long time, and he told me, and he said that the woman was eight years older than him, could he really love her? She said she was in it for her money. He said that his relationship with him was not half as deep as the two of us, and then he told me that he had feelings for him later, and you felt that what he said, you felt that this man, he was not in love with that woman later.

Hello, I think he is telling the truth. 1: It is said that women are realistic, and nowadays, men are also very realistic, and finding someone rich can really make you struggle for 10 years less, which is not only applicable to women, but also to men.

2: It is said that there is love over time, for a long time, everywhere, there may be feelings, after all, 8 years old, not 80 years old, outside, 19 years older sister and brother love a lot.